ok so... it was a normal day yesterday, wake up at 5 am in the morn.. go to school, go to volleyball practice, get out of practice and go home..after i get home i go to the mall... in the mall, im going to the vending machines cuz im thirsty.. so this lady comes up to me and asks for my help.. she needed to find an atm machine but she didn't know where they were... the problem was that she didnt speak any english.since i speak spanish and english, i helped her out... that makes me a nice person, now. this is how i am, im a nice person but sometimes its not a good thing.. like yesterday during practice... my coach tells me that i have to be mean .. that i have to stop being so nice to others. now today i hear the same thing, that i have to stop being so nice.. that i have to be mean and not help others because no one will help me. at this point i don't know what to do.
Are you mean? or nice?
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Feb-02-2007 16:19
Zoso
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Registered: Mar 2006
Location: Dirty South, United States
Fuck you AND the horse you rode in on.
(How'm I doin', COR?)
Feb-02-2007 16:21
Amduscias
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Registered: Jan 2007
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quote:
Originally posted by Zoso
Fuck you AND the horse you rode in on.
(How'm I doin', COR?)
Feb-02-2007 16:22
KilldaDJ
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Registered: Sep 2001
Location: tranceaddict wants to know your location
did you just tell us you had a vagina or something?
Feb-02-2007 16:23
Zoso
Banging Gangs!
Registered: Mar 2006
Location: Dirty South, United States
I'm probably "too nice" as well, really. I guess I'm just not a very confrontational person. But when I do snap, I really lose it. Like those people that black out and the next thing they know they're looking at triple homicide charges.
Feb-02-2007 16:24
Amduscias
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Originally posted by Aristronica
...i don't fucking get it...
did you just tell us you had a vagina or something?
noup.. im telling you that i dunno what is better, being mean or nice
Feb-02-2007 16:24
Amduscias
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quote:
Originally posted by Zoso
I'm probably "too nice" as well, really. I guess I'm just not a very confrontational person. But when I do snap, I really lose it. Like those people that black out and the next thing they know they're looking at triple homicide charges.
i am like that.. in a way... i don't kill ppl
Feb-02-2007 16:24
Omega_M
Nostalgia
Registered: Jun 2005
Location: Ether
There can be no absolute answers to such questions.
It's not nice to be mean to people who need your help.
Then again, it's nice to be mean to your opponents while playing volleyball.
You should act appropriately depending upon the situation.
Originally posted by twilightki : It feels like something you'd listen to at 4 in the morning, or listen to in your car while you're going in a tunnel.
Feb-02-2007 16:26
SuspicionVandit
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Registered: Nov 2005
Location: 127.0.0.1
i look mexican (no wait, i AM mexican), but when mexicans come up to me and say "hables espanol" i say "i understand it but i can't speak it, but did you have a question?"
fuckin fags coming here and asking if i speak spanish IN spanish IN america.
When i go to mexico, i try and speak the fucking language first and if i get fucking frustrated, then i apologize (in fucking spanish) and please have patience with me. and if someone says "habla poqito ingles" (i speak a lil english), then i'm like "OH FUCKING GOD WHY DIDN"T YOU SAY THAT IN THE FIRST PLACE ASSHOLE!"
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Feb-02-2007 16:26
bas
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Registered: Jul 2004
Location: Here I Am Baby
Your coach is telling you to be mean because he wants you to be aggressive when you play, I don't think he's telling you to go out there and kick puppies.
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Feb-02-2007 16:30
Amduscias
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quote:
Originally posted by dj_bas
Your coach is telling you to be mean because he wants you to be aggressive when you play, I don't think he's telling you to go out there and kick puppies.
yah i guess so.. but what about the other people???
and it's true.. ive noticed that being nice to others does not make a difference.
and why the hell did you change ur hilarious avatar???
Nice or mean?...which one is better
