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| quote: | Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On
Is it really self-control though? I would argue that many forms of supposed self-control are really just projections of fear and guilt that are representations of socially-inspired inhibitions. That is to say, you are not controlling yourself, rather, you are merely forfeiting your willpower and allowing your activities to be swayed by social expectations of conduct. |
That would not be self control at all, but rather social inhibition as you just said. Social inhibitions are compulsions and in these cases, the abstinence is not willing. Willing abstinence is something that would require "self control". It is where your long term goals and your character will prevent you from indulging in impulse (or any other) activities that give short term joy, but cost you in the long run. This requires a lot more efforts and is different from social inhibition. In that case, you face social consequences for indulging in the activity. In this case, you have to face no one but yourself.
| quote: | Of course, this entirely depends on how you would define "an activity you like" but when left to their own devices, do individuals truly have an intrinsic sense of productivity or is productivity as we know it merely another social projection? There are few things humans really need and feel truly compelled to do - eat, sleep, fuck, etc - so perhaps society and its expectations are merely a macrocosm of these innate desires... or - perhaps people live to serve society? Like Government, it has become a machine far larger than any one person could ever control, and we are all subjects to it? |
Whether productivity is a social projection or not would depend on the individual's goals and desires. Monks who meditate in the high Himalayas, disconnected from the society will also have a sense of productivity if they move towards their spiritual goals. Their innate desires transcend your so called innate desires. These concepts are pretty much subjective. I don't see any generalization in this.
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