i realize that this is going to sound pretty pathetic that i would write this here and not talk to 'real' friends about it, but i'm not at the point that i can share this with people i know well and deal with.

tonight i sat down with my husband of 3 years and had a talk because i felt like something was up. He told me he was no longer in love with me and he had cheated on me and he was seriously considering filing for a divorce. We have a 2 year old. This has come to a complete shock to me and i am totally gutted. To those who are on my facebook please don't post anything on my wall, i don't want to make this anymore difficult with him then it already is. I thought i knew him and what we had was real. He told me it was all fake and the only reason he wanted to get married was to have kids. Be careful who you trust.

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Originally posted by wienerschnitzel i realize that this is going to sound pretty pathetic that i would write this here and not talk to 'real' friends about it, but i'm not at the point that i can share this with people i know well and deal with. tonight i sat down with my husband of 3 years and had a talk because i felt like something was up. He told me he was no longer in love with me and he had cheated on me and he was seriously considering filing for a divorce. We have a 2 year old. This has come to a complete shock to me and i am totally gutted. To those who are on my facebook please don't post anything on my wall, i don't want to make this anymore difficult with him then it already is. I thought i knew him and what we had was real. He told me it was all fake and the only reason he wanted to get married was to have kids. Be careful who you trust.

Holy shit, I'm so sorry to hear that

Apologies, I really don't know what to say.

Edit: What a fucking asshole. Jesus.

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WOW sorry to hear about it but I dont know in a way its good that he told you himself rather than you finding out yourself and being told by someone which would hurt 10 times more and you would be badly hurt.........I hope things work out for you.

your subject line said it all..

wow...

my initial recommendation is to sleep on it a couple days and let it soak in... dont be mean or do anything irrational... talk about it in a few days after both your shock and his shock to tell you are worn off a bit..

as bad as a thing this is it's still probably a big deal just to get it off his chest and tell you, so you both probably need a few days to let it sink in... his b/c its now him knowing you know about it now..

i wish you the best..

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Holy fuck.

I wish you all the strength to see this through.

Wow, indeed.

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WIENIES!!!!! NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOoooooooooo!!!!!!!!!

omg i'm sooooooooooooooo sorry! divorce blows so much ass

wienerschnitzel, start documenting everything, as painful as it may be. If you guys don't work this out (god knows, I wouldn't, but that's me) I recommend you take him to the fucking cleaners, legally speaking.

Wish you all the best.

Edit: I just re-read your post. If he's thinking of filing for divorce, then you should do so first, and quickly. Sorry

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Holy shit. Really sorry to hear this. I hope it all works out for you in the end.

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I just don't understand why people would get married for any other reason than love and teamwork. I wish you the best.

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Originally posted by iammesol teamwork

it's marriage--not curling.

Wienie check your PMs.

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