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Friends who use you.
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| Jiggilo |
I come the the realization that my friend bascially uses me...
Ive been good friends with him for over 2 years now. A little background on him - his dad lives like a million miles away and doesnt talk to him, his mom is dating some and he lives with her (hes really an i dont blame him for thinking he is one...). The thing is he has two places to claim as "his house" his moms, and his grandma's. The thing is he doesnt like to sleep at his moms house because her boyfriend lives there and hes a complete ass, and he doesnt like to sleep at his grandma's house because they bitch at him all the time for stupid .
Anyway, i feel like he uses me... he sleeps at my house ALL the time, and just comes over like its his own house. Like right now his phone got busted up so i got off work at 8:00 and headed home, next thing i know as soon as i get home and get in the house, he walks in. Kinda rude if you ask me every thinking of i want time alone? He sleeps in when i have to wake up and goto work, he eats my food and uses all my . He bascially uses my room like its his own and its really starting to piss me off.
The thing is, everytime i try and make it act like i dont want him here, then he "disapears" for a week, then comes back. Its really frustrating, i mean sure i feel sorry for him at times because of his living situtation, but give me a ing break i dont buy all the toys for everyone else to use you know, atleast contribute more if you are going to use my room as your own.
ANyone else expericed something like this? |
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| MrSquirrel |
What is this "friend" word you speak of?
I have never heard this word before.
I should find me some of these friend things.
MrS |
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| Dmatrox |
-change locks
-make a 'legal' contract and lay out the rules and make him sign it, and get a witness to be present and sign.
-if you want him to stay, why not get him to pay rent. Even if you own a house you can still get the person to pay rent. They are in your private property. |
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| moncster |
| quote: | Originally posted by MrSquirrel
What is this "friend" word you speak of?
I have never heard this word before.
I should find me some of these friend things.
MrS |
Here you go! |
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| netw3rkd |
all my friends use me
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| moncster |
| Let's face it, we all use our friends and we are all being used. |
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| KilldaDJ |
| make him pay rent. |
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| netw3rkd |
| quote: | Originally posted by MrSquirrel
What is this "friend" word you speak of?
I have never heard this word before.
I should find me some of these friend things.
MrS |
http://mrs.youaremyfriend.com |
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| Jiggilo |
| I dont own the house, its my parents... |
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| Dmatrox |
| quote: | Originally posted by moncster
Let's face it, we all use our friends and we are all being used. |
I dont use my friends, i try to do things on my own. I dont particularly like to ask favors, but if a do, i try to return the favor.
| quote: | | I dont own the house, its my parents... |
so ask you parents to kick him out. |
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| richwms |
| one of my friends has been going out with this bird for about 3 months now and he's totally forgotten about his mates which he's known for about 2 or 3 years. his GF is a bitch and she tells him what to do, she basicly tells him he cant go out with his mates. and the funny thing is that she's like 3 years younger than us all. and when he aint with her, (Which is like never) he comes back crawling to his mates. so yeah we all get used by our mates. |
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