Originally posted by AlphaStarred
Guys generally don't get hit on, they get come hither signals.
Some guys get hit on a fair bit. I used to a fair bit. It's nowhere near as much as girls do though. It really depends on the situation.
If you're going to an rnb club or something then no doubt girls will get hit on loads but guys won't be as much. Wheras if it's somewhere that's not really known for that sortof thing it's a bit more even but still heavily skewed towards girls (by a 4-1 or so ratio perhaps).
Girls usually aren't as upfront either. Girls do occasionally use semi obvious lines like "I think I know you from somewhere" but even still it's rare. You sometimes notice someone talking to you who just seems super interested in everything you have to say and like they're trying to play it cool. They might not upfront compliment you though. You can tell after it's happened a few times, but really the only way to really know is if they're complimenting you physically or if they suddenly lose interest and look sad when you tell them you have a gf.
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Originally posted by Dykes_on_Jay
Hitting on someone is expressing your interest in them. Flirting is what unhappy married women do to feel good about themselves.
I've always thought of flirting as the more subtle thing. If a girl at a club comes up to me and starts talking to me in a way that suggests she wants to ask me out then that's definitely being hit on. If I'm already talking to someone for a while and they start dropping hints then that's flirting.
Registered: May 2008
Location: The Pacific Northwest, of course
Yea unless a girl is super obvious when I'm out then it's not gunna take... I've talked to a girl for like 45 minutes outside of a club and not realized what was up till after she left disappointed looking and I've been dragged out by the wrist (that worked).
Usually when I'm totally sloshed and someplace for the music and the music is good then I'm going to be fairly oblivious.
On another note kinda feel dumb having gone out last night (before Halloween) and feeling too shit to go out tonight. Fell asleep at 10pm.fail.
Nov-01-2014 09:13
Dykes_on_Jay
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This is like a group of double amputees trying to lecture on the finer points of dunking a basketball.
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Nov-01-2014 09:52
Joss Weatherby
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Registered: May 2008
Location: The Pacific Northwest, of course
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Originally posted by Dykes_on_Jay
This is like a group of double amputees trying to lecture on the finer points of dunking a basketball.
I am just saying how it is for me. I've always been slow on the uptake when it comes to girls.
Nov-01-2014 17:42
Lagrangian
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Job interview yesterday went quite well. I may actually get a gig programming for a living soon finally. Second interview is Monday.
Nov-06-2014 23:57
Sushipunk
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Originally posted by Vector A
Job interview yesterday went quite well. I may actually get a gig programming for a living soon finally. Second interview is Monday.
