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How to scold a friend that may have feelings for me
I'm kinda pissed off at a good friend of mine, and there's no ongoing drama in the CORe right now, so I decided to make a little contribution. Here's a brief summary of what happened:
- Said friend phones me and tells she's just entered university. Asks me if I've got some reading material that may be useful for her, and I tell her to wait a couple of months because I was busy at the moment and I wanted to browse my library (and my mum's) so I could see what I could get her;
- After a couple of months, I phone her back and tell her she can pick up the stuff she wanted. As I found out she had just got a boyfriend, I invited both of them over, as I usually do with my friends. She said she couldn't go because she was busy;
- Because she's a good friend, and being someone who likes to share books, I told her she could pick up the most basic stuff in my office, at university. She never did. Whenever we met, she didn't say a word about it, and I just didn't bother because it's not like I'm the one that asked for a favour anyway;
- I now want to throat punch her now for having made me do all that for nothing.
And, I'd probably do that - I'm not usually mad at anyone, but this was bang out of order... and the only reason why I didn't tell her to bugger off is because she's not like that at all. And because her recent behaviour puzzled me.
She seems to have gone bonkers after I told her I got engaged (and that's around the time she got her boyfriend as well, which would mean her feelings would no long be a problem), and I suspected, long before that, that she had feelings for me (hell, even people who didn't know me noticed that), but I decided to simply overlook it because I'm fine with my current relationship, thank you. So, I feel it all may have happened because she's avoiding me. Hopefully, I'm wrong.
But, in case I'm right, how can I scold her without giving her any room to even mention this possibility? I'm not used to arguing with friends, and I don't want to simply forget and forgive because I am irate 
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