so I guess she was out of your league?

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Originally posted by Redd so I guess she was out of your league?

Not my type anymore.

all good man, I would have just asked her if I was in doubt. If I didn't it would have haunted me forever. OCD you know.

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1. it's her and you go "oh, hi, it's me from [whatever]" "cool beans, later".
2. it's not her and you go "okay sorry, have a nice day".

either way you win

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Originally posted by Redd all good man, I would have just asked her if I was in doubt. If I didn't it would have haunted me forever. OCD you know.

Meh. Four years ago, probably would have kept me up at night. I haven't talked to her in five years, and don't particularly want to run into her again. She was manipulative and turned into a pretty shit friend for someone who I had known since I was like 8.

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Originally posted by Redd 1. it's her and you go "oh, hi, it's me from [whatever]" "cool beans, later". 2. it's not her and you go "okay sorry, have a nice day". either way you win

Read my post above, not worth the risk.

four years ago and you still remember it and care enough to tell us about it. yeah wouldn't have been better to just ask her. my autism is tingling

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never mind, misread your post.

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Originally posted by Redd all good man, I would have just asked her if I was in doubt. If I didn't it would have haunted me forever. OCD you know.

I wouldn't call it OCD. If it's someone he says he wants back in his life, it's only natural he would confirm.

Hell, if I were single and saw someone remotely interesting, I'd ask if it's someone I know (if it looked like someone I know), and if it wasn't I'd introduce myself either way

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Originally posted by Lira I wouldn't call it OCD. If it's someone he says he wants back in his life, it's only natural he would confirm. Hell, if I were single and saw someone remotely similar, I'd ask if it was her and, if it wasn't I'd introduce myself either way

I just call it OCD because it's something that can haunt the shit out of you if you don't figure it out. At least that's how it works for me. My only real OCD is washing my hands. Not a bad one, really.

And yeah, that's why I called him a flamboyant beta.

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Originally posted by Redd four years ago and you still remember it and care enough to tell us about it. yeah wouldn't have been better to just ask her. my autism is tingling

We were best friends and grew up together, she was like a younger sister, but in HS, maybe earlier I got a crush on her pretty hard, confessed eventually (thanks to TA lol) and was rejected. We remained friends, and it was fine for a while, but she eventually got to just be a shitty friend/person. She'd constantly pull stupid shit, and towards the end anytime I'd get mad at her about stuff she'd be doing she'd throw the "I don't love you and never will" thing in my face in an attempt to just shut me down. She did that about 3 or 4 times and we grew apart, slowly getting longer between talking to each other. The last time we saw each other we didn't even have a fight, but a few weeks later I found out that in HS she had a crush on my best friends brother in law, who was basically the biggest piece of redneck retard ever, and I was drunk and emailed her and basically called her a POS and that it was funny that a manwhore like my friends brother in law wouldn't even go out with her, and well that was that. Haven't talked since.

Sucks though, cause her family was friends with my family, and her parents were awesome and really liked my brother and I, we were like each others parent's kids growing up. My dad has actually talked to her more in the last 5 years than I have.

But yea, in the last year or two I haven't really given a fuck about her. I realized she was never worth that emotional effort, and the only thing that our friendship had going for each other was nostalgia. We weren't even "good" friends when we hung out. We'd just lay around and watch TV and not even talk or do anything, we'd act like we were 10 again. Totally pointless and more of a crutch than a friendship.