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| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
Yoda said it the best. Do, or do not. There is no oral. Or something like that.
Nah actually I like hints. Here is why. A girl I liked 100% as a friend and 0% more than that was always doing little things to me. Like id be in the car and shed tickle my neck and stuff. or wed be watching a movie and shed tickle my feet with her toes. I would just smile and keep watching.
later she exploded saying that Im an idiot and that I dont get whats going on and Im like "what do you mean?" TOTALLY playing dumb. She got pissed and left me alone from then on. We stopped being friends too because I know those feelings dont really go away so I just kind of left...
so they give you an easy out when it comes to that kind of situation. |
i have been in that situation on both ends and your solution is the right one. |
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| pooley |
Had the same thing with a chick. I was fooling arond alot, throwing hints, she did it also. I was just after some affection and whatever would come out of that , she also but after a few weeks she said she was in love.
I walked away and said that was not possible. Damn !
A few weeks later she jumped in some bushes with a friend.
Ah well, too much sweettalk, no action :/ |
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| Shudder |
| quote: | Originally posted by nchs09
last night i slept over at her house and we were just giving massages and i grabbed her ass... but mainly cause i was drunk as hell
but still...... what a pain.. AND WHAT IF I GO FOR IT AND ITS NOT MUTUAL.. that would be teh suck |
yea, i've been struggling with this whole mutual problem for quite a bit. its frustrating. |
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| Orbax |
| quote: | Originally posted by nchs09
last night i slept over at her house and we were just giving massages and i grabbed her ass... but mainly cause i was drunk as hell
but still...... what a pain.. AND WHAT IF I GO FOR IT AND ITS NOT MUTUAL.. that would be teh suck |
dude youre an idiot, im sorry. If you are spending the night at this chicks house and MASSAGING her and grabbing her ass and she hasnt said stop...
my god. Massages are so key. I gave this girl a 4 hour massage once. I was all over her, and her over me. So intense. You can start being really sensual with that stuff...tracing her jaw lightly, getting her hair out of the way. I finally just took her bra off because it was hindering the massage haha.
Youre slow :p |
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| torontotrance |
| quote: | Originally posted by nchs09
just to tell all of u girls, when it come to men, DONT GIVE HINTS!!!
i think i can speak for all man when i say WE CANT FIGURE OUT THE DAMN THINGS.....:whip: :whip: :whip: :whip: :whip:
girls are a pain when they give hints and guys dont know what to think
geez..:rolleyes: |
spoken like a true man
did I mention that the male code book was missing a few 100 pages. |
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| nchs09 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
dude youre an idiot, im sorry. If you are spending the night at this chicks house and MASSAGING her and grabbing her ass and she hasnt said stop...
my god. Massages are so key. I gave this girl a 4 hour massage once. I was all over her, and her over me. So intense. You can start being really sensual with that stuff...tracing her jaw lightly, getting her hair out of the way. I finally just took her bra off because it was hindering the massage haha.
Youre slow :p |
well ya.. im a dumbass... i spend so many nights in girls rooms and always just end up passing out or falling asleep... yesterday i was really messed up though... we were kindda dancing in her room.. and then i busted out the massage.. and she changed into this slutty outfit..
NOW THAT IM TYPING IT I NOTICED IM A DUMBASS..... but still its cause i cant get hints! if she would grab me and gave me a kiss then i could go from there |
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| torontotrance |
| Yes but men don't get the hints damnit, that's why we get torched or look like dumbasses. See the person who wrote the book on women and all about them, burned it before they died and left no hints. |
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| Shudder |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
dude youre an idiot, im sorry. If you are spending the night at this chicks house and MASSAGING her and grabbing her ass and she hasnt said stop...
my god. Massages are so key. I gave this girl a 4 hour massage once. I was all over her, and her over me. So intense. You can start being really sensual with that stuff...tracing her jaw lightly, getting her hair out of the way. I finally just took her bra off because it was hindering the massage haha.
Youre slow :p |
i'm learning from this :D |
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| Orbax |
| quote: | Originally posted by nchs09
well ya.. im a dumbass... i spend so many nights in girls rooms and always just end up passing out or falling asleep... yesterday i was really messed up though... we were kindda dancing in her room.. and then i busted out the massage.. and she changed into this slutty outfit..
NOW THAT IM TYPING IT I NOTICED IM A DUMBASS..... but still its cause i cant get hints! if she would grab me and gave me a kiss then i could go from there |
yeah trust me im like you. I figure that im a pretty easy dude to figure out and that if i do that stuff im obviously interested so go for me. It doesnt make sense, and its why I dont have a girlfriend haha.
yeah...going over this stuff does help, and screw the naysayers who say youre overanalyzing.
Dude...so next time youre hanging out make a bet with a massage as the anty. You cant lose. after you get your massage say you feel bad and that youd like to return the favor. Then get her a pillow and a low table. That way she can lean forward on it and rest as you go to work.
Its great when you scoot up real close and youre straddlin em massagin...this all works later at night btw when youre kind of sleepy... anyways then just lean down and give a her a kiss on the cheek or something as youre doing it and then lean back and continue.
itll be pretty obvious whats up, but its nothing so forward that if she doesnt bite, your blatant sexual move just got thrown down. I kissed a chick on the cheek and a week later we were messing around in her bed because she kissed my cheek back during a movie that next week.
Just got to get intentions out there hehe. |
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| torontotrance |
see males need to remember this
women will be either the greatest thing in your life or your worst nightmare....so tread lightly. |
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| nchs09 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
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obrax u pimp..... ill try BUT i think im gonna need some liquid courage... a.k.a. booz
i dunno guy maybe i wont even try cause this girl is my friend and i dunno I DUNNO:conf: |
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| ShadoWolf |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
Yoda said it the best. Do, or do not. There is no oral. Or something like that.
Nah actually I like hints. Here is why. A girl I liked 100% as a friend and 0% more than that was always doing little things to me. Like id be in the car and shed tickle my neck and stuff. or wed be watching a movie and shed tickle my feet with her toes. I would just smile and keep watching.
later she exploded saying that Im an idiot and that I dont get whats going on and Im like "what do you mean?" TOTALLY playing dumb. She got pissed and left me alone from then on. We stopped being friends too because I know those feelings dont really go away so I just kind of left...
so they give you an easy out when it comes to that kind of situation. |
more evidence of Ladder Theory... |
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