So last night at my friends birthday get together, a guy i had met a couple times before had came with a girl i know and her boyfriend..
so this guy is adorable.. totally cute, hella funny and he and i have great conversations.. so last night..i started flirting with him a little more then usual and i then realized that i may kind of like this guy in a way a little more then a friend.. so here i am flirting it up.. which i have to admit i'm pretty good at... so suddenly.. he starts flirting back MAJOR and that is when i freaked out!i started rambling like an idiot.. making stupid jokes and often i had to respond to him with " ummm can you hold on a second?" and i would run into the house to get some pep-talk from two of my guy friends in the kitchen.... but man i totally couldn't do it! it was almost as though i had forgotten how to play The Game!!!
i'm freaking out about this!
i think i've lost my technique!
have you guys ever had a dry spell when it comes to the Flirting Game?? and does it last forever!?

Nikitha

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i've had the same problems with girls, what i did was start talking to many women at work outside etc, slowly got the hang of it, although all them are good friends

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Originally posted by Nikitha have you guys ever had a dry spell when it comes to the Flirting Game??

Sure!

It started when I was born and shall last till I die

You suck Nikki! LOOOOOOL

EDIT:

Taking off your shirt is always a good ice breaker too, girl!

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Last edited by Jem_hadar on Aug-27-2005 at 18:18

Flirting is overrated.
Just talked like a normal human being and take your cues based on how the converstation goes (or not).
If they're interested, you'll know

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flirting is only good when touching is involved.. which eventually leads to rubbing.

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Originally posted by Fir3start3r Flirting is overrated. Just talked like a normal human being and take your cues based on how the converstation goes (or not). If they're interested, you'll know

+1

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Originally posted by Fir3start3r Flirting is overrated. Just talked like a normal human being and take your cues based on how the converstation goes (or not). If they're interested, you'll know

exactly...

either that or skip the BS and just get to it!

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Originally posted by Jem_hadar You suck Nikki! LOOOOOOL EDIT: Taking off your shirt is always a good ice breaker too, girl! -jem-

Why....

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But flirting is fun

Unless you take it too seriously and choke up and forget how to relax *ahem*

Haha, sounds just like every other girl under 25 - saying one thing and meaning another, and giving the people they like a hard time as soon as those people appear interested.

No offense, but I think that goes under the "immature" column, not the "rusty" column.

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Flirting is an awesome game. I wish I could give you advice, but everyone has their own style. You can't try to use someone else's technique, or it will look forced. My only suggestion is keep practicing. It will come back.