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My Confusion About Girls
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| Boomer187 |
| eh I just replied to it over there....try getting a mod to move it here... |
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| igottaknow |
| quote: | Originally posted by Boomer187
eh I just replied to it over there....try getting a mod to move it here... |
I just replied over there...and trying to get the mod to keep it there. |
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| Beat_Chemist |
Damn brah ur 2 points shy of clueless. No offense letting u know where you stand bluntly. U say your at a club whatever, can't hear, too much people talking, U know what those are? BS excuses! its some part of you trying to keep you from getting a girl.
Like oh she's too hot for me.
Oh the musics soo loud.
Ah she probably has a boyfriend.
I'm not drunk enough yet.
I'm not feeling my best tonight.
Well, stop being a and get some. In a loud setting like a club its prime. Why? Cuz you don't have to ing talk to her. I'm guessing you lack the skillz to send a girls emotions on fire with you words so bypass that . You think you mean I don't have to talk? YES!!! Do you think that if you went to Japan that you could talk to them in English, and pimp your way around? NO!!! You'll spend your entire night looking for that 1 girl out of 3000 that speaks english. Its called body language. Very simple.
Start at one end of a open area, dressed nice, like real nice, you loook around, find a girl not walking around or dancing, just standing around. Look into her eyes, usually after a bit she'll catch you in the act. UH OH!!! u been caught G but don't around keep you ground. She'll notice you aren't breaking the stare she feels its not coincidence at this point that u might dig her. You continue untill she cracks a smile. Then you can do one of several things.
Smile back, look dissinterested and look the other way. If it becomes a staring match make a monkey face or something stupid to make her smile.
That my friend is a non verbal Ice breaker.
If you did the look away thing she'll approach you, if you did the smile you approach her.
Approach her-take her hand and sweep her off her feet not liquid or like that grinding.
She comes to you-flip her around and start dancing with her.
Dance REALLY REALLY CLOSE, don't make the excuse I didn't bath or my breath prolly reaks who cares, I'm talking inches away from hitting each other. Your officially invading her private space, if she likey she'll let you continue.
After some fun step it up a notch, need a specific goal? 5-10 minutes later no more than 10. Don't know how? I usually flip her so her backs on my crotch, I start by smelling her neck below the jaw line, this gets them horny you'll notice they will either pull offa your crotch or back into it. If they back in keep going stud. Start breathing heavinly on her this point get in position to kiss her, you'll be making out on the danceflo. Then offer to go somewhere more quiet. if says yes skip to the #1 Or if she's with friends (she could be thier ride) just keeping enjoying the make out session go sit somewhere quiet there's usually a place in everyclub set aside.
#1 your going to get laid partner take her back to your crib.
Now I know you may be looking for a relationship, thats fine. Why not get laid also? Get laid first, call her in the morning, if she wants more take her on a date, she gave you so at this point she has earned a date.
You specifically asked about signs of attraction. Jesus ok, Its diff. with everygurl this can get complex. So if your in a quiet setting tho you can find out. Like bust something out like my dog just died. Guage her reaction. Thats her sad/sympathy. Find more out, then for example if she was a stoner. Be like Oh btw I might be getting free pot from a medicinal marijuana grower would you like some? This is her want/need/happy look. This is the look you want to get. Then say something to get her approval, I think George Bush is a pencil dick. Do you agree? Thats a yes. Then be like I helped a kitten out of a tree. Her Awe. or that soo cute. your so brave. thats her look of approval. Idifference whats your favorite kind of music. Her EVERYTHING guage her reaction, or where do you wanna eat. Whats ur favorite coffee. some lame question that she'll answer with indiference. notice those questions are fact based.
Standard reactions.
Open hands gestures unless its 20 below zero.
The stroking of a glass, stem wear, hair.
Her feet point towards you.
Does her body frame face you.
She's leaning towards you.
Smiles are a dime a dozen, some girls dont smile as much, if they dont' its not a bad thing.
Still not helpfull? Best way is to find out on your own. Go to a bar, or somewhere men hit on girls a lot. Look at how the other men are doing it, watch the reactions on the girls faces. legs, arms, etc. If the guy is successfull you know what reactions to look for, if he wastn' you can guage what are bad signs.
Hope that helps m8 |
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| AnotherWay83 |
yeah beat_chemist has given u top advice...all i can say is that dont try TOO hard tho...cos there is a good deal of luck involved...being at the right place at the right time...being at the right place is easy, its the timing thats usually hard...alot of times u might never find the girl u're interested in alone...she might always be with her friends and ...women can be stupid sumtimes...they wont venture out alone so guys can hit on them...yet they know that they would like to hook up...
best thing to do is try it with as many diff. women as possible that way u'll maximize ur chances of getting laid :D |
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| SuperFarStucker |
| It seems like tranceaddict's chill out room has become "dating advice for men 101"... :haha: :haha: :haha: |
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| BTG |
| quote: | Originally posted by SuperFarStucker
It seems like tranceaddict's chill out room has become "dating advice for men 101"... :haha: :haha: :haha: |
its terrible. |
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| cap |
| hey, I don't mind reading these posts... |
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| igottaknow |
| quote: | Originally posted by BTG
its terrible. |
single dorks giving dating tips to single dorks. kinda ironic dont u think  |
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| Dj Dovla |
the club man .... trust me go to the libary instead , its so easy , and you'll find beautiful smart girls .. and you dont have to spend money either.
plus you can see what they look without makeup.. |
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| Orbax |
I never get the excuse of not being drunk enough :D :D :D I just get ing sloshed on the way to anywhere by pounding vodka in the car. Then if I dig a girl, i get her ass drunk and around with her. No talking or bull. Drunk girls are eassssaY! Buy em drinks!!!!!
learn what drinks pack a ing whallop with no taste. They wont realize how ed up they are before theyre all ed up. Then be nice so they dont fear the drunkeness. Just pretend shes a guy and around with her and give her little pushes and . If she stumbles or stands up a well placed hand on the small of the back with a concerned :you alright?: is key. Eventually, they want some and give you a huge signal, like sitting on your lap and kissing you.
I hate trying to pick girls up sober. They are boring because theyve gotten by on looks their whole life, havent done in years, and have nothing to add to the conversation. Plus they are too self centered to ask me about my awesomeness so i can fill in the boringness with holy light of almightyness.
Just get good at getting girls drunk, its faster, easier, more fun, and sure fire with blatant signals.
edit: Girls want sex just as bad as men, usally just about 15 minutes later. The man who can conceal his horn-dog instinct for a whole 15 minutes wont have to make the first move. |
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| Beat_Chemist |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
learn what drinks pack a ing whallop with no taste. They wont realize how ed up they are before theyre all ed up.
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try this one i call it the Jenn Special. Ask them to get a pint glass fill it halfway with hypnotic, add oz of strawberry vodka, fill the rest with equal parts sweet and sour mix, with 7-up. It tastes like a non alchoholic drink. But will get them wasted. Also since this drink has no name, say its your creation. I call it the Jenn Special since a girl named jenn made it up.
Liquid cocaine. half, schlager, half rumpleminz 100 proof, with a dash of jager floated on top. all three of those ingredients are kept cold. Also all three are sweet. Basically they don't know what they just drank. |
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