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I can't dance.Help!!!
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| Xer |
I really love trance and club music.But I can't dance to it in public,as I think I look like a complete fool.
Actually I never danced slow songs in proms either.What to do if a girl wants to go out dancing???
Actually I'm a home person,almost never go to clubs although I love the trance music,is it wrong that I can count on one hand the number of times I was in a club dancing to trance music that I like so much? |
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| Orbax |
two things.
1)get tanked. you think im being facetious. Later in life you will be like, why didnt i listen to orbax, and by then you will probably have let the girl of your dreams slip away.
2)get a girlfriend and take lessons, its fun, cheap. and youll be able to dance forever |
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| SportTrance |
there is no right way to dance to it.....
but i'll be honest, some people have it and some people don't......Its tough to explain, but its not like you have to know how, you just do it.....hmm.....almost like how you move your head around when driving.....theres no thinking involved.......only difference is you move your whole body instead of your head.....
there comes a point when you're on the d-floor, the tunes are pumping, and you feel in absolute sync with the music, thats, when you're dancing :D
besides, who cares what you look like.......I got more respect for people trying to dance than the people "too cool" to really enjoy themselves..... |
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| Streakfury |
Let me let you in on a little secret - unless you're a professionally trained dancer (or a woman), you cant dance. Everybody sucks at it for the most part. Especially us blokes. We get on the dancefloor and look about as graceful as an elephant in a sand pit.
But you know what? It doesn't matter. As long as you have a good time with everybody else it doesnt really matter what you look like. The trick is not to feel stupid. The best way i've found is to have a bit of a drink before you go out. Then you can dance to your hearts content and you love it. And so do the women, they think to themselves "hmm, at least he's brave enough to have a go".
** turns to the women for confirmation **
So dont worry about it. Have a practice in your room, everyone else does!!! It's like most things - practice makes perfect.
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| St_Andrew |
| quote: | Originally posted by Xer
I really love trance and club music.But I can't dance to it in public,as I think I look like a complete fool. |
that's like the whole idea :p |
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| PhloTron |
| Agrees...guys simply can't dance...and the joy of a active crowd at a dance club is that it certainly doesn't matter since everyone is just bouncing around. |
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| Lost Inhibition |
two words : gay men
if your concerned about how you look while dancing, just go to a rave or your favorite club and try to find a gay guy dancing to trance. watch how he dances, and imitate it. with time you will be a better dancer, garenteed. its a plus to dance well because women find it refreshing when they find a man who isnt afraid to show off his moves to a crowd. :happy2: :toocool: |
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| Orbax |
| someone give him gay spiderman |
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| KilldaDJ |
| go to a rave and jump to the beat of the music. |
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| Turbonium |
| quote: | Originally posted by Streakfury
Let me let you in on a little secret - unless you're a professionally trained dancer (or a woman), you cant dance. Everybody sucks at it for the most part. Especially us blokes. We get on the dancefloor and look about as graceful as an elephant in a sand pit. |
I don't know about that, I consider myself good at dancing.
I think he's trying to suck up to the ladies... :rolleyes::D |
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| cammie |
| quote: | Originally posted by Streakfury
Let me let you in on a little secret - unless you're a professionally trained dancer (or a woman), you cant dance. Everybody sucks at it for the most part. Especially us blokes. We get on the dancefloor and look about as graceful as an elephant in a sand pit.
But you know what? It doesn't matter. As long as you have a good time with everybody else it doesnt really matter what you look like. The trick is not to feel stupid. The best way i've found is to have a bit of a drink before you go out. Then you can dance to your hearts content and you love it. And so do the women, they think to themselves "hmm, at least he's brave enough to have a go".
** turns to the women for confirmation **
So dont worry about it. Have a practice in your room, everyone else does!!! It's like most things - practice makes perfect.
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you're absolutely right Streakfury. go out an enjoy yourself Xer and dont even consider what others are thinking, that's their problem, not yours.
i am a woman, and am also a professional dancer (10 yrs ballet, 4 yrs tap, jazz, improv) and let me tell you, i see a lot of ppl at the club who are enjoying dancing a lot more that the so-called "dancers" in my school.
if you love trance, then you gotta dance, that's all there is to it. let the music take control of you, let it flow through you and you will def need to dance, for sure. |
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| Moongoose |
Hey dont woryy...just dance like nobody is watching :D
or you could get really drunk...it might not improve your dancing skils, but at leats you wont be bothered by it at that particular moment :p |
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