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Girlfriend and i Broke up.. HELPHELPLEHELEPE (pg. 2)
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| Orbax |
*Pet Peeve*
Who the cares about sex? Its the easiest thing on earth to get, and thats including nitrogen.
Relationships are your goal. but remember that college is looming in the future and is the great breaker up-er. Friends with benefits is fine as long as no sex (that means oral too punks).
I dunno. Easiest way to have fun and get people interested in you so you are choosing...dont look for a girlfriend. Women can smell a seeker....ok new plan. Watch Tao of Steve and you will be enlightened, and that isnt said facetiously.
| quote: | | This is SOOO true! WORD to that... i know this cause i finally found a girl with which i can sleep, wake up, and think "This is the girl i want, nothing else matters" |
congrats man. Thats what life is about |
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| piggy |
| Why did you go into this relationship by setting such restrictions on each other? Thats ridiculous, you obviously did not trust her. Trust is so important in any relationship. |
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| DJ RozzeR |
| What you have too remember is that she is 16 and i don't think unless you both know its true love that it was gonna work, ive had a few long relationships which of all failed after 6-7 months , due to the same thing, i use to go clubbing everyweek and id see loadsa opputunity and sometimes i could not resist the booty on the dance floor, as im now 20 those pulling days are over esp in clubs , my current g/f is great and means a lot to me, |
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| denny_del_torre |
| quote: | Originally posted by LayzZy
Never B the Same
Sometimes u sit and u think n wonder if he can see it in ur eyes..can he tell u still like him..that there is nottin u would rather think about than the times he held u in his arms..can he see the tears? Because they sure r there.. deep down along with the pain and the loneliness..able to feel complete u smile through it all..u talk like u used to..the "best of friends" n everytime he smiles at u, a little hope springs up and u hug him good-bye like its nothing.. while all u want 2 do is hold on 4ever, but u let go smile and walk away..then cry all the way home cuz u know it will never b the same.
~ my fav poem~
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Great poem by the way! It excactly reflects how I feel these days! |
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| butterfly |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
Some points.
1) It isnt that you want to be free. Find the right girl and you ARE free. So dont feed her bull lines that will make her hate men. Realize what your issues are and say that it is YOU. You dont want to be in a relationship right now, YOU cant handle the stress. Even if it is somehow her fault women are so ed up from everything they dont need to be told that they arent the hottest chick in the world, or anything. It is always your fault. You will recover. They wont
2) Dont be a in playah
3) Fate doesnt work in relationships. You want it to work out? Workk your ing ass off to make it work or youll end up like every other ing gen X'er with a 50% divorce rate. Relationships arent like the movies! it isnt easy! its a lot of bull and its HARD. but its worth it. Unless its the wrong one. Then you shouldnt have gone this far
4) It can never be the same. The trust is shattered forever. I just hope you can live with the fact that you ed it up. If she was the wrong girl you probably can live through it.
5) it IS better being single. The only time its not better being single is when you have the right girl. Which is hard to find. Dont get into relationships because you are bored or lonely.
my 2c |
this is one of the most brilliant things I have ever read in chillout. Orbax, I dont know if you are a guy or a girl, but if you are a guy you have just imcreased my estimation of the male sex.
Lazy....
My opinion on this doesnt really have to do with your choice at all... You need to figure out what is right for you. But frankly, i think at 17 you need to be figuring out who you are and you cant truly do that in relationships like what you are talking about. you need freedom to grow and be yourself. and i think the same goes for her... she needs to learn that you dont need to have someone to be happy.
one more thing...
| quote: | | Who the cares about sex? Its the easiest thing on earth to get, and thats including nitrogen. |
i definitely have to disagree on this one... sure it might be easier to get, but good sex isnt necessarily... |
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| UWM |
| quote: | Originally posted by butterfly
i definitely have to disagree on this one... sure it might be easier to get, but good sex isnt necessarily... |
Yeah and getting it from who you want isn't always the easiest either. |
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| bassaholix |
You are a loser...
sorry...
you are too dumb @ 17 to be saying the you said to her...
listen to yourself..
its not you.. i just can't commit ...
ill bore of anyone...
HAHAHA
Thats just plain dumb...
your first serious relationship... i think its UR FIRST RELATIONSHIP EVER!!!
Sorry but thats just plain naive!
Of course she dumped ur ass... and now its too late to say "im sorry"
People learn from their mistakes... but seriously.. common sense should have prevailed...... |
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| Mister_Michel |
IF I would be in that situation, and would feel really right about that girl, then I definitely would not have done that. If you truly thought that she was the right girl for you then you would have done everything from keeping her slip away from you instead of pushing her away.
By the way, I hope you realize that no matter what, it can never be the same with that girl again... You ruined it |
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| MisterOpus1 |
God damn you make me feel so freakin' old! Sometimes I forget just how old I am until I see the age of folks on this website. Then I realize, "! I'm twenty-ing-nine years old!"
Enjoy your youth my friend. Enjoy life. Enjoy your exploration of the opposite sex (or the same sex if that's your thing). You've heard a number of people in here say to you, "you're only 17, get over it." Well, I'm sure that doesn't necessarily make you feel any better, so I'll try not to say the same. But you do have quite a bit of life and experiences with women ahead of you, so don't fret too much. You'll likely be dating a number of women here in the near future. Enjoy it to the fullest. It's a time of finding out which one fits you the best.
Right now is a time of creating a balance of not taking relationships too seriously, but at the same time taking them serious enough to see what works for you. And most importantly, you learn to give more than you take. In fact, eventually you'll come to a point with some girl where you won't even realize that you're giving more than you're taking; you won't even care about taking - and that will be the one for you.
And then all your friends will make fun of you, and call you a "-whipped tallywhacker", and will crack jokes about you being "soft". Ahh, they get over it. Deep down, they truly wish they had the same. Sorry, all guys do eventually. And then they get you absolutely trashed for your Bachelor party, and they grab the stinkiest stripper in the world to sit on your face and give you Jager shots off her hairy boobs, and then you show up to your wedding feeling like a freight train ran through your head, and you pass out before you even enter the chapel, then proceed to yak some ugly dark reddish/brownish color on your new mother-in-law just before you say, "I'm fine Occifer Friendly" when you should have said, "I do", then you stumble and bang your head on one of the steps because some evil bastards with the last names "Meister" and "Daniels" keeps tilting the frickin' church all around like some sick carnival fun house, and you have to get stiches before you even attempt to go to the wedding reception, all the while your friends are crapping in their pants from laughing so hard at what they did to you.
This is why I didn't invite a handful of college buddies to my wedding. And as a result, things went quite smoothly, without any of the above mentioned (because these s threatened this stuff above). So remember that. You've got bigger problems than which girl to date. Pick your friends wisely, or else the above can happen to you once you find the right girl.
P.S.: Did anyone really think all that crap happened to me? My wife wouldn't have married me whatsoever if it did, no way! Christ, I wouldn't have married me either! Good story though, ehh? |
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| butterfly |
| quote: | Originally posted by MisterOpus1
God damn you make me feel so freakin' old! Sometimes I forget just how old I am until I see the age of folks on this website. Then I realize, "! I'm twenty-ing-nine years old!"
Enjoy your youth my friend. Enjoy life. Enjoy your exploration of the opposite sex (or the same sex if that's your thing). You've heard a number of people in here say to you, "you're only 17, get over it." Well, I'm sure that doesn't necessarily make you feel any better, so I'll try not to say the same. But you do have quite a bit of life and experiences with women ahead of you, so don't fret too much. You'll likely be dating a number of women here in the near future. Enjoy it to the fullest. It's a time of finding out which one fits you the best.
Right now is a time of creating a balance of not taking relationships too seriously, but at the same time taking them serious enough to see what works for you. And most importantly, you learn to give more than you take. In fact, eventually you'll come to a point with some girl where you won't even realize that you're giving more than you're taking; you won't even care about taking - and that will be the one for you.
And then all your friends will make fun of you, and call you a "-whipped tallywhacker", and will crack jokes about you being "soft". Ahh, they get over it. Deep down, they truly wish they had the same. Sorry, all guys do eventually. And then they get you absolutely trashed for your Bachelor party, and they grab the stinkiest stripper in the world to sit on your face and give you Jager shots off her hairy boobs, and then you show up to your wedding feeling like a freight train ran through your head, and you pass out before you even enter the chapel, then proceed to yak some ugly dark reddish/brownish color on your new mother-in-law just before you say, "I'm fine Occifer Friendly" when you should have said, "I do", then you stumble and bang your head on one of the steps because some evil bastards with the last names "Meister" and "Daniels" keeps tilting the frickin' church all around like some sick carnival fun house, and you have to get stiches before you even attempt to go to the wedding reception, all the while your friends are crapping in their pants from laughing so hard at what they did to you.
This is why I didn't invite a handful of college buddies to my wedding. And as a result, things went quite smoothly, without any of the above mentioned (because these s threatened this stuff above). So remember that. You've got bigger problems than which girl to date. Pick your friends wisely, or else the above can happen to you once you find the right girl.
P.S.: Did anyone really think all that crap happened to me? My wife wouldn't have married me whatsoever if it did, no way! Christ, I wouldn't have married me either! Good story though, ehh? |
lol...... not beleiveable at all.... |
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| LayzZy |
| lol thx for the reply's..... but ya were still gona be friends... n i dont give a if its never gone be the same.... in a way i do... in a way i dont.... cuz once i get back into it... i kno im gona wana get out.... i still like and care for her.. more then ne other girl.. and thats good enough for now... ANd first off ing all she didnt dump my ass.... im the one who brought up the whole idea... so i dono what u guy's are twistin and turning... neway... life goes on and summer is here!.... enjoy |
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| Orbax |
| quote: | Originally posted by butterfly
Orbax, I dont know if you are a guy or a girl, but if you are a guy you have just imcreased my estimation of the male sex. |
Yeah, im a guy.
| quote: | | i definitely have to disagree on this one... sure it might be easier to get, but good sex isnt necessarily... |
hehe, true. But good sex comes (get it?) with a good relationship so, wait, whats my point. I dunno. but yeah.
| quote: | | lol thx for the reply's..... but ya were still gona be friends... n i dont give a if its never gone be the same.... in a way i do... in a way i dont.... cuz once i get back into it... i kno im gona wana get out.... i still like and care for her.. more then ne other girl.. and thats good enough for now... ANd first off ing all she didnt dump my ass.... im the one who brought up the whole idea... so i dono what u guy's are twistin and turning... neway... life goes on and summer is here!.... enjoy |
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