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torontotrance
ok people...so what do you regret doing..the past...the present..make a list but put the reasons...ima start with my ing list...might be a little long

-for pissing off my friend's ex for kicks (shameful i know :()
-attacking orbax for no reason saturday (tho I did it all for kicks)
-treating erin so shamefully in year 1 ( knows why it happened)
-to all the tiesto fans for saying he cannot mix (still true tho..still regret it)
-the row with a friend on the weekend

make yer lists people!
BadBadNeil
1) when i was like 5 years old i cried when my parents tried to make me join a sports team. I regret it because i got pretty good later but not good enough to do anything with and I think if i started earlier i could have been really really good.

2) regret studying 3D animation in college, should have done graphic design or multimedia design instead

3) Regret being shy as a child. Really hurt my social life till i was in college.

4) Regret not asking this one girl out in high school who i had the biggest crush on and found out that she liked me later on. God what a mess. Its all good though because then i wouldnt have met my current girl.

5) Regret not getting all my friends contact info when i left college. Now i have no way to contact any of them. Too bad were some really good friends too.

I'm sure there are more :D
trancEyes22
*tear comes to eye*....no seriously, andy that was really sweet. it truly meant a lot, i'm glad we were able to let bygones be bygones and FINALLY talk to each other like human beings! *hug* :p

my list:

i regret...

1.) fighting back with andy, i dont even know you and we should have put our petty drama past us a long time ago! i'm sorry i was so stubborn, its one of my best and worst traits...:D
2.) hurting reuben and brent....i never, ever meant to :( but am so happy we can talk again and be friends! i missed you guys :)
3.) ever hurting my friends or family...i think i have been a LOT less of the stubborn biatch i used to be.

i'm sure there is more, but thats all i can think of for now.
mezzir
i regret: being the nice guy to my friends so much that i couldn't live with myself being anything less than happy in public cause i'd feel like i was letting everyone down
feels so good to be able to be in a bad mood and not feel like you're making everyone else unhappy with you
and also: not telling people that i can't stand them. pretending they're still your friends just makes it worse
torontotrance
I knew more would come to mind

-not ending this relationship that nearly destroyed my brother (him and this girl). I had the oppt to totally help him, cept ol tta did nothing

-not asking this girl out (tho that should change very very very shortly....i hope!!!!!!!!!!!!)

-losing my ing keys in the house this afternoon....bloody idiotic of me to lose them, just as I had to leave the house

-bashing arturo and jayd too often (tho art deserved it sometimes)

-going mad the other day cuz i ran outta lemonade (sounds like a story but if you only have peach ice tea and berry punch left in the fridge and you hate both...what's left?)
tranceman78
ok, here goes:

1) Fighting with Erin, and then refusing to talk to her for god knows how long(seemed like a really long time), but now everything is cool and I couldn't be happier.:D :D :D

2) Stealing that random girl's clothes in Key West. It's still funny as hell, but i feel kinda guilty about it(well, not really.)

3) Not taking a vacation sooner. I didn't realize what an overworked, insensitive prick I had become before I took a break from everyday normal life and reflected. I feel like I have a brand new outlook on life now.

4) Being an to my best friend Matt. Myself and several others give him about a lot of stuff and he takes it all in like a champ. He really doesn't deserve it, but it's so fun.:whip:

5) Missing out on Ferry in Miami. I was all set to go and excited, but ended up drinking too much the night before and the morning of. Grrrrrr...:whip:

6) Being an to Lena(hmm... i see a trend here.) And now she's gone missing and I haven't had a chance to apologize.

8) Not keeping in contact with friends from highschool. I miss them now, but I'm afraid their lives have changed too much since then to have the same relationships with them I used to.

9) Skipping number 7

Hmmm...the longer I sit here the more I come up with, I'm sure I'll edit this several more times.
UWM
Andy why the sudden change of heart? Are you changing your bitter ways? By the way don't ever regret bashing Tiesto's mixing as it deserves it 100% :)

The things I have done that I regret are really too personal to be posted on here, but I don't think one should sit and lament about what could've been or how they could've done things differently. Sitting and thinking "Poor me" isn't going to get anyone anywhere or change what's in the past. Every decision we make in our life shapes us and makes us the people we are, for better or worse. The only thing you can do is learn from your actions and mistakes and apply it to future behaviours / decision making. I've lately been doing a lot of personal evaluation, etc .. and I've ed up a lot in my life and made some stupid choices but I'm currently working very hard to get things back in order.
trancEyes22
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Originally posted by UWM
Andy why the sudden change of heart? Are you changing your bitter ways? By the way don't ever regret bashing Tiesto's mixing as it deserves it 100% :)

The things I have done that I regret are really too personal to be posted on here, but I don't think one should sit and lament about what could've been or how they could've done things differently. Sitting and thinking "Poor me" isn't going to get anyone anywhere or change what's in the past. Every decision we make in our life shapes us and makes us the people we are, for better or worse. The only thing you can do is learn from your actions and mistakes and apply it to future behaviours / decision making. I've lately been doing a lot of personal evaluation, etc .. and I've ed up a lot in my life and made some stupid choices but I'm currently working very hard to get things back in order.



i don't think any of us feel sorry for ourselves or are even living in the past...the first step to learning from something is recognizing your mistakes and knowing not to ever repeat them.
Endo
Hey I don't want to sound cheesy or sound as if I'm preaching or anything, but I have to say that I personally don't regret doing anything. Sure I've made poor choices before, but I'm glad I did as so I'd learn from them and not make the same mistake again (as UWM said above).
torontotrance
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Andy why the sudden change of heart? Are you changing your bitter ways? By the way don't ever regret bashing Tiesto's mixing as it deserves it 100%


1)Maybe....probably
2)Tiesto's mixing deserves to be bashed, you get paid that amount of money and spin that poorly....you deserved to be bashed beyond repair tbh....and he can do better


another for my list

i regret starting the ........ habit

BadBadNeil
and recognize the mistakes of our parents too and never repeat them :D

I see a lot that my dad does that bugs me and that has shaped me to never be like that as well as good things that has done the same.

You can't live in the past but sometimes I do the ol' "what if..." thing but I pretty much like where i am today.
UWM
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Originally posted by trancEyes22
i don't think any of us feel sorry for ourselves or are even living in the past...the first step to learning from something is recognizing your mistakes and knowing not to ever repeat them.


No no no, I'm not accusing anybody here of feeling sorry for themselves. A lot of times, though, people will sit around and think about what they did / didn't do that they regret and dwell on it instead of just getting on with things and working to fix what they may have damaged.
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