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| quote: | Originally posted by AlphaStarred
Guys generally don't get hit on, they get come hither signals. |
Some guys get hit on a fair bit. I used to a fair bit. It's nowhere near as much as girls do though. It really depends on the situation.
If you're going to an rnb club or something then no doubt girls will get hit on loads but guys won't be as much. Wheras if it's somewhere that's not really known for that sortof thing it's a bit more even but still heavily skewed towards girls (by a 4-1 or so ratio perhaps).
Girls usually aren't as upfront either. Girls do occasionally use semi obvious lines like "I think I know you from somewhere" but even still it's rare. You sometimes notice someone talking to you who just seems super interested in everything you have to say and like they're trying to play it cool. They might not upfront compliment you though. You can tell after it's happened a few times, but really the only way to really know is if they're complimenting you physically or if they suddenly lose interest and look sad when you tell them you have a gf.
| quote: | Originally posted by Dykes_on_Jay
Hitting on someone is expressing your interest in them. Flirting is what unhappy married women do to feel good about themselves. |
I've always thought of flirting as the more subtle thing. If a girl at a club comes up to me and starts talking to me in a way that suggests she wants to ask me out then that's definitely being hit on. If I'm already talking to someone for a while and they start dropping hints then that's flirting.
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