Do you ever feel like you are physically inadequate?
I know I should accept my appearance for what it is but some days i feel like I can never look the way i want to and it makes me depressed. I work really hard to stay fit but at the same time i know there are things about my appearance that i could never change.
Nov-20-2002 20:14
torontotrance
I hath returned
Registered: Apr 2001
Location: Toronto
NO
I've learned to accept myself the way I am and personally I am happy with the way I am.
Nov-20-2002 20:16
Az
took me all the way back
Registered: Aug 2001
Location: Walking to John O'Groats for some spastics
i'd like to be taller, not like I'm that short, just like to be taller
Nov-20-2002 20:17
butterfly
melissa
Registered: Apr 2002
Location: West CoCo, CA
quote:
Originally posted by torontotrance
NO
I've learned to accept myself the way I am and personally I am happy with the way I am.
i thought i had accepted it but lately i have been in this wave of depression about it. maybe it is a combination of insecurity over physical appearance and something else, idk.
Nov-20-2002 20:19
Damo
Senior tranceaddict
Registered: Mar 2002
Location: Toronto
i'm tall and italian...
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Nov-20-2002 20:50
niteshayde
Supreme tranceaddict
Registered: Jul 2002
Location: wut do u care?
yeah...there are times when i feel physically inadequate too...and sometimes, no matter what i do (ie. work out, eat healthy and so forth), i'm still not happy with the way i look. ppl always say its about accepting yourself but that's easier said than done. ironically, it's not like i'm really lacking confidence in myself either...but there's just that tiny chip on your shoulder..and you think to urself..dammit, why can't i look better?
but hey, cheer up...while now you may be in a slump about ur looks, you know there are times when you look great too
Nov-20-2002 21:16
KilldaDJ
birth.school.trance.death
Registered: Sep 2001
Location: tranceaddict wants to know your location
id like to be a bit more muscular
im skinny, but its not all bad, perfect for skating as i have a nice light frame
I always feel bad about the way I look, always have always will. I dunno I think Im just a perfectionist, because whenever I get a compliment, I'll think it's a lie or something. That or low self esteem. Bah
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Nov-20-2002 21:47
Lira
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Registered: Nov 2001
Location: Brasilia, Brazil
I don't really like my skin (not the colour, I have some scars... not that visible, but they bother me)
quote:
Originally posted by Damo
i'm tall and italian...
I'm Brazilian and confused
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Nov-20-2002 22:00
biznology
Supreme tranceaddict
Registered: Dec 2000
Location:
im tall and lanky...
actually im supposedly 'gangly' since my friend is 'the lank'
its cool he has a special dance called the lank, its a great party move...
seriously tho, i think the only thing that keeps me from really worrying about appearance too much is:
A)find out what looks like shit to me(on others) that i can change about myself, do so...
B)understand the freaky parts of myself that i could do without...
C)realize im just a lanky bastard, and
D)look at scary looking people,
E)feel better about myself, AND FINALLY,
F)realize that EVERYONE thinks they look like shit, so everyone is equal on that matter of fact, and then you can start to not worry about what you or others truly think!
-theoretically-
late|
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Nov-20-2002 22:34
Arbiter
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Registered: May 2002
Location:
Losers underestimate themselves; winners overestimate themselves;
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Nov-20-2002 22:44
High Spirit
Senior tranceaddict
Registered: Aug 2002
Location: Toronto, Canada
quote:
Originally posted by Damo
i'm tall and italian...
... how tall are you?
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