People who say they will show up to be there for you but instead they can't show up cause the did their body weight in cocaine and can't function. Or years of support and attendance.. counts for what in the end?? Nothing!
people who are supposed to meet you for dinner but smoke too much pot and eat at home leaving you going ummmmm... hello?
People who live 3 states away, you make plans to go visit and see some dj, first being your birthday.. they don't show and owe ya one... same for the next... then on the third try... same thing! Despite a months notice to get your shit together??
Roommates who get fired from their job and spend what little money they have left on 40-bags rather than contributing to rent.
WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE!!!!!!?????
I guess everyone kinda goes through those phases where they think they can't rely on anyone and nothing around you is real.
Sometimes I think that if I weren't into EDM I wouldn't be surrounded by completed idiots/douchebags/selfish junkies.
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Track names aren't more important than peoples names.
Parties are more important than who does or doesn't play them.
Where you play isn't as important as how you play.
EDM is a journey. Not a destination.
Mar-07-2007 00:57
Frenchie
life in technocolor
Registered: Feb 2006
Location: Intergalactic Planetary
I feel this post! Been through this, a lot.
Mar-07-2007 01:05
AndreaCKY772
Supreme tranceaddict
Registered: Mar 2006
Location: Near Boston, MA
i'm sorry.... i have had my share of friends who i shouldn't consider real friends that do a lot of nonsense and you can't keep pushing it aside for letting you down after a certain point...
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AndreaCKY772. just. so. dumb.
Mar-07-2007 01:09
chach
muppets
Registered: Mar 2005
Location: babie
the more reason to do hard drugs..
Mar-07-2007 01:12
Boomer187
Spicy Hotdog
Registered: Aug 2001
Location: USA
you need new friends, you have shitty ones.
Mar-07-2007 01:13
ColorDancer
Find Your Roots
Registered: Jul 2005
Location:
But part of me feels like I should know better.
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Track names aren't more important than peoples names.
Parties are more important than who does or doesn't play them.
Where you play isn't as important as how you play.
EDM is a journey. Not a destination.
Mar-07-2007 01:16
gehzumteufel
In your ass
Registered: Nov 2005
Location: so cal
quote:
Originally posted by Boomer187
you need new friends, you have shitty ones.
i agree with this very much.
ive been through some bad roommate situations and i have dumped most of those so called "friends." this is also one of the reasons why i dont use the word friend so loosely anymore. you are an acquaintance until i consider you a friend. this means that i trust you to be just as good a friend that i am. i can rely on you. you can rely on me.
Mar-07-2007 01:24
lücid
electric girl
Registered: Aug 2003
Location: NY
don't you think it's kind of unfair to blame your poor decisions in friendships on EDM? not everyone who enjoys dance music is a sketchball... in fact most of my friends are into EDM, and they aren't unreliable wastoid drug-addicts like the people you speak of.
it seems that most people who make poor decisions always look for somewhere else to place the blame.
Originally posted by Boomer187
you need new friends, you have shitty ones.
+1
Reminded me that twice in my life, I asked a girl out, she said "yes", made plans with her and then she would simply disappear. The last time it happened, I called the girl and she said she couldn't remember what day of the week it was - patiently, I forgave her and we met.
That was the worst date I've ever had in my whole life
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Mar-07-2007 01:32
igottaknow
PerfectTeeth R4 Dinosaurs
Registered: Feb 2001
Location: The Future
There are lots of leeches and douche bags in the world. The quicker you can identify and avoid them the better your life will be.
Mar-07-2007 01:39
ColorDancer
Find Your Roots
Registered: Jul 2005
Location:
quote:
Originally posted by lücid
don't you think it's kind of unfair to blame your poor decisions in friendships on EDM? not everyone who enjoys dance music is a sketchball... in fact most of my friends are into EDM, and they aren't unreliable wastoid drug-addicts like the people you speak of.
it seems that most people who make poor decisions always look for somewhere else to place the blame.
Maybe... and definately probable. I'm not trying to blame EDM, but it's the medium through which I make bad decisions then.... people who seem one way... then end up another.
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There are lots of leeches and douche bags in the world. The quicker you can identify and avoid them the better your life will be.
And I'm not good at it; obviously. I get dupped all the time.
But how can you really go about re-vamping everyhting like that? It's not like you can return the people you know to blockbuster and check out new ones. You can't go to the bar and stroll up to someone and go "hey... wanna be friends?" they'll think you're a nutjob!
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Track names aren't more important than peoples names.
Parties are more important than who does or doesn't play them.
Where you play isn't as important as how you play.
EDM is a journey. Not a destination.
Mar-07-2007 01:43
Lebezniatnikov
Stupidity Annoys Me
Registered: Feb 2004
Location: DC
It seems to me that you've been pretty unlucky in who you have around you. It has to be hard to just leave a group of friends behind, but I'd be on the lookout for opportunities to hang with new people. There are so many cool, interesting people out there. Now you just have to cross paths with them.
