ok don't answer that...but here's the situation...i'm sure most of u have been in a similar one.


i'm in texas now chilling at my dad's...and my boyfriend is gonna go out with his buddy tonight, which is cool, but like the last time we went out with that guy (was a big group of us), he was on the friggin PROWL for ass all night...i had never seen that side to him and my bf was even a little surprised about it. we decided that we think his friend is getting more confident so now he's like mr. horndog walking up to any cute girl and trying to mack on them.

i trust my boyfriend, but i hate when this happens because it's pretty much a given that his buddy is gonna be hitting on sluts all night and sluts usually go out in packs...so some slut is gonna be talking to my hot ass boyfriend when i'm not there.




how do u guys deal with this situation? guys, it's like if your girlfriend had this friend who is notorious for getting hammered at bars and going home with guys...would u feel comfortable with your girlfriend going out with her? and while you're out of the state???

deep inside, i know that my bf would be nice (if a girl chatted him up) but i know he is like whipped on me and he would never do anything to piss me off...but it's just the fact that it's going to happen and i can't do anything about it. am i being stupid?

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Originally posted by notelfreak man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone

forget abt it

no stress

Well, I hope he really loves you, because there's nothing stopping him from cheating on you and you never knowing about it

i hope your bf cheats on you with every single girl he finds and somehow someone video tapes it all and sends the tape to you as a christmas gift

then you'll stop harping about how great he is all the time and will start hating him, leaving the door wide open for me to move in for the kill...to seduce you and bang your brains out

lol j/k

id be making plans for going on the rebound.. chekc your pm for my phone number

Yes, but it's a relatively mild and not altogether uncommon psychosis.

No, youre not psycho, but stressing over it wont change his cheating or not. If you two are right for each other, he wont cheat, and if he does, youll either forgive him or move on. Yes, this is rather fatalist, but Ive found this to be the best way to handle relationships.

One of the most important part of a relationship is trust. If you still haven't established that yet, then it's a lost cause. Yes your boyfriend will cheat, but if you know him really well then there's nothing to worry about.

lol


i really don't think he'll cheat...he's really attached to me and we're very much in love. i'm just really possessive and i don't like how girls are in south florida...they're ruthless. it's like as soon as a guy says he has a girlfriend it's game time for them. and he's really passive and nice. i just hope girls dont get the wrong impression and try to come on to him. i know for a fact though that he would totally represent me and never do anything wrong. and i dont even have to worry about him doing something while drunk because he never drinks. i mean he'll have like one drink, but he never gets drunk. i joke with him about that all the time cuz i think it's a little weird for a guy his age to not like to get drunk ever, but he's just different and he is really into taking care of his body...he won't even take a tylenol


anyway, i just don't want him to be put in a situation that's all. i'd be so pissed. it's a matter of respect in my eyes, not like i think my boyfriend will cheat. it's not like that with him. it's a differnt kind of jealousy. i've not trusted ex boyfriends before and i would fear cheating, but i don't with him. i just fear dumb sluts hanging all over him and making him feel uncomfortable and his buddy expecting him to talk to some chick because her friend is hot...u know that "take one for the team" bullshit...

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Originally posted by notelfreak man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone

So you dont like the fact that his buddy is counting on him to play the wingman? Thatd be fine with me, the wingman never gets laid; they make it possible for their friend to. Why worry about other girls making him uncomfortable?

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Originally posted by stevieboy32808 One of the most important part of a relationship is trust. If you still haven't established that yet, then it's a lost cause. Yes your boyfriend will cheat, but if you know him really well then there's nothing to worry about.

+1

Yet theres that double standard where if this was a guy and a girl was w/ her friend looking for some guys......she would cheat in a second. Real talk!

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Originally posted by tribu So you dont like the fact that his buddy is counting on him to play the wingman? Thatd be fine with me, the wingman never gets laid; they make it possible for their friend to. Why worry about other girls making him uncomfortable?

i thought the wingman had to do more? lol i dunno.

no body likes their significant other to get relentlessly hit on by desperate members of the opposite sex. my boyfriend is extremely attractive and his friend is decent looking...i'm sure they're going to be surrounded by bar chicks looking for "mr. right" all night long. that just makes me uncomfortable that's all. i know the root of all this is just insecurity and it's dumb, but i can't help it.

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Originally posted by notelfreak man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone