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Originally posted by Chimney So, I'm a 5th year student. Recently, I've been talking to this 1st year chick, going out etc. She tells me two days ago that she has recently come out of a 4-year old one and isn't ready for a new one and if I'd be willing to wait. Then she tells me she doesn't want anything more than friendship. Last night there was this party. We see eachother, talk. She grabs my ass, kisses me (including bites on neck and lips) and all in all goes around in mind-games. At one point I tell her "do you think you make the rules, youngling? (sounds better in my language)" at which point she tells me "well you oldies are too busy doing this" then grabs my hand with hers, puts it on her ass and squeezes. Afterwards she tells me that I'll never have her and refuses my attempt to take her at my place. All in all, what's your take on this? Is she just playing around with me?

Give her the boot lol, she's a waste of time

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Met with her yesterday (on her request) again and some basically the same things happened. Today she told me that I came at a "wrong point in her life". Told her to fuck off and that she's wasting my time..roughly 8 hours later she writes to me again. Didn't even bother replying.

Good man

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Umm.. from the story from the party, it seems as though you were moving like a slug, and not like a cheetah, which is what you should have done. You've obviously been wasting time, if she has to take your hand and grab her ass with it. What were you doing? Talking philosophy or something? Lol.
I mean, I think it's pretty obvious that she wanted you to to fuck her right then and there, quite possibly even in the livingroom.

You said "attempt to take her at my place".
Do you mean you tried to take her back to your place, or were you at your place and you were trying to bone her?
I'd think it was the first one, when looking at the rest of your grammar style, but not sure about that one, and it kinda makes a big difference :P

Anyways, yeah. Some chicks only leave open a window for like 5 minutes,
and if you don't fly in right away, you're gonna be stuck outside all cold and lonely.

And yeah, she might not have wanted anything more than a dick, buuuut at least you'd stand a greater chance, given that your performance was above par.

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Originally posted by itsamemario ...

We were at some party. While she was biting my ear/lip she told me I'd never have her. First I thought it was just some tease. There are several factors involved such as the fact that she was there with a group of friends she didn't want to leave and probably out of spite, regardless how much she'd want me, she wouldn't have followed with me home that night anyway.

This morning I woke up to an SMS with her telling me that "it's best we left it the way things are before it gets too serious" and being overall aggressive.

So, why the fuck does she keep contacting me then, if she doesn't want a relationship and isn't the night-stand type of girl, according to her? Since being friends is already out-played by now.

I dunno dude, seems to me like she's the kind of girl who enjoys getting fucked after a punch to the face, bra.

But hey, I'm not expert on the matter. Try sending a pm to russell. I hear he's quite the lady-man.. Err I mean ladies man.

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Originally posted by Chimney We were at some party. While she was biting my ear/lip she told me I'd never have her. First I thought it was just some tease. There are several factors involved such as the fact that she was there with a group of friends she didn't want to leave and probably out of spite, regardless how much she'd want me, she wouldn't have followed with me home that night anyway. This morning I woke up to an SMS with her telling me that "it's best we left it the way things are before it gets too serious" and being overall aggressive. So, why the fuck does she keep contacting me then, if she doesn't want a relationship and isn't the night-stand type of girl, according to her? Since being friends is already out-played by now.

She's being a girl, I'd keep ignoring her and move on to other more receptive floosies


edit: this was gold, I wish you had left it there and slammed a door in her face or something

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At one point I tell her "do you think you make the rules, youngling?

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Originally posted by FuzzQi She's being a girl, I'd keep ignoring her and move on to other more receptive floosies

Dunno man, I've been with a couple of women in my life and none have been so indirect and ****ish about it. She told me she likes me, but not enough to break her "no-relationship" principles.

What do you want to do about it?

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There's nothing to be done.

Seems legit

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