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| sExY pErSiAn |
Well, I have been seeing this guy for about a month now. The problem is that he barely has time for me. He just bought a new car, so he works ALOT to pay the bills! 7 days a week from 7:30 am- 9:30 pm. He gets a break on Tuesdays... 7:30 am- 12:30 pm.
For the first 3 weeks, he put alot of effort into seeing me and showed more affection, etc. He told me things like i am the only happiness in his life, and he really cares about me, etc. He used to text msg me on my cell like 5 times a day saying "i miss u"... and cute little things like that. He still does all this, but not as often.
Now, I'm lucky if i see him 1 or 2 times a week for a few hours, and whenever i do see him, he is sleepy amd exhausted (which i understand). I've never been on a real "date" with him. Actually, we went to dinner a couple times, and the rest of the times, we just chill at his house or friends house.
I was really upset last night, so i called him and had a talk with him. I told him "i totally understand u work alot, but how am i supposed to get to know u better and build a relationship with u if we never spend quality time together and do fun things?" "What have u done to prove to me that u actually want a relationship with me"?
He tells me he really cares about me, and wants us to work out. but sometimes i doubt him :(. Because i think if he REALLY wanted to see me and spend quality time with me, he would put more effort.
What do u guys think???? :nervous: |
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| UWM |
Go visit him at work?
And then walk in on him banging a coworker.
Or call the TV show 'Cheaters'. |
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| vtec junkie |
this might be a personal question but did you sleep with him yet? if you have....hes slowly pushing you away. guys will do this all the time. they get what they want and next thing you know, they dont have time for you. take it from somebody that knows.....ive played that game before;) although i will admit, im not like that anymore.....my pimpin days are over lol.
hope everything works out girl and if i dont....we wasnt good enough for you to begin with;) |
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| Orbax |
| how about dont waste time on someone so irresponsible with cash they have to work 7 days a week to pay off stupid , and disregard the important things in life like relationships |
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| sExY pErSiAn |
| I kind of have more faith in him. He doesn't have time for bull or games. He is different from any guy that i know. But then again... i could be wrong. I wish i could put him to the test! |
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| Orbax |
| If there is a doubt, there is no doubt, tests are for non-trusting people. you have second thoughts, that means he ed up, ditch him |
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| sExY pErSiAn |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
how about dont waste time on someone so irresponsible with cash they have to work 7 days a week to pay off stupid , and disregard the important things in life like relationships |
Ya... i agree with that. He didn't HAVE to buy such an expensive car. He knew what he was going to get himself into... a $900/month bill :( |
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| vtec junkie |
| quote: | Originally posted by sExY pErSiAn
He is different from any guy that i know. |
you know how many times ive heard that lol. |
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| UWM |
| quote: | Originally posted by sExY pErSiAn
Ya... i agree with that. He didn't HAVE to buy such an expensive car. He knew what he was going to get himself into... a $900/month bill :( |
WTH did he buy an H2?
Even those are $800 a month. |
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| You aint Ninja |
| quote: | Originally posted by vtec junkie
you know how many times ive heard that lol. |
lmfao agreed. |
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| You aint Ninja |
| quote: | Originally posted by sExY pErSiAn
Ya... i agree with that. He didn't HAVE to buy such an expensive car. He knew what he was going to get himself into... a $900/month bill :( |
Gas cost is going to murder him too. well, gg. |
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| sExY pErSiAn |
| quote: | Originally posted by UWM
WTH did he buy an H2?
Even those are $800 a month. |
2003, fully loaded Subarban. He didn't put a down payment, so thats why he pays so much each month... and including insurance... it comes out to $900/month. |
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