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cheating (pg. 8)
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| Sean Walsh |
Hehe, well if you cheated on her and she cheated on you, then I think we can all agree you have a completely worthless relationship and should just do both of yourselves a favour and break up.
Personally I couldn't deal with a girl that cheated on me; I'm the type that would demand to know all the details, then promptly wish I hadn't heard them as the next couple months of my life would be devoted to re-living those thoughts and working myself up into a bitter frenzy on a daily basis. The good thing about being really bitter is that I find it to be quite motivational though =P
Cheating is pretty much about respect; if you have it done to you then that person doesn't respect you nearly as much as they should to be in a significant relationship with you IMO and it's not worth continuing. Yeah, people make mistakes, but seriously, as a guy I've always managed to keep my dick in my pants no matter how ed I've been and I'd expect similar resiliency from any chick I was dating. If I ever end up cheating on a girl it will be because I probably shouldn't be with them anyways, but I hope that will never happen regardless of circumstances.
On a side note, why blame the guy she cheated with? If he didn't know then it's totally harmless on his part, and if he did know then you should be thanking him for exposing the girl as the worthless bitch that she is and allowing you to move on with your life instead of wasting another minute with her. |
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| Turbonium |
| quote: | Originally posted by Jiffy
Yeah, a sexual assault charge against him would REALLy "show her".
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I wasn't serious. With or without legal consequences. |
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| smokeape |
:mad:
[[[smoke]]]
Blank & Jones - Perfect Silence |
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| starglider |
| quote: | Originally posted by DarkAngel
^^^^^^ WTF? |
A curb. |
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| dj_Vendetta |
| quote: | Originally posted by DjDarling
To come out feeling and looking the absolute best that you can, just leave her, don't talk to her ever again, and don't do any of that nasty revenge . You look like a god, and all she will do is want you back! |
Well that is easier said than done if he infact likes the girl, if someone loves someone they will always hope for that person to change and stop acting rediculous. |
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| Swamper |
Cheating tends to be one of those things that people do when they're not getting what they want out of their current partners - and then after they're done cheating realize that all they really did was fill a void temporarily rather than attempting to change/fix whatever is wrong in their current relationship
If couples don't communicate about problems then things will eventually turn to ...to make it simple.. we all make mistakes - it is how you learn from them that matters
Revenge? Ya.. it's always the first thought...but then you realize you're just using your time/resources on something/someone that isn't worthy of that effort |
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| UWM |
| The relationship Oracle that is Swamper. |
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| Swamper |
| quote: | Originally posted by UWM
The relationship Oracle that is Swamper. |
haha.. I wish!
I'm still in training ;) |
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| UWM |
ROiT
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| dj_Vendetta |
| quote: | Originally posted by Swamper
Cheating tends to be one of those things that people do when they're not getting what they want out of their current partners - and then after they're done cheating realize that all they really did was fill a void temporarily rather than attempting to change/fix whatever is wrong in their current relationship
If couples don't communicate about problems then things will eventually turn to ...to make it simple.. we all make mistakes - it is how you learn from them that matters
Revenge? Ya.. it's always the first thought...but then you realize you're just using your time/resources on something/someone that isn't worthy of that effort |
Very well put:cool: |
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| chojin |
| quote: | Originally posted by Swamper
Cheating tends to be one of those things that people do when they're not getting what they want out of their current partners - and then after they're done cheating realize that all they really did was fill a void temporarily rather than attempting to change/fix whatever is wrong in their current relationship
If couples don't communicate about problems then things will eventually turn to ...to make it simple.. we all make mistakes - it is how you learn from them that matters
Revenge? Ya.. it's always the first thought...but then you realize you're just using your time/resources on something/someone that isn't worthy of that effort |
good advice. googled?:D |
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