no, not from partying...I want to party now more than ever
So my bf and I have been together for over 3 years, and living together for over 2 years. And, well, he's quite a bit older than me so the question of our future (ie. marriage) came up. To be sure we are right for each other we decided to go on a temporary 'break'.
has anyone else gone through something like this?
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Jan-11-2006 14:45
DigDeep
SleazEaddict
Registered: May 2002
Location: Toronto, Ontario
so by break, does that mean you guys are allowed to see other people?
srsly, what constitutes a break and is there a solid reconsiliation date? Who's idea was this?
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you're just a shit version of Moral Hazard. At least he knows what he's talking about.
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lol, i love it when moral feels the need to lay the smack down
Jan-11-2006 15:11
LittlePoonzgirl
Supreme tranceaddict
Registered: Jul 2004
Location: Toronto, Canada
quote:
Originally posted by Moral Hazard
srsly, what constitutes a break and is there a solid reconsiliation date? Who's idea was this?
break=a time to see other people
how long=I don't know, I guess until we are ready (perhaps a few months)
who's idea=both of ours, more him though seeing as I'm still young and have plenty of time...he's not quite as young and doesn't have as much time
LKD, I think unfortunately that 'break' is a 'break-up' *big happy hug to make you feel better*
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Computer games don't affect kids; I mean if Pac-Man affected us as kids, we'd all be running around in darkened rooms, munching magic pills and listening to repetitive electronic music.
Jan-11-2006 15:16
Moral Hazard
Oppressing the 99%
Registered: Mar 2005
Location: with the 1%
quote:
Originally posted by LittlePoonzgirl
break=a time to see other people
how long=I don't know, I guess until we are ready (perhaps a few months)
who's idea=both of ours, more him though seeing as I'm still young and have plenty of time...he's not quite as young and doesn't have as much time
LKD, I think unfortunately that 'break' is a 'break-up' *big happy hug to make you feel better*
a) I would set a definate end date on which you will meet to discuss the events of the past few months and decide your future.
b) What type of contact will the two of you maintain, if any, during this time?
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quote:
Originally posted by RickyM
you're just a shit version of Moral Hazard. At least he knows what he's talking about.
quote:
Originally posted by pkcRAISTLIN
lol, i love it when moral feels the need to lay the smack down
Jan-11-2006 15:19
The Highroller
ad hoc and ad lib
Registered: Oct 2002
Location: Flying over the cuckoo's nest
quote:
Originally posted by LittlePoonzgirl
break=a time to see other people
*Fumbles around for cell phone and quickly looks for Michelle's number*
Jan-11-2006 15:19
LKD
Omni-peasant
Registered: Aug 2001
Location: Its June 18th, 2005, I'm at the Skybar
quote:
Originally posted by LittlePoonzgirl
LKD, I think unfortunately that 'break' is a 'break-up' *big happy hug to make you feel better*
noooooooooooooo
and i have been keeping a reserved sign on me for all these years?? thats it...im back out on the prowl now....
Registered: Oct 2003
Location: Toronto - London UK
In my opinion a "break" is a bunch of B.S... it's like cheating but with an excuse. If you feel the need to see other people, then you're not meant to be together, and/or there are some serious problems in the relationship. I never understood this approach.
Sandra
Jan-11-2006 15:31
DigitalMP
W.T.F., mate?
Registered: Jul 2003
Location:
Re: on a break?
quote:
Originally posted by LittlePoonzgirl
no, not from partying...I want to party now more than ever
So my bf and I have been together for over 3 years, and living together for over 2 years. And, well, he's quite a bit older than me so the question of our future (ie. marriage) came up. To be sure we are right for each other we decided to go on a temporary 'break'.
has anyone else gone through something like this?
wanna come over?
Jan-11-2006 15:32
r5a
snake inverter
Registered: Dec 2003
Location: Toronto
quote:
Originally posted by Summer21
In my opinion a "break" is a bunch of B.S... it's like cheating but with an excuse. If you feel the need to see other people, then you're not meant to be together, and/or there are some serious problems in the relationship. I never understood this approach.