Im finally moving out tommorow from home. Im finishing up my last 2 years of undergrad at a university (UC Riverside) that's about 6 hours away from here. I have been all excited about this for the last 6-7 months, but this week I just realized how much I'm going to miss my family and friends. I have a pretty easy life here, my friends are really cool I don't think I could ever make friends like these. It's hard for me to make friends I really don't know why, maybe it's just hard for me to let people get close? Plus, im really bad at meeting girls too, I'm that shy & insecure type of guy. And my parents, as much as I have told myself I can't wait till I get out of this place to their face, I'am really starting to regret it now. They give me everything I need. I just hope when I move I make it out there in the real world. I don't want to have to depend on my parents anymore for anything. I guess I'm scared. Are these just emotions just toying with me? My stomach is feeling nasty like it's just dropping constantly. I'm not crying or anything, just feel depressive I think, again, maybe scared... This is not the first time I have been on my own, the first time I was living in the same place (LA) but I would come home every weekend, drive about 4-6 hours every weekend. I promised myself and my parents I wouldn't do that this time.
Can you guys give me any tips on what to do? Not miss home so much? Make my new place seem a bit more homey... Im going to be living near my cousin, a girl that attends a school nearby. She also lives on her own. My best friend is moving to San Diego in about 2 months which is only like 1.5 hours away from me, so it won't be so bad on the weekends.
Jun-23-2007 23:44
SuspicionVandit
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Registered: Nov 2005
Location: 127.0.0.1
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if you are moving from Riverside to LA, get a gun
if you are moving from LA to riverside, keep the gun, but put on a Panic@the Disco shirt. If you ever get caught without your shirt, your gonna need that gun
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Jun-23-2007 23:48
RandomGirl
Supreme tranceaddict
Registered: Jul 2003
Location:
Get yourself involved in activities. If you are just sitting at home alone all the time, you're going to feel shitter, and have more time to think about the people you're missing.
Join clubs or something at the school.
That's my suggestion.
Jun-23-2007 23:50
Dilmeet
Supreme tranceaddict
Registered: Feb 2006
Location: New York
Re: Moving from home...
Northern Cali to Riverside
Jun-24-2007 00:11
Omega_Blue
Someone Changed My Custom
Registered: Dec 2003
Location: Gone
have any friends there? make new ones
Jun-24-2007 00:18
Clovis
techno jungle shit
Registered: Apr 2004
Location: Los Angeles
Just go down there and go with the flow.
Find people to party with. Go from there.
Jun-24-2007 00:46
bas
Stronger Lover
Registered: Jul 2004
Location: Here I Am Baby
quote:
Originally posted by SuspicionVandit
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if you are moving from Riverside to LA, get a gun
if you are moving from LA to riverside, keep the gun, but put on a Panic@the Disco shirt. If you ever get caught without your shirt, your gonna need that gun
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Jun-24-2007 00:47
shaw
RIP
Registered: Jan 2005
Location: Intergalactic Mimosa Station
quote:
Originally posted by SuspicionVandit
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if you are moving from Riverside to LA, get a gun
if you are moving from LA to riverside, keep the gun, but put on a Panic@the Disco shirt. If you ever get caught without your shirt, your gonna need that gun
Originally posted by Theresa
Get yourself involved in activities. If you are just sitting at home alone all the time, you're going to feel shitter, and have more time to think about the people you're missing.
Join clubs or something at the school.
That's my suggestion.
nice, thanks.
Jun-24-2007 01:01
nefardec
Tranceaddict in tranning
Registered: Oct 2004
Location:
damn, i couldn't wait to move out
i don't miss a thing
Jun-24-2007 01:18
tubularbills
Max Power!
Registered: Apr 2003
Location: Middle of fucking nowhere
quote:
Originally posted by Clovis
Just go down there and go with the flow.
Find people to party with. Go from there.
yup.
oh, and make a c0r cribs episode when you move in
edit,
moving away from 'home' is really a great experience. time will be flying by so much, but it's worth it.
Jun-24-2007 01:23
bas
Stronger Lover
Registered: Jul 2004
Location: Here I Am Baby
quote:
Originally posted by nefardec
damn, i couldn't wait to move out
i don't miss a thing
No shit. I can drink, smoke, listen to music, do whatever the hell I want
Moving from home...
