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Idealist Romantics? (pg. 2)
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| DarkAngel |
| quote: | Originally posted by digitally404
haha, well, true. But you can always grow to love someone, and that's the route most people use. |
I find it's easier to hate than to love. :whip: :disbelief |
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| Tranc3 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Boomer187
oh, and were you gonna misspell sight wrong also??? |
No, and I wasn't going to point it out with a grammatical error either. So almost exactly what I was going to say. |
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| Arbiter |
You'd have to either be tremendously shallow or tremendously psychic, no?
As for how to know "if you're just wasting time," that's easy:
If you're having a good time, you're not wasting time. Otherwise, you are. |
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| Rodrico |
| quote: | Originally posted by PinkLights
Ditto. It's all about PHYSICAL attraction at first. Always. AND THEN they get to know eachother and figure out if it was love..But I've had my share of "LOVE"..blah...I think it's over rated...Or maybe Im just bitter?... |
It is over-rated, sex drugs and rock n' roll is all a person needs, I guess you can substitute rock for trance in here. |
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| Lira |
Don't me ashamed of being emotional: we all do (or should :p) have emotions :)
"Love at first sight", literally speaking, would be something perfect, if there was no thing such as time. Since relationships are based on things like affinity, changes and tolerance, a "love at first sight scenario" would be like winning a prize: you suddenly get the good part without "paying for it".
The 2nd* best thing about relationships is to find out more about the person and yourself. If you're enjoying yourself (as Arbiter stated) and you like being with that person (it doesn't need to be a 24/7 thing, by the way, as we all need some time alone), then I can't see how you're wasting time. However, if you go too fast, chances are you may fall. So, if you want things to work out, take your time. I do have a story, but it failed due to anxiety, and I learned to deal with it. How can we know whether relationships work? We don't, otherwise there would be no break-ups and divorces.
[size=1]* If you're wondering what the best part is, think with me: Is there anything better than enjoying a joyful moment? |
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| smokeape |
| quote: | Originally posted by spacechica
Ok so here's a "relationship thread" that I've been thinking alot about recently:
Do you guys/girls believe in "love at first sight" ? How do you know if you've "met your match" so to speak or if you're just wasting time... Sorry about this overly-emotional stuff. I've been really wondering about this in a rather ideal and indulgent way. Any of you have "love at first sight" stories you want to share?
Thanks,
Mindy :rolleyes: |
Don't know exactly about #1, but #2 was kinda love at first sight. A completely different approach than the normal overnighters and we got married.
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| Rodrico |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lira
Don't me ashamed of being emotional: we all do (or should :p) have emotions :) |
Emotions are for the weak... |
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| spacechica |
I meant strong emotions that have taken over much of your thoughts when you are awake. Gotta stop the daydreaming all the time... Sorry for the confusion. :)
| quote: | Originally posted by Rodrico
Emotions are for the weak... |
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| BLuEOcEaN420 |
dont believe in love at first sight. infatuation & lust at first sight, sure. ive experienced that many a times before...
love at first sight...hypothetically speaking, wouldnt it be an extremely a superficial thing? love at first sight would imply that your basing all your emotions on that very first instance & impression in which physical appearance is an overwhelming factor. :o |
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| smasha |
| i reckon lust at first sight yea, but love, nup, aint gona happen, thats pretty much for the movies to look after, sadly enough :( |
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| LoCa |
Same feelings here. I don't think you can fall in love with someone right when you see them.
It's definitely lust first, although sometimes you can mistake those lustful feelings for love (which is what generally happens when you're head over heels for a guy but the moment he dumps you/cheats on you, you end up hating his guts for the rest of your life). :tongue2 |
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| teegee |
i bet old people would know...
I'm only 18 and have only been in like 4 relationships, how can i tell...old people, i mean they've been having relationships all their life, wouldnt they be able to tell us if they ever experienced "love at first sight" or "met their soulmate"?
So basically, anybody a senior citizen here? :tongue2 |
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