How do you get over someone you love without falling into the trap of "the rebound"?
And, unfortunately being friends with him won't work in my case.
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Jan-05-2007 19:50
david.michael
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Re: probably the 2343th thread about this.
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Originally posted by Caela
How do you get over someone you love without falling into the trap of "the rebound"?
And, unfortunately being friends with him won't work in my case.
Stick it in his butt?
Hmm. Just doesn't work the same when the OP is female.
Jan-05-2007 19:51
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Re: probably the 2343th thread about this.
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Originally posted by Caela
How do you get over someone you love without falling into the trap of "the rebound"?
And, unfortunately being friends with him won't work in my case.
Eat ice cream.
I don't know, it's hard no matter what.
Jan-05-2007 19:52
Moral Hazard
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Personally, I say do the rebound thing. Have a whack of meaningless sex with people you hardly know. It will make you feel better about yourself and help get your self-esteem back to where it needs to be in order to find a good relationship.
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you're just a shit version of Moral Hazard. At least he knows what he's talking about.
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lol, i love it when moral feels the need to lay the smack down
Jan-05-2007 19:52
Caela
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Location: Montana
Re: Re: probably the 2343th thread about this.
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Originally posted by Azia
Eat ice cream.
I don't know, it's hard no matter what.
shara, girl we're going thru the same thing. OMG you should come visit me for my birthday (20th)...we can party it up, there's an afterhours in burlington...say whaaaaaaat?
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Jan-05-2007 19:53
Omega_M
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Kiss a few more girlfriends in front of him and tell him you have finally become a lesb.
Originally posted by twilightki : It feels like something you'd listen to at 4 in the morning, or listen to in your car while you're going in a tunnel.
Jan-05-2007 19:53
lücid
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Registered: Aug 2003
Location: NY
everything you can do to get over someone is basically a rebound response... there's no magical way to just *instantly* be over someone you love(d), but there's plenty of great ways to forget about him! may i suggest...
- drugs
- alcohol
- more drugs
- more alcohol
- lesbianism
- slut it up in multiple states/countries
- poop on his car
- get pregnant
- get a pet
Originally posted by Moral Hazard
Personally, I say do the rebound thing. Have a whack of meaningless sex with people you hardly know. It will make you feel better about yourself and help get your self-esteem back to where it needs to be in order to find a good relationship.
i agree. there is nothing wrong with a rebound.
Jan-05-2007 19:54
Caela
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Location: Montana
shall i mention that he is officially psycho.
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Jan-05-2007 19:54
david.michael
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Re: probably the 2343th thread about this.
quote:
Originally posted by Caela
How do you get over someone you love without falling into the trap of "the rebound"?
And, unfortunately being friends with him won't work in my case.
Move to Latvia?
Jan-05-2007 19:54
Caela
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Registered: Sep 2005
Location: Montana
quote:
Originally posted by lücid
- drugs
- alcohol
- more drugs
- more alcohol
- lesbianism
- slut it up in multiple states/countries
- poop on his car
- get pregnant
- get a pet
best of luck to you.
sounds good...except maybe the last 3.
i need to get myself a good ol english hottie. mmmmmm
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Jan-05-2007 19:56
lücid
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Registered: Aug 2003
Location: NY
quote:
Originally posted by Moral Hazard
Personally, I say do the rebound thing. Have a whack of meaningless sex with people you hardly know. It will make you feel better about yourself and help get your self-esteem back to where it needs to be in order to find a good relationship.
+1
nothing wrong with rebounding, as long as you make it clear to whoever you're getting intimately involved with that you're still getting over your last relationship and that you're not looking for anything serious.