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| Busy Child |
| quote: | Originally posted by Vlad
Well ok, but how can you have a g/f and not spoil her? :tongue2
Also, how can you have a g/f and not be able to afford to go out? |
ok i have to step in with this, cuz i was recently unemployed for a lengthy period of time and even though i wasnt dating anyone, there are ways around this. Im gonna tell u to dont worry about taking the girl out etc . . .not because im gonna tell u to do like rent movies, make her dinner, go out on walks. . .etc u get the idea. Im tellin u to dont worry cuz youre at a young age where you can get away with not having a car, a good paying career, a nice pad etc. Man, i had a gf a year ago and we had sooo many good times just roaming crazy in the city at night and doing watever. When u get older however, youll definately need to step up your game cuz if you dont, the only girls youre gonna meet are the ones with just "REALLY good personality" and believe me, you prolly dont want that. |
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| wallflower |
| quote: | Originally posted by Vlad
Keywords: Find & Talk... Im deficient in both of these fields. |
practice makes perfect, or at least better |
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| Vlad |
| Practice would be nice if I wasnt so shy. |
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| RachUCF1001 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Busy Child
ask ur friends, i dotn know j00 but im sure they will tell u. Find a girl with a common interest. That way you both can talk about stuff that youre more comfy talking about rather than straight up smooth talking her which not very many guys are able to do successfully. |
screw smooth talking,
well maybe thats just me, I hate when guys act like that.
alot of girls like the shy type though vlad. you shouldnt have to change or try to be someone youre not to get a g/f. Being yourself is the best bet. but, i know it may be a little scary, but next time if you find yourself in a position where youre checkin out/diggin a girl take the initiative and say whats up with a cute smile.that would get me 100% before someone who seemed like they were "trying too hard". just be genuine. You dont have to have any cheezball lines or impressive wisdom to open a conversation with. just be cute and be yourself. dont stress over it babe. your time will come!
xoxo |
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| Vlad |
| Ok fine, so I come up to a girl, say hi, and get her name... than you know what happens to me? I begin to forget the english language. |
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| RachUCF1001 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Vlad
Ok fine, so I come up to a girl, say hi, and get her name... than you know what happens to me? I begin to forget the english language. |
lol!
im sure not, just relax. vlad youre like psyching yourself out..already setting yourself up for a letdown. be POSITIVE.
besides what have you got to lose, just suck it up and go for it. |
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| Vlad |
| I have nothing to loose, but Im very self-conscious, I dont like to make myself look like an idiot. |
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| RachUCF1001 |
| ok, ive said all i can say vlad lol....:toocool: |
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| Busy Child |
| yea vlad, you can only help yourself. If you dont wanna give it a shot, then thats ur decision. |
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| vtec junkie |
| Yeah vlad I think you just need to grow some balls man. Talking to girls isn't that hard. They don't like when guys 'spit game.' Just be yourself and talk to them like the humans they are. And dont sit there and say "thats easy for you to say cause you do it all the time" cause thats bull man. I still get nerves here and there but its nothing to get all worked up about. Ill admit man.....I get the goooo goooo gaaaaa's when im talking to a chick that has gorgeous eyes.....eyes get me every time.;) |
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| hitokiri |
| quote: | Originally posted by Busy Child
vlad, cheer up, girls are trixxy anyway. |
i second that... trixxy hobbits... :thepirate :disbelief :disbelief :disbelief |
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| fr0st |
| Hey vlad, how old are ya? I know exactly how ya feel. I am the most shy person one could ever meet. But once you get me talking on a subject im informed about, I can talk for hours(discovery channel does wonders). I and yeah i have done the most stupid things for girls(moving to a different state.) Yet I still love companionship too death. Just talk to a girl you like, asthough they were your best friend. And if your are afraid of what they will think of you, well whats the point if a girl doesnt like you for being you there is no point. |
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