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A girl thread (pg. 4)
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| jdat |
| quote: | Originally posted by TrAnCeAkI
honestly swamp should make a forum for u guys to ask girls questions or ask questions for advice about girls lol :nervous: |
LOLOLOLOLOLAKI yes you're so right .... wtf is up with all these damn relationship threads! KEEEL I say KEEEEEL
it's so annoying. Shows how much geeks we got on here that have no one they can ask sensitive advice from. |
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| Gekhous |
| quote: | Originally posted by TrAnCeAkI
honestly swamp should make a forum for u guys to ask girls questions or ask questions for advice about girls lol :nervous: |
yeah, mebbe u can answer their questions then...
the forum would be called: Where-The-One-With-the-Lame-Nick-Solves-Your-Relationproblems-Forum
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| igottaknow |
| quote: | Originally posted by StereoPrincess
she is probably just flirty in general and you, as a guy by default, reading into it too much. why can't a woman talk nicely to a guy without the guy automatcially thinking she likes him? |
in general your probably right, but i think it's a little different if she invites you out to a club. btw, do you want to go out to the club with me and be my buddy...errr I mean friend. :p |
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| Orbax |
| find out who her husband is, then hang out with her. she tries something, tell him. |
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| DigiNut |
| quote: | Originally posted by StereoPrincess
she is probably just flirty in general and you, as a guy by default, reading into it too much. I know girls that are polite, and I know girls that flirt.
why can't a woman talk nicely to a guy without the guy automatcially thinking she likes him? |
Talking nicely <> flirting, and the difference is clear to most people.
Guys "by default" read into it too much because girls "by default" flirt for attention but blame the consequences of that behaviour on someone else.
This girl is either flirting for attention or for sex, and I can say without hesitation that you're playing a dangerous game in both cases. |
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| TranceGiant |
"Don't even think about it"
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| Arbiter |
| Looks like a lot of forum members are falling short in the "balls" part of the equation. Don't feel bad though, you've got plenty of good company. |
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| Lira |
| quote: | Originally posted by Arbiter
Well the solution is easy. Just apply the formula:
(10*(100-H))/(1+(10*B)) = R
H is how hot the girl is on a scale from 0-100.
B is how many balls you have.
If R > 20, then stay away.
Otherwise, have your way. |
I like this :p
But Arbiter, what's your point of view on marriage and betrayal (in this particular case)? I'm interested :) |
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| smokeape |
| quote: | Originally posted by hardstyle
Ok i don't know what to do.
Heres my thing:
I work with this girl, she is really cute and stuff, i like her kinda, i think she likes me too becouse she allways smiles at me, grabs my leg :nervous: , and calling me her lover.
Ok heres the problem, she is married to a guy who is at the Army and he is Kuwait, my thing is im stricktly against cheating and i will never try to take anybodys gf, wife away from they bf , husband.
So what should i do, just ask her if she likes me more then a friend and if she does should i tell her i'm not interested to getting into a love triangle? |
You already stated your views on the subject, so what's the problem? Go find a single female instead of wasting your life and move on...unless you have a problem in that category.
:rolleyes:
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| Arbiter |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lira
I like this :p
But Arbiter, what's your point of view on marriage and betrayal (in this particular case)? I'm interested :) |
Well since you asked...
Marriage is a commitment between two individuals, and a very strong commitment at that. It's certainly wrong to betray that commitment, just as it is wrong to break any promise that you make. That said, it isn't the responsibility of any third party to play the role of your conscience and help you do the responsible thing.
So I would say that it is the responsibility of a married person not to betray their spouse, but I would not call it immoral to knowingly sleep with another man's wife. The woman, even though they are married, does not "belong" to the man. She is free to pursue relations with whomever she wants - even if it isn't the morally right thing to do.
Now, in order for the act of sleeping with another man's wife to be wrong, you would have to be victimizing that man in some way. But, since the woman isn't his property, you aren't violating any of his property. And since you never forged an agreement with him stating that you wouldn't sleep with his wife, you aren't violating any commitment (you can only violate your own commitments, not other people's). Hence I wouldn't classify the your decision as victimizing the man - only the woman's decision victimizes him by causing a breach in her commitment to him. |
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| DigiNut |
| quote: | Originally posted by Arbiter
Well since you asked...
Marriage is a commitment between two individuals, and a very strong commitment at that. It's certainly wrong to betray that commitment, just as it is wrong to break any promise that you make. That said, it isn't the responsibility of any third party to play the role of your conscience and help you do the responsible thing.
So I would say that it is the responsibility of a married person not to betray their spouse, but I would not call it immoral to knowingly sleep with another man's wife. The woman, even though they are married, does not "belong" to the man. She is free to pursue relations with whomever she wants - even if it isn't the morally right thing to do.
Now, in order for the act of sleeping with another man's wife to be wrong, you would have to be victimizing that man in some way. But, since the woman isn't his property, you aren't violating any of his property. And since you never forged an agreement with him stating that you wouldn't sleep with his wife, you aren't violating any commitment (you can only violate your own commitments, not other people's). Hence I wouldn't classify the your decision as victimizing the man - only the woman's decision victimizes him by causing a breach in her commitment to him. |
This philosophy is better known as "If a man's wife/girlfriend offers you a piece, you should hit that , because he shouldn't be layin' up with no ho.
Conciseness, Arbiter, conciseness. :stongue: |
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| Arbiter |
| quote: | Originally posted by DigiNut
This philosophy is better known as "If a man's wife/girlfriend offers you a piece, you should hit that , because he shouldn't be layin' up with no ho.
Conciseness, Arbiter, conciseness. :stongue: |
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