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Lovely girl in my course (pg. 6)
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| DigiNut |
| quote: | Originally posted by anuneventrade
Just go up to her and talk to her! :D No harm can come. And somehow, lately, the roles got switched and we girls are the ones that have to go up to the guys, and quite frankly, im not fond of that, and I'm getting a bit tired of it! :o |
WHAT! You lie, such women do not exist. :p
I *never* see girls go up to guys! And I'm not saying that's the way it should be either, but I still never see it. :p
| quote: | | Besides, like someone else said, she already made an opinion about you. I've decided about all the guys in my lectures! :) Even though I never talk to them... heh :p |
That was me. :D |
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| DigiNut |
| quote: | Originally posted by politicsofdancin
ok, here are some pointers:
1. ask her what kind of music she listens to, see if you can get her into trance, if she doesn't like it. that way you can lend her some of your fave cd's and conversation will progress...maybe you can get her digits later on in the process...;) |
OK, don't "see if you can get her into trance", I mean, this takes weeks to do even with a girlfriend. If she IS into any of that though (and a lot of them are without realizing it - I love giving someone a ride and blasting some techno in my car and them going "whoa! what is that?"), then you're set, make a date to drop off some ch00nz and chat her up then!
| quote: | | 2. you can even joke around and tell her how this class stink like ass, or the teacher is a mofo..proper way of sharing a good laugh..and you can charm her with you witty sense of humor, if you have any...lol |
Nononono. One thing you definitely don't want to do is talk negatives, or make negative observations. 'Cause then she'll associate that negative stuff with you. Talk positive, DO try to give her a laugh though.
| quote: | | 3. ask her what she is doing this weekend? then if she is not doing anything, offer a suggestion.. |
Yes.
| quote: | | maybe a movie, dinner or hang out at a friends house (whatever you young kids do these days) lol... |
No. Movies are terrible first dates - you sit there for 2 hours and can't talk and it's too early to make out. Then when you get up, you're like "uhh... good movie huh?" And DON'T bring friends into it! Dinner's okay, but make sure it's not pizza or McDonald's or something.
If you have unusual hobbies that you can bring other people into, like skydiving or wine tasting or whatever, then do that. Otherwise, I'd strongly suggest just asking her out for coffee. Don't get too formal on the first date, otherwise you look desperate!
Other than that, good advice. :D Heh. |
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| politicsofdancin |
| quote: | Originally posted by DigiNut
OK, don't "see if you can get her into trance", I mean, this takes weeks to do even with a girlfriend. If she IS into any of that though (and a lot of them are without realizing it - I love giving someone a ride and blasting some techno in my car and them going "whoa! what is that?"), then you're set, make a date to drop off some ch00nz and chat her up then!
Nononono. One thing you definitely don't want to do is talk negatives, or make negative observations. 'Cause then she'll associate that negative stuff with you. Talk positive, DO try to give her a laugh though.
Yes.
No. Movies are terrible first dates - you sit there for 2 hours and can't talk and it's too early to make out. Then when you get up, you're like "uhh... good movie huh?" And DON'T bring friends into it! Dinner's okay, but make sure it's not pizza or McDonald's or something.
If you have unusual hobbies that you can bring other people into, like skydiving or wine tasting or whatever, then do that. Otherwise, I'd strongly suggest just asking her out for coffee. Don't get too formal on the first date, otherwise you look desperate!
Other than that, good advice. :D Heh. |
haha..you butchered my advice...ru a girl? coz i'am, and i know what we want...i think getting her into trance is a great idea..it didn't take my ex bf to get into trance..i guess it's all being open minded on things... |
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| butterfly |
| quote: | Originally posted by politicsofdancin
haha..you butchered my advice...ru a girl? coz i'am, and i know what we want...i think getting her into trance is a great idea..it didn't take my ex bf to get into trance..i guess it's all being open minded on things... |
i think both sets of advice are good cause they are agressive but amazingly, i tend to agree more with diginut on the trance thing. you shouldnt try to change a person you are with, let alone before you even ask them out. and while it is nice to share interests, it is really insulting for someone to not be willing to hear what kind of music you are into (if any at all) and to assume that everyone will like what you like. |
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| anuneventrade |
| quote: | Originally posted by DigiNut
WHAT! You lie, such women do not exist. :p
I *never* see girls go up to guys! And I'm not saying that's the way it should be either, but I still never see it. :p
That was me. :D |
Such women do exist! I am one of them. heh. :D :p So many guys now decide that its the "womens turn" to have at it. So I try. I say hey, whats up, wanna hang out sometime? But frankly, as I said earlier, so sick of it. How about someone starts paying attention to me now?
And the blasting trance in the car... :D :D :D :D my fav thing to do!..... how you doin' Diginut? ;) |
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| DigiNut |
| quote: | Originally posted by politicsofdancin
ru a girl? coz i'am, and i know what we want... |
Liar!
LoL, don't get me started on this one! :p
| quote: | Originally posted by anuneventrade
And the blasting trance in the car... :D :D :D :D my fav thing to do!..... how you doin' Diginut? ;) |
@#^%$! right! My favourite is when I'm cruising alone and pass by "couples" (I use the term loosely)... I get the thug/beatnik guy giving me the "wtf is that " sneer, and his girl givin' a big smile... haha.
Actually I have to go off on a tangent here... I went through all the music phases when I was a kid (well I'm still a kid but anyway), classic rock, alternative rock, rap, heavy metal, basically everything except country, and have stayed on electronica for about 5 years, though I listen to all kinds of electronic. I find that most of the girls I meet can find at least one sub-genre (like jungle, trance, techno) that they like... and women are pretty open-minded about that... so my question is, how come guys think they know it all when it comes to music? Whether it's the metalheads or the punks or the prog whores, they think that their music is somehow the only good music and try to impose that standard on their friends and girls too.
I mean my roommate and his friend listen to ELO and Oasis and don't get me wrong, they're talented artists, but they call this "pick up music", and say that I listen to the "wrong kind" for that, I'm like WTF!?? How hard is it to figure out that women like BASS? It's dance music and it's vibrations, pure and simple, that's why they like hip hop and that's why they like jungle. As if you're ever going to get attention from someone under 30 years old or over 12 by blasting ing Queen out of your Civic. Yes, they're classic, yes, they're great, no, they're not meant to be blasted out of a car with the windows and the sunroof wide open.
Anyway, now that that rant's out of the way... how j00 doin'? Wanna cruise? :p ;) |
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| butterfly |
| quote: | Originally posted by DigiNut
Actually I have to go off on a tangent here... I went through all the music phases when I was a kid (well I'm still a kid but anyway), classic rock, alternative rock, rap, heavy metal, basically everything except country, and have stayed on electronica for about 5 years, though I listen to all kinds of electronic. I find that most of the girls I meet can find at least one sub-genre (like jungle, trance, techno) that they like... and women are pretty open-minded about that... so my question is, how come guys think they know it all when it comes to music? Whether it's the metalheads or the punks or the prog whores, they think that their music is somehow the only good music and try to impose that standard on their friends and girls too.
I mean my roommate and his friend listen to ELO and Oasis and don't get me wrong, they're talented artists, but they call this "pick up music", and say that I listen to the "wrong kind" for that, I'm like WTF!?? How hard is it to figure out that women like BASS? It's dance music and it's vibrations, pure and simple, that's why they like hip hop and that's why they like jungle. As if you're ever going to get attention from someone under 30 years old or over 12 by blasting ing Queen out of your Civic. Yes, they're classic, yes, they're great, no, they're not meant to be blasted out of a car with the windows and the sunroof wide open.
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the bass is especially good when you are sitting on a big subwoofer. |
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| DJ El Kay Dee |
i say u have about 2 shots of vodka and ur flying...afterall u know the saying "a drunk man's words are a sober man's thoughts"
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| anuneventrade |
| quote: | Originally posted by DigiNut
Anyway, now that that rant's out of the way... how j00 doin'? Wanna cruise? :p ;) |
hell yea! lets go! :p |
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| DigiNut |
| quote: | Originally posted by anuneventrade
hell yea! lets go! :p |
Sweet! I'll come pick you up in an hour.
Oh, wait... I might not be able to make it in an hour... which state are you in again? :toothless |
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| DJ El Kay Dee |
| quote: | Originally posted by DigiNut
Sweet! I'll come pick you up in an hour.
Oh, wait... I might not be able to make it in an hour... which state are you in again? :toothless |
could always cyber cruise ya know....:happy2: |
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| anuneventrade |
| quote: | Originally posted by DigiNut
Sweet! I'll come pick you up in an hour.
Oh, wait... I might not be able to make it in an hour... which state are you in again? :toothless |
the horrible state of florida! *gag* too hot! yea, pick me up and save me! :p :D :D :D |
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