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JEO
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Registered: Jan 2010
Location: ATH

I had an inkling that you're dealing with an actual sociopath here, and this, unless proposed by her lawyer without asking her first or something, just reinforces my belief. I recommend finding some sort of help for recognizing signs in your kids of her trying to isolate you from them or her trying to change their perception of you. As I understand it, you started your relationship with her by her talking shit about her ex. Who knows if any of that was true? She's probably done the same to her new boyfriend regarding you, and I wouldn't rule out her badmouthing you to your kids on a level you'll find unbelievable once you uncover what she's been saying. She's already shown you she's an especially unreliable person.

Mar-27-2024 13:01 Finland

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Magadansky
Trees of Psychedelia

Registered: Jun 2006
Location: Sofia

I just decided to check how is the forum going after so many years and I am very sad to see this thread.

This sounds terrible, Nick, and I know there is hardly any quick remedy. We've never met but I know you are a great guy who deserves much better than what this woman has made you go through.

I second the advice not to go into the dark path of alcohol/ self-depression and similar as it will never be a solution. If there weren't any kids, what I would've also recommend, based on what you have shared, to communicate only via your lawyer and cut off any contact with her, but that would be nearly impossible. I think you should try though to make the case that she is not stable and therefore not reliable as a mother. Consult with your lawyer if there is any chance to win full custody?

Anyway, stay strong and a new light will come soon enough, I am sure!

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Apr-04-2024 13:29 Bulgaria

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SPANIARD
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Registered: Jan 2004
Location: Toronto,Ontario

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Originally posted by Magadansky
I just decided to check how is the forum going after so many years and I am very sad to see this thread.

This sounds terrible, Nick, and I know there is hardly any quick remedy. We've never met but I know you are a great guy who deserves much better than what this woman has made you go through.

I second the advice not to go into the dark path of alcohol/ self-depression and similar as it will never be a solution. If there weren't any kids, what I would've also recommend, based on what you have shared, to communicate only via your lawyer and cut off any contact with her, but that would be nearly impossible. I think you should try though to make the case that she is not stable and therefore not reliable as a mother. Consult with your lawyer if there is any chance to win full custody?

Anyway, stay strong and a new light will come soon enough, I am sure!

Great to see you again man, hope all is well. Cheers.

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