So I'm going out with this attractive girl this weekend... both she and I know that it's nothing serious and just a fling (with hopefully "some" on the first date)... should I pay for her meal?

The guy should always pay on the first couple of dates. Thats why the first couple of dates should be kept simple nothing too expensive. That way you wont waste too much money on someone that you dont know if you'll ever go out with again.

If you've been dating a girl for more than a month or so then its allright if she pays imo.

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Here what i do to try to avoid paying:tell the girl if she wants to play paper rock scissors and who ever loses pays.

If you lose fuck it you knew your were going to pay any ways but if you win cool.Let the bitch pay

Paying for an expensive meals wont get u laid......at least it doesnt work for me

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First couple of dates, I believe, the guy should pay. However, there is a $40 limit rule I swear by; like "The_One" said, why blow a lot of your hard earned cash on a chick you might never sleep with.

nah I don't pay the first time, you're just friends... then after more times I pay and even she pays sometimes, but generally we share the costs.

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Not necessarily at the first time but later yes...

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i would. but i'm a smooth operator hehehe

if u want to create a good first impression i say yes...or decide when the check comes...esp. if u wanna date her again...it never hurts

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Originally posted by TweeK Here what i do to try to avoid paying:tell the girl if she wants to play paper rock scissors and who ever loses pays. If you lose fuck it you knew your were going to pay any ways but if you win cool.Let the bitch pay Paying for an expensive meals wont get u laid......at least it doesnt work for me

what a shocker...


i think chivalry is a big turn on for a lot of women, and shamefully, it's very rare these days.

i say you should pay absolutely. if you ask someone to join you for dinner and then expect them to pay for even half, that's just tacky. so even if a girl asks out a guy, then she should pay, because she asked for his company...and vice versa

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Originally posted by notelfreak man i can't believe i tried to come off as responsible in that other thread, i am so full of shit just don't tell anyone

guys must pay for the ladies its a must... haha well atleast i do, its a nice thing to do