Here is an email i wrote to my friends today... i thought i'd share because i had no idea how a night i'm DJing would ever turn into this

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What up guys, I’ll make this brief. I know I talked to most of you regarding the story with my girlfriend and that scumbag Saturday night. Just to recap, my girlfriend came in with her friends around 10p.m. and went to the bar where there was a long line. Some guy with a backwards blue hat went up to Danielle and was like ‘you’re too pretty to be standing in line’ and Danielle went outside to join her friends instead of being near this guy. Later he came outside, tried to befriend her again and while talking to her friends gave her a drink. At this point she’s had 1 drink at dinner (7pm) and now this second drink at 10pm. Thankfully Sam called her over to get rid of the guy and he left. About an hour later when she was with her girlfriends and Robin (she thinks) the guy came up to her again. This time she walked away with her girlfriends and met me inside. To me this is the point in the story that hit home; he gave her a drink an hour prior and almost ‘checked up’ on her to see if anything had happened. From there on, my gf was near the DJ booth barely able to stand. She was side-stepping, bumping into me and the dresser next to the booth. A bunch of people came up to us, said hi, cheers’d me, asked for some music etc. My gf doesn’t remember ONE instance of any of those encounters. Okay, my gf also weighs 100lbs, maybe she’s just an extreme lightweight? I thought maybe two drinks in 4hrs could make someone drunk… I know not any of us but it’s a petite girl so who knows. So once I saw her like this I told her to stop drinking. She told me she never even got half way thru the drink and trashed it an hour ago. So my gf hasn’t had a drink now in an hour(probably around midnight now) and is getting worse. I leave at 1a.m. because she’s barely standing now so we get in a cab. We made the cab driver pull over 5 different times on the freeway because she kept saying she was going to puke. Every time she went outside she crouched down into a fetal position(still standing) behind the cab. Every time I had to pick her up and put her head over the guard rail where she would dry heave. 5 times, just on the highway. Twice once we got into P.B. I held her head up in the cab but every time I told the cab driver which way to turn her head would fall against the door or into my lap, eyes completely glazed over. We get to my house and as I’m carrying all my equipment, her belongings and her she blacks out and falls straight to the cement, hits her head and goes unconscious. I call 911 because after 30 seconds of shaking her I didn’t know if she was still breathing(single scariest moment of my life). She wakes up, starts watching the traffic go down the road and starts talking gibberish. I get her to stand and again carry her into my house. I try and give her water but she’s having trouble swallowing it. She went to the bathroom over 10 times to puke before she went to bed. I stayed up until about 4 a.m. making sure she was still breathing. I woke up in the morning and she had no clue what happened and puked over 15 times on Sunday, still feeling nauseous. First, I just wanted to say THANK YOU. Her roommates told me multiple times that you guys constantly went up to her said hello and stuck with her for a while. I know you guys didn’t know she was as fucked up as she was but I can only imagine what would of happened if she was by herself for any moment. It scares the fuck out of me. She was quite thankful for it and although she doesn’t’ remember all the people that came up(she barely remembers anything past 11) to her I know it was all of you so thank you. Sam I owe you big and Robin as well. Second, do you guys remember the girl that fell down the stairs? Well last night as I’m digging through Danielle’s story she had a point. The girl that fell down the stairs said that one of those two guys(Minnesota hat and thermal guy) slapped one of her friends. They told me this when I was packing up my equipment and that the girl who fell down the stairs punched the thermal guy in the face. Then Danielle goes, well do you think one of those guys gave that girl a roofie too? Granted I don’t know the girl and I have no idea how much she drank but if you guys saw her she was out of her mind.

anyways i figured i'd share this story because this is the most fucked up thing i've ever seen happen to anyone. yeah my gf gets hit on a lot and yeah i gave her a long fuckin speech about taking drinks from people she doesn't know but i'm wondering if anyone else has had this experience and found a way to deal with it?

i know pressing charges on this is hard because no rape occured(thank god) and roofies are nearly impossible to detect after 24hrs(did some research on it today).