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| speedracer_mec |
ok she never actually dumped me
she just said..she didnt know if she felt real love or friendship love
she seemed confused...
she called me today
after the mess was calm
i asked 2 questions.
do u want to stay with me?
do u want to resolve our problems?
she said yes....
wut do i do? im goin over there tonite 90 mile drive...
imma jam out to oakenfold sets pre2000 to make me feel better
my best friend told me to handle it like this...
tell her, "im not ur dad...i cant tell u wut to do or who to talk to..if u wanna work things out..its up to u."..."talk to him i dont care"....
then he said for me to do this," call her less and less....and she will get whooped on me"
place my firm stance....otherwise step out..
wut do i do!???? |
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| politicsofdancin |
| quote: | Originally posted by speedracer_mec
ok she never actually dumped me
she just said..she didnt know if she felt real love or friendship love
she seemed confused...
she called me today
after the mess was calm
i asked 2 questions.
do u want to stay with me?
do u want to resolve our problems?
she said yes....
wut do i do? im goin over there tonite 90 mile drive...
imma jam out to oakenfold sets pre2000 to make me feel better
my best friend told me to handle it like this...
tell her, "im not ur dad...i cant tell u wut to do or who to talk to..if u wanna work things out..its up to u."..."talk to him i dont care"....
then he said for me to do this," call her less and less....and she will get whooped on me"
place my firm stance....otherwise step out..
wut do i do!???? |
| quote: | Originally posted by INDY
seriously, i think this is another patrick thread!!!!i think it is a bunch of crap...but if it's not, i can't even read the replies this idiot is saying...:rolleyes: :o :rolleyes: you are retarded...!!!!! i bet you anthing, she will say something sweet and nice and you will take her back....i see it coming from a weak individual like you...gEEsh... |
omfg..didn't i tell you what this idiot would do???? drive 90 miles after his gf "supposedly" dumped him, now he thinks that she didn't coz she said soo and pluz she gave him herpes hahaha now he is going to back to her...i'am telling you , this guy is a puppet...guys like you deserves it...you ask for it. anyways.....i smell a bunch of crap here..I STILL THINK THIS IS ANOTHER PATRICK THREAD...IN THE LONG RUN HE WILL JUST SAY ...OOOOOOOO I GOTCHA..WATCH
:o :rolleyes: :o |
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| DigiNut |
Mec, you've committed 3 cardinal sins here:
1) You got the LJBF (Let's Just Be Friends) speech - yes, you got it, no matter how she sugar-coated it - and you didn't walk away.
2) You not only took her call after the LJBF, but told her you wanted to "work things out."
3) You made plans to drive 90 miles to see her, on less than 1 day's notice!
These things make you look completely and utterly desperate and whipped. When a girl gives you the LJBF, you give her the heave-ho. When you've just "broken up", you don't immediately start trying to get back together. And when you make plans to go see her, you definitely don't make it look like you're available 24/7 and never have other plans!!!
Incidentally, there's no such thing as "friendship love", buddy, anyone who says they "love you as a friend" doesn't know what the love is. Listen carefully and clearly, she wants to dangle you by a thread while she s around with her ex boyfriend.
If you haven't left yet, though, never fear. You can still save yourself.
When you get to her place, you walk right in that door, take a seat, and tell her that you cannot continue to have a relationship with her if she's not over her ex yet. You tell her that you did not want to have this discussion over the phone, because that would be immature (which serves two purposes, it gives you a perfect excuse for driving all the way down there and makes her feel like the childish little that she is). You tell her that you appreciate her honesty about her ex boyfriend, but you're not going to play any games, and that if she hasn't moved on yet, then she's not ready for a relationship with you, and therefore you can no longer see each other.
Then no matter what happens, you walk out that door and go home. If she shows total apathy, you're better off anyway. If she freaks, then not to worry, she'll call you later on if/when she's worked out her priorities and realizes what sacrifices she has to make (i.e. not being a lying cheating bitch).
There is no other way. Hopefully you haven't already left yet. If you have, and you're catering to her every whim down there, then I'm sorry to say you're ed and that this relationship will only lead you into more misery and STD's.
Good luck! |
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| UglyDave |
| kick her in the head |
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| Vivid Boy |
| you burry that lil cockaroach!!! all u got in this life is ur word and ur balls dont breakem for nobody!!! |
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| MrSquirrel |
Well she did leave you with a gift to remember her by.
The one that keeps on giving.
Sorry, that was a little harsh. But you need to just walk away and take yer valtrex. She sounds like she is up to no good to me.
MrS |
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| Shook1 |
| weren't u the same guy asking whether u should let your girl go to the club w/ friends or not?????????????????????????????? |
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| Vivid Boy |
| man ur a sucker...i feel like a bigger sucker reading this too in some ways..wont say how... BITCHES BITCHES EM...they dont want to be treated like queens they want to be treated like the hoes they are...u go out there and u pimp that ...slap her in the face a few times, pull her hai,r drive thru red lights and ull be alright |
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| ahlamalek |
| facial is the answer |
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| igottaknow |
| quote: | Originally posted by Shook1
weren't u the same guy asking whether u should let your girl go to the club w/ friends or not?????????????????????????????? |
:haha: :stongue: :haha:
let me play devil's advicate...
You're moving 90 miles away to attend college. You'll visit her couple a times a month on the weekends... So she's needs to deal with this situation for 4 yrs and hope by the time you graduate you haven't meet another girl and will come back home sweep her off her feet and marry her.
who's foolin who? |
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| Swamper |
Drive there.
Then dump her. |
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| DigiNut |
| quote: | Originally posted by Swamper
Drive there.
Then dump her. |
That's what I said!! :p :p
See, the pope knows his shizzit... |
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