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| UglyDave |
Cant say i have, but i've only been in 1 big relationship. But i think we could have moved in together alright. Had the opportunity arose then we both woula been game.
It is a big step though, although this is different than living with a partner, but neways: i moved in with a guy who i've always been friendly with for 2-3 weeks in Dublin while i got my accomodation sorted this time last year. He's a nice guy, but !!! he's impossible to live with.
Hope i'm not puttin ya off the idea mel ;)
hopfully when i'm livin in hawaii, i can go visit :)
talk t'ya tomorrow!
David |
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| jdat |
hey Melissa are you currently considering this?
I know I've never done it .... and it's not for lack of wanting to commit to someone but as of right now even if I was in a serious relationship this isn't really something I would want to consider ( but that's only being said without me in an actual relationship so consider that previous statement like a bogus reply ).
Not that I can speak from personal experience, but the top suggestion before even considering this, is TAKE YOUR TIME. You don't want to get "stuck" into such a situation before you are sure you can actually "stick" with the partner.
Be sure what you're doing, before you do it. ( I know you're not silly but it's good to have a clear mind before getting caught up in decisions ).
And even if you feel comfortable about it give it some time before actually happening, possibly doing alternate placements: you going with the person a certain period and vice versa. Helps to learn what the person is like to a bigger extent then just knowing the person in the so called comfortable environment that simple dating and hanging out provides.
One is never the same when you are close to them in every day life, compared to occasional gatherings with that person; but it's obviously not bound to be negative, but can be of great help to figure out if you really want to consider being with that person full time.
good luck ! :)
ps : I miss ya |
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| USMC_Greg |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
askmen.com has an article on it that I would read. |
Out of the 1000+ posts I've read of yours, that post had to have been the best. :eek:
that site rox |
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| Orbax |
| I read it every day. Its amazing. |
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| USMC_Greg |
I just spent the last 3 hours reading up on that site. :-)
I feel like Neo did in the Matrix after he went thru the training program:
Neo: "I know Kung-fu"
Morpheus: "Show me!"
Me: "I now now how to perform the perfect kiss, last for hours, get a partner to give me head, find the G-spot, and eat out a chick"
Now I gotta look for that girl to say: "Show me" |
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| 'mju:zik |
| quote: | Originally posted by DigiNut
I seriously don't thing anyone should ever do this. I've seen it done over 10 times, and each and every time has resulted in an ultimate breakup.
The problem is that living with someone is a huge commitment, even if they're just a roommate, but especially if they're a boyfriend/girlfriend. People don't take this commitment seriously.
As occrider so elegantly put it: "I would never marry someone without living with them first." This is the way people think of it - as a "test drive", as in "let's see if it works out." Unfortunately, people WILL ALWAYS IRRITATE YOU when you are living with them, in some way or form. This is simply unavoidable. So when the commitment isn't there to making things work, it almost always breaks things apart.
There's also the obvious... familiarity breeds contempt, and seeing the same person all the time will just make you lose interest. That's why people get married first, again, the commitment has to be there in order to make it work.
That's just my opinion and experience though... I think it's an extremely stupid thing to do if you're actually serious about this person, but other people may have had different experiences. |
you think you know, but you have no idea
hoesntly man, you write in this tone as though you've done it all and are the expert. in the end you're the retard. don't tell people that something they might feel is right is "stupid." , who the are you? an ugly knowitall thats who.
commitment is already there....OBVIOUSLY.....if they are considering moving in together.
living with the one u love is the most amazing thing in the world. you get to sleep next to them every night. share every emotion with them (if theu know you well enough and can tell what youre feeling), see them through life, etc etc etc.
if youre relationship is healthy it will work out. of course there will be fights, misunderstandings, maybe even jealousy sometimes...but if u love them and communicate with them you'll be fine.
so you mininut, just because nobody wants your nasty ass doesnt mean people shouldnt live together. |
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| fastmp3 |
| quote: | Originally posted by 'mju:zik
you think you know, but you have no idea |
this is the diary of 'mju:zik :rolleyes: |
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| 'mju:zik |
| quote: | Originally posted by DigiNut
I seriously don't thing anyone should ever do this. I've seen it done over 10 times, and each and every time has resulted in an ultimate breakup |
as if people who DON'T live together don't break up...damn you're so ing stupid. you're the worst kind of stupid too. you're the type of stupid that doesn't know it.
just the other day i way walking one of my dogs, a Rhodesian Ridgeback (aka African Lion Hound). So I'm sitting him down so that I can go inside a store and this female construction worker says to me "what kind of dog is that?"
so i go "rhodesian ridgeback."
she says: "is SHE a purebreed?" (obviously not noticing that the dog has a dick)
i reply: "as far as I know" (ignoring her gender mistake and being modest since he's confirmed and has placed at several shows)
so she says to me: "She's definately not a purebreed, she has some hound in her." (oblivious to the fact that he's a hound and thats what im telling her)
I was about to lose it and tell her that's why she works in construction, but I didn't. Instead I say "well that sucks I paid good money for him." and she replies "well you got ripped off." I just laughed it off and walked away.
well you sound just like this ing idiot when you talk mininut, so just STFU. |
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| 'mju:zik |
| quote: | Originally posted by fastmp3
this is the diary of 'mju:zik :rolleyes: |
that line was a joke...glad you thought it was rolleye worthy |
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| ThaDevil |
| I live together with my wife, and its great, daily sex, she knows how to cook, she is a massage therapist (free massages for me everyday!) and we share same intrests, so its all good :) |
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| DJ Freestyle |
| I had the worst experience with that. I lived with a girl for a year & went out with her almost 2 years. We were planning on marriage but out of nowhere she wanted out. She told me & then left within a week. Now she has been in Texas for about a month. She's found a boyfriend within the first week she was there. She told me just yesterday that she moved in with him. I learned that nothing is ever for sure so just be careful if you're going to do it. Make sure you have all of the things you want & have extra money for just in case an emergency or if she just leaves you without any warning. It is so much better than living with your parents, but it's a huge risk & it takes alot of work. Good luck with whatever you decide. |
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| DaveSaenz |
| quote: | Originally posted by UglyDave
hopfully when i'm livin in hawaii, i can go visit :)
talk t'ya tomorrow!
David |
I'm pretty sure there are no hallucinogenic toads there if that was your plan....:D :stongue:
You'd have to go to the Western US and N. Mexico to find the Bufo Alvarius toad that produces the powerful hallucinogen 5-Meo-DMT in it's venom glands. There are other toads which produce another chemical called "bufotenine" which is thought to be psychoactive.
The offer for the garden sheers is still open. |
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