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Cant stop crying (pg. 2)
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| armandzadza |
| quote: | Originally posted by anuneventrade
He also told me that this whole time we've been together, hes wanted to be with her. |
That's just uncalled for! If that's the guy's attitude, I don't expect the new relationship to last...
My method of getting over bad break-ups is exercising in the gym like crazy:
1. Keeps you occupied;
2. You get into better shape and find yourself a much better girlfriend (or boyfriend in your case).
Hope it works out! ;) |
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| Orbax |
| dont do drunken working out. Its really hard and not worth it. Youll have to make the decision to either drink or work out |
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| Endlesswave |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
dont do drunken working out. Its really hard and not worth it. Youll have to make the decision to either drink or work out |
lmao. Orbax you kill me. He's right though, drunken working out will suck! Esp if you drop the weight on your foot...
OW!
Seriously though, it'll get better with time. Just don't think about of the year and he will eventually get what's coming to him...;) |
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| electric_soul |
hmm i've read the previous post, and now this one... you'll probably just lie somewhere. snap out of it and MOVE!
Catch a movie or two, the dumbest and plotless ones. They're no good, but can distract you for a brief second, and a brief second of nothingness is bliss in that kind of situations. Numb yourself with ridiculously loud music with friends, wait, is that called clubbing? whatever. do it :) |
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| KandyKid_420 |
Ive been in the exact situation you have been in hun :( well, she didnt move in with the guy though..
Anyways, time heals all wounds, i didnt cry like you, but i was choked for weeks on end. She also owes me a lot of money, i dont expect to see it ever again :mad:
Just let some friends take you out for a night on the town, try to forget about it (i know its hard). |
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| armandzadza |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
Youll have to make the decision to either drink or work out |
Hmm, that's a tough one! ;) |
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| electric_soul |
| i take you weren't in a situation like hers. Crying for someone is da man. Happened just once in my life a year ago, cryed for weeks, and I NEVER cry (before those weeks it had been about 12 years without a tear)... stupid feelings :whip: :whip: :whip: :whip: :whip: |
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| wienerschnitzel |
| do yourself a favour and don't talk to him ever again. Seriously. |
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| anuneventrade |
I appreciated everyone's comments. I just didn't know what to do anymore, and posting something on TA seemed to be my only way to lash out. *struggled weak, semi smile*
It's just so hard for me to believe I guess. I just don't know what to do/say. Everything was so perfect... Then I'm dumped... then as I'm taking care of his cats a week later, he's ing some other girl, he gets back and now hes moving in with her, and telling me that he "never wanted to be in a relationship" with me.:nervous:
How could you do that to someone? My last words to him were "why couldn't you have just left me alone?" :(
Not to try and make anyone pity me any more than they already do, but I've not had the easiest or cheeriest of lives. Most people think, "Good God, how did you survive all that?" :(
My hearts broken and seriously damaged. I gave my whole heart and life to that guy. No one could ever understand the reasons to why I went to such lengths for him, and I'm not even sure I understand.
I just wish I could stop crying. Its so painful to know that almost a year of my life was in vain. To know that no matter how "serious" we were, it was all fake. An act. A joke to him. :nervous:
People tried to warn me and I followed my heart, and ignored them. Now look where I ended up. :(
I feel completely shattered. I don't like drinking, so that suggestion won't get me anywhere, really. And I hate crying. I don't cry easily. But for some reason I can't seem to stop. :nervous: :( |
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| torontotrance |
| tell tta about it...you know how |
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| Ezman |
Just remember: Pain makes you stronger, whatever you deal with and will make you stronger and more capable person.
If he REALLY didn't want to be in a relationship with you then he is a weak, frail person who doesn't know how to follow his beliefs. So either he's weak or he really did want it and is lying to you to make you feel bad - Either way he is a .
You don't need him, and it seems that him breaking up with you in such a way justifies why he ain't good enough for you. |
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| Beat_Chemist |
Steps to an active recovery.
1. First off your feeling ty, go get a little high, and hook up with a good m8 that will listen. If its a guy, don't be an and take advantage of the situation that he's a nice guy, if he's willing to listen and he's not with anyone he likes u, so leave that alone. Usually a lets flame the Guys party works great you can sit around and talk all night long. This makes you adress the problem and feel more relaxed and NOT ALONE!!!
2. Your confidence is prolly shot, maybe at least a little yea??? IF the girls hotter than you are u prolly think oh well thats why, or maybe she's uglier in which OUCH! Either way time to nurture that portion of urself. Go out and buy or borrow the sexiest sluttiest outfit and go to da club. Go with a designated driver FEMALE and get people to buy you drinks lotsa stupid guys will, hoping to get a piece. Then leave the night knowing all those guys like you and that fool didn't know what he had.
3.Now reflect on the situation take ur ass on a date, bysyourself. THink about all that has happened. You even admit that life gave you a few taps on the shoulder about this guy. Think about that for next time, like go hiking, watch a sunset, something intimate with yourself, nothing that invovlves other poeple.
4. Don't become a hater bitch, I know a lotta girls that become one of these. Sure one guys like that doesn't mean we all are, hey what about that nice guy, the one thats too weak to step up and talk to you.
If you have learned something thats all that matters, its a learning experience right? Now you now what not to do, thank yo self for that, now maybe a bit wiser you can look forward to some GREeeeeaaaat fresh DIck!!!!!
(p.s. DON"T TRY TO BE FRIENDS WITH HIM) its a trick, its a wild card, guys like him don't have female friends just girls they'd like to the cowboy grits out of. Save yourself future grief and im.
Another side note this might help, the reason he was hard to go may not be so much the fact that you reflect on all the time you invested, but rather that you are used to sharing your mind with him, like he'll remember its that day to.....or you know like remember the time...what have you IT! just pretend it was one big ty hangover, let it go. You invested in United Airlines and lost it all, just walk away with new knowledge so you don't do it again.
Gunna try this RAW foodist bull for a bet so lata. |
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