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| xTranceGurlx |
My problems... if anyone wants to listen....I had this gf well just recently we plan for her to spend the night at my house. and i live with my parents... which sucks... and they hate when i go out.... so her spending the night at my house will be ok.. My parents think shes a "friend" hehehe well anyways my parents tell me to go ahead and spend the night at her house cuz our house was dirty.. i was in shock cuz my parents never want me to spend the night anywhere... but i call her and tell im going to her house instead.. she says ok... then later i figure.. well hey might as well go clubbing.... so i text to see if she wants to go. she says yes she does want to go.... soooooo im all excited.. i have my girl and im going clubing .. I decide to invite my friends 2 girls.. if it makes any difference .. i call 5 minutes before i go to her house and say "we will be there in 5 min"
shes like what do u mean.. we.. I was like ahhhhh darn......... she gets pissed and says i dont care and i dont want to be with her..... and that i dont want what she wants but clearly i do.... and now she doesnt want to be with me.... Im just extremely depressed.. need some advice or guidance to get through this... notice i get the best feedback from strangers |
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| Essential1 |
| just talk to her, tell her exactly how you feel. it sounds like there's a trust issue: you trust her but she doesn't seem to trust you. honesty is usually all you need. |
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| xTranceGurlx |
| i did let her know ... that i was sorry... and i do want to be with her... but .. she says in toooo young!! its pretty much over..theres nothing i can do.. is there?.. |
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| Photo_bot_2k1 |
| How old are you two? |
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| Essential1 |
| well if age is a factor, that's a whole different story. she just needs to see things from your point of view. if age has been a factor in the past, somehow prove to her that you can both overcome that if you both try hard. or u can just do what i do & try to remind her the potential misery that can occur to both of you if you're not together. then again, that' probably the reason i'm single. |
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| xTranceGurlx |
| im 19 she will be 21 in january =/ not a big difference at all |
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| Mister_Michel |
| quote: | Originally posted by xTranceGurlx
My problems... if anyone wants to listen....I had this gf well just recently we plan for her to spend the night at my house. and i live with my parents... which sucks... and they hate when i go out.... so her spending the night at my house will be ok.. My parents think shes a "friend" hehehe well anyways my parents tell me to go ahead and spend the night at her house cuz our house was dirty.. i was in shock cuz my parents never want me to spend the night anywhere... but i call her and tell im going to her house instead.. she says ok... then later i figure.. well hey might as well go clubbing.... so i text to see if she wants to go. she says yes she does want to go.... soooooo im all excited.. i have my girl and im going clubing .. I decide to invite my friends 2 girls.. if it makes any difference .. i call 5 minutes before i go to her house and say "we will be there in 5 min"
shes like what do u mean.. we.. I was like ahhhhh darn......... she gets pissed and says i dont care and i dont want to be with her..... and that i dont want what she wants but clearly i do.... and now she doesnt want to be with me.... Im just extremely depressed.. need some advice or guidance to get through this... notice i get the best feedback from strangers |
So if I understand this correctly: You were gonna spend your first night with your gf, but you wanted to go clubbing first AND invited 2 other girls to go out with you both? |
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| xTranceGurlx |
| quote: | Originally posted by Mister_Michel
So if I understand this correctly: You were gonna spend your first night with your gf, but you wanted to go clubbing first AND invited 2 other girls to go out with you both? |
oh no go clubbing then drop the other girls home.. and then it would be just her and i |
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| xTranceGurlx |
| ps nice avatar ;) |
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| Mister_Michel |
| quote: | Originally posted by xTranceGurlx
oh no go clubbing then drop the other girls home.. and then it would be just her and i |
Well don't you understand that your girlfriend wanted to spend the whole night with you and you alone, you know like in a romantic night, a date? She probably had high hopes of the evening and bringing those other girls killed the mood.(must you have brought girls, why not guys? at least that would have been less of a disaster).
And thank you, yes my ass is superb. |
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| xTranceGurlx |
| well see i mean its a club... how could it obviously just be her and i....? u know... i could of seen my friends there... i dont know.. im just not understanding |
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| Photo_bot_2k1 |
im gonna have to agree with mister michel here, becuase if someone i knew did the same to me i'd be kinda pissed too
becuase she wants to spend time with you, and your taking away that time by inviting other people |
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