|Originally posted by LAdazeNYnights |
lol and this is the hard line answer from the other side.
i fucking love it.
i'm erring more towards hal's approach, but i do agree with you in that there's no way i'm letting another guy sleep in the same bed as my girl...that pretty much how i feel.
but i also feel steamrolled because, since it's already decided, i either have to just deal with it and be sad, get into a fight and be really upset and then sad, or tell her to change it and then i look like an ass hole. i feel like i've already lost
If it was decided between the two of them without your feelings being taken into account then that's bullshit to begin with. Just because you're the guy doesn't mean you don't have feelings that should be seriously considered, especially when it involves something like this.
Either she likes/loves (not sure what stage of the relationship you're in) you enough to compromise or she doesn't. Letting it bother you and ignoring it is the worst thing you can do, though. Putting it on the table will not only make you feel better internally, but it will also test your relationship and let you know where you stand with her.