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Help.Girls problem... (pg. 2)
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| djnaeblis |
Rejection is really not that bad imo. Like Greg said, it is really only in your eyes. Just be honest with yourself. We all have our personal flaws, nobody is perfect. Just don't worry so much. If you don't have confidence, just pretend you do, until you trick yourself into being confident, till you gather real confidence (make sense?)...
I think you just shouldn't worry so much, things have a way of taking care of themselves. Just be honest, expressive, and vocal. You can do all that w/o getting drunk :rolleyes:
You have nothing to lose, life is full of opportunities, you win some you lose some... you just have to move on until you find somebody you want to keep =) |
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| Orbax |
| quote: | Originally posted by djnaeblis
You can do all that w/o getting drunk
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HES INSANE DONT LISTEN
hehe jk
i was saying its a way to jumpstart confidence, there are of course other options, but dont hate on the drink |
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| AnotherWay83 |
orbax has nailed it
u've gotta work on urself, spend time with urself, getting comfortable with who you are and what u like...do stuff on ur own, and dont think that getting a GF or a woman to sleep with you is a big achievement, or that it means u're a greater man than any other, because thats just not true
and most important of all...DONT GIVE A ABOUT WHAT ANYBODY ELSE THINKS!!!
i know thats easier said than dun but it's the truth and the only way to get out of the situation u're in! |
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| gwrmarines |
| mmmmmmmahhhohhhhmmmmm:tongue2 |
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| Mosaic |
your first problem: you need to be educated in the ways of the paragraph.
Paragraphs work wonders for your love life. |
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| MrSquirrel |
| quote: | Originally posted by Mosaic
your first problem: you need to be educated in the ways of the paragraph.
Paragraphs work wonders for your love life. |
Especially when you are sending written invitations for a candelight dinner at the golden arches.
:haha:
MrS |
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| Orbax |
i used to be like him. ask any of the older TAs. yeah i used to have about a million lines, no breaks. THen i went to college and said you know what im going to learn...then i talked to my teacher.
and he helped
break
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moral. when you switch points to something kinda different new paragraph...imagine it as going from the pink to the stink, you cant use the same finger holmes@@! |
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| igottaknow |
Like everyone said, u need to build ur self-confidence. U reached the 1st step (admitting u got a problem). 2nd and most important step is doing something about it.
Obviously, u aren’t going to be self-confident over night and get a girlfriend. It takes time and effort, but the sooner you start the sooner you'll reach your goal.
Start off slow and take on small manageable things that you can achieve. For example take dancing lessons or join a non-profit group. Get involved with something that makes you a more interesting person and puts u in a social situation where you can meet a girl without the pressure of a date.
Good luck remember u aren’t alone... |
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| Orbax |
| quote: | Originally posted by igottaknow
Like everyone said, u need to build ur self-confidence. U reached the 1st step (admitting u got a problem). 2nd and most important step is doing something about it.
Obviously, u aren’t going to be self-confident over night and get a girlfriend. It takes time and effort, but the sooner you start the sooner you'll reach your goal.
Start off slow and take on small manageable things that you can achieve. For example take dancing lessons or join a non-profit group. Get involved with something that makes you a more interesting person and puts u in a social situation where you can meet a girl without the pressure of a date.
Good luck remember u aren’t alone... |
ahah your avatar reminded me
go to www.romp.com and play all the games starting with episode 1. |
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| igottaknow |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
ahah your avatar reminded me go to www.romp.com and play all the games starting with episode 1. |
Funny coincidence Jake looks like my avatar....hmmmm :p :haha: |
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| Xer |
| quote: | Originally posted by AnotherWay83
orbax has nailed it
u've gotta work on urself, spend time with urself, getting comfortable with who you are and what u like...do stuff on ur own, and dont think that getting a GF or a woman to sleep with you is a big achievement, or that it means u're a greater man than any other, because thats just not true
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First of all,I did stuff on my own for far too much time,now I want somebody to do the fun with me,second of all,getting a woman to bed is not my initial goal.
Thank you guys for all your advices,I saw myself after drinking and I kinda liked that,but I'm afraid to get addicted to the feeling after I drink,so I try not to drink too much,you all say that you need to be yourself,but being drunk is not being yourself:conf: |
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| Maaz |
| quote: | Originally posted by Xer
you all say that you need to be yourself,but being drunk is not being yourself:conf: |
Ever heard of Dutch courage? :D
(but, if I were you I would ditch alcohol and go by myself first... in case it doesn't work, ask Miss Vodka for help :p) |
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