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Asshole of the Year. (pg. 3)
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| butterfly |
| quote: | Originally posted by ahlamalek
you make it sound so easy... leaving a person isn't that easy and matter of fact we don't know the whole story, maybe they got into arguments. |
agreed. and leaving after a year and having been living together is worse. |
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| anuneventrade |
| quote: | Originally posted by ahlamalek
you make it sound so easy... leaving a person isn't that easy and matter of fact we don't know the whole story, maybe they got into arguments. |
:( we didn't. people joked that we were the perfect couple. in love, but didnt show it off. able to spend time without each other. this really did come all of a sudden. :(
it took me so long to rip away from it, because I couldn't believe the change. how could someone change overnight? :( :( :( |
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| torontotrance |
| nah he showed his true colors...ing |
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| anuneventrade |
I seriously hope the rest of you guys aren't like this. No way I'd ever go lesbian, but damn...
If any of you really treated someone like crap and disrespect, explain yourself! at once. |
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| butterfly |
| quote: | Originally posted by anuneventrade
No way I'd ever go lesbian, but damn...
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i would NEVER EVER date a woman. that is just asking for trouble. |
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| anuneventrade |
| quote: | Originally posted by butterfly
i would NEVER EVER date a woman. that is just asking for trouble. |
Trust me I agree! *gag* (no offense to any lesbians):o |
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| torontotrance |
nah...have'nt
in the old days when i was high school, i destroyed some girl on purpose but it was my brother's ex and had to be done. |
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| ahlamalek |
lesbians are cool:cool:
i mean sexy lesbians like in playboy |
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| Werewolf |
| quote: | Originally posted by torontotrance
nah he showed his true colors...ing |
yeah, and s like that always get the nicest girls... sad but true... |
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| Casey |
| quote: | Originally posted by anuneventrade
I was addicted to the sex, what can I say. :rolleyes:
I put up with it, because he was an amazing boyfriend up until these past few weeks. He was Mr. Perfect. I put up with it, because in the back of my mind I had some false hope that he would return the guy I fell madly in love with. :(
I hate him now for how he treats me, and I wish he never came back, but then again I don't.:sadgreen:
I know I put myself in a ty situation, I'm not denying it was my fault. What I am bitching about is how he took advantage of the fact that I'm gullible and so damn giving. I give my whole heart out and thats the problem. :mad: |
Rebound Guy, It worked for me, Now my ex wants to get back but i say no i moved on ... she is still trying says i'm here only love and all but i ain't doing it, cause i feel i would use her instead and that goes against all my morals. |
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| MisterOpus1 |
| quote: | Originally posted by anuneventrade
I seriously hope the rest of you guys aren't like this. No way I'd ever go lesbian, but damn...
If any of you really treated someone like crap and disrespect, explain yourself! at once. |
His change in behavior is likely attributed to 1 of 4 possibilities:
1. He has done something behind your back and it has changed his outlook on the relationship he shares with you
- at first I wasn't going to think this was a possibility, and I thought Butterfly was merely projecting her past situation onto yours (I mean no offense Butterfly - I just remember your situation). But she is correct that this can be a cause to a change in behavior.
2. His true colors are coming out.
- Red flag behavior here. Get out while you still have no broken bones in your body.
3. There's more to the story (as there often is), and we're hearing your side only. His version may simply be that things were moving too fast, and he didn't want a relationship.
-People moving in together does one of 2 things to a man: it brings him closer to his girlfriend, or it scares him into being locked down with 1 person for good. To those who are not ready, the ladder usually results.
4. He's turning gay.
-It's been known to happen. Outside shot I guess.
In any case, his behavior has changed for a reason. He has lost interest in you, or at least shown a lack of interest in the relationship you once had. Even if you move away from him and he eventually sees what he has lost and tries to get you back, you should be weary of his actions on this day. The actions one does today has a direct impact on the actions one does in the future. Be weary of these types and move on. Much more stable individuals out there.
Go forth to greener pastures young lady. |
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| Orbax |
| I thought this thread was gonna be about me |
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