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Meeting strangers (pg. 2)
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| lMIlk |
| o and is being "cute" a bad thing? |
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| Excite |
If you're ever at a rave or club and you see a hot girl ask her something like "so what do you think about the music?" or "do you come here often?"
And if you're a DJ this is where you mention you're a DJ and watch her face light up.:D
Have a demo CD on hand with your phone number and any other contact info.
You won't believe how many chicks I've picked up doing this. :cool:
And don't be intimidated by hot a chick is. If you've got skills and confidence there's no need to worry. |
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| jeronemango |
| lol saying ur a DJ does make a huge diff lol.. but its pretty lame in my view,,,you see so many fat ass DJs with these hot girls.. u know why she with him,, to be noticed.thats all.. if he was not a DJ, just a clubber,, think she would be with him??? no way.. |
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| Taub |
i guess ill try complimenting, but i can't be complimenting her on her clothes or anything...wouldn't she get the idea that i might be gay?
The only thing i think i can compliment her on would ber her hair or her eyes....she has this clear blueish hazel eyes and she has curly burnette hair....she has a beautiful face...and a body that goes with it...
But the main problem i have is that shes never sits alone or is alone....she has her friend with her. Starting a conversation with her while her friend is sitting next to her listening to everything i say scares me
so what would you guys do?
any help on that Ur Dream Grl?? |
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| luckystrike |
go over here:
http://www.tranceaddict.com/forums/...p?threadid=3969
:)
i have a similar situation a few days ago - [BTW , me and my GF broke up 2 weeks ago, well - i dont know if i can call her my x girlfriend b/c we only been together for one month , anyway... ].me and my friend driving back home after going out and i saw this amazing girl walking on the street , so i stoped the car next to her and opend the window and asked her if she can explain me where is "arlozorov" street. when she said she dont know I started to explain her how to get there...:)
then she start laughing and we start talking , in the end i even got her phone number :) - we talked on the phone a few times and i hope it'll get well :) ... |
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| Ur Dream Grl |
| quote: | Originally posted by Uisgdlyast
Besides girls never compliment guys, i never heard "Wow you smell great.. what is that" or "Your hair looks nice, how do you do it?" and i bet i'll never hear "You got the smoothest legs ever"(atleast i hope i wont) |
| quote: | Originally posted by Renegade
Why is it always up to the guy to strike up the conversation? Why don't girls ever try to chat guys up? What the hell happened to sexual equality!!?? :rolleyes: |
heheh..awww Uisgd...i cant believe this.. what kinda girls have you been hangin out with ? i always tell my boyfriend these things and more.. but i only tell him.. see this is how girls are...
we will tell you how gorgeous you are in your face if you mean something very special.. otherwise. we only share it with other girls.. as everyone knows it and it is called.."GOSSIP" hehe.
See , i dont know why but girls dont really approach guys, and when they want to.,.. the will tell one of their friends to go talk to you..its weird but you will hardly hear things like "HEY NICE ASS"...or "Can i have your number" from a girl . it just doesnt happen.
its just how it is cause girls are more sensitive and they are more afraid to walk up to a guy and get laughed off or something... but for a guy it is just normal when they walk up to a girl and say stuff like.. "hey baby, you wanna dance"...if the girl says "NO" the guys dont really take it that personal...the will go on to another girl.. .. but if you say no to a girl.. she will start thinking stuff like.. he doesnt like me.."im too fat.. im too ugly.. and she wont ever walk up to another guy anymore.
i know it is funny...and it is weird.. but then again.. this are some of the reasons men can't understand women!
| quote: | Originally posted by lMIlk
o and is being "cute" a bad thing? |
well cute is a not a bad thing...
cute is actually very simple and sweet...remember, girls love to get compliments..they love to feel loved and special.. i mean we all do..you just gotta know how to do it..
there s difference in walking up to a girl and saying .."you got the cutest smile"... and "HEY MAMA , WHAT A FINE ASS YOU GOT IN THOSE PANTS" lolol.. this is funny..and imamture .personally guys who walks up to me and tell me i have a fine ass .. i dont even look at them.. what makes me think he doesnt say that to every other girls in town.. it is just wrong.
and it sounds more like you just wanna rape this girls.. or you jsut want her body or something...
if you do.. that is fine..but if you want more than that.. you gotta show!!!SHOW SHOW SHOW!!
| quote: | Originally posted by Taub
But the main problem i have is that shes never sits alone or is alone....she has her friend with her. Starting a conversation with her while her friend is sitting next to her listening to everything i say scares me
so what would you guys do?
any help on that Ur Dream Grl?? |
hey taub.. whats up sweetie??
well.. i know how it is to like someone and have her friend always being there..
but this is something you just have to get over it..
i mean if you are gonna try to be something to her... then you might as well just get used to her friend being there..cause she will be no matter what.. and i know it might make you shy...but you never know, her friend might even want to help you or something... you can be funny too.. and say something like.. "i always see you gils together.. are you sisters... best friends.. twins... related? " this is a good question to start a converstaion with both of them...
or whenever theres something going on in your school..ask them if they know anything about it...trust me...if you are nice to them... they'll be nice to you...
i hope i helped some of you guys... i'll be more then happy to give more advices... good luck taub!
and take care all yall hunni bunnis!!;) ;) ;)
xoxo Ur Dream Grl |
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| Izzy |
funny stuff luckystrike
what i have to say may be a bit of a downer, but Taub you dont have any chance of anything serious from class... that case has happened to me a few times. even if you do talk to her i doubt it'll go anywhere. if you bump into her outside of class thats a different issue. the only start-up conversations that work are the ones where you just met them, such as the first day of class or any other random meeting... the ones where you just spark a conversation on the spot with someone you've never seen before. the second you start dwelling on someone for a while waiting and thinking for something to say it wont work. you'll see, whenever you do get the chance to talk to her i BET you it wont be what you had planned. |
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| Taub |
| started thinking.....best way i think to start a conversation would be to ask her about homework and ask if she can explain how to do it or something like that and then take it form there???? i think that would work in my case since she is in my class....or is that approach stupid and obvious?.....its not like i want to bang this girl...just get to know her and become good friends and take it from there....need feedback |
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| Extravaganza |
i totally agree with ur dream grl, she is so right!
you really know everything !
you know i was thinking about the things you wrote, and you are right, girls are ecxactly how you say they are, hehehe
hey taub i think you should do what she said... ask her something baou school, and be simple and be yourself... you relaly shouldnt plan anyways, caus eit might coe out wrong... but if you just be yourself you'll be alright..
hey dream grl.. i told this girl where the club i play tennis today..."hey where did you get new racket... cause i saw you with a different one yesterday".. and guess what she responded to that, and we started talking, then she invited me to play with her friends, and so i did, so we've planned t play more times this week..
thank you,
i'never wanted to approach her cause i thaught she had a boyfriend, but how would i know if i never talked to her you know?
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| Taub |
Dream girl need more helpp......so i just ask her a question even thought i know the answer to it? act stupid in the beginig? like when you said ask her where the ______office is even though i already know wehre it is?....
you are right Extravaganza if i do have it planned out, nothing will come out the way i plan...but i am in only one class with her and i dont to look dumb by saying something stupid...and ruin any chances of being her friend.....aite let me see what will hapen....thanks for the help guys
-Matt |
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| Excite |
I know it's not true and no offense to any females out there especially Ur Dream Girl but if you want to get some play from chicks in a social setting i.e. party/club and don't have much confidence and/or natural pimping skills it helps to think like this: "I'm the biggest pimp in this place, 'em hoes."
Girls love guys who take control of the situation and are confident/social. Women love to be hit on at social events otherwise they wouldn't be there in the first place. It boosts their self-esteem I guess.
And I'd just like to add, I've never gotten any play being Mr. Nice Guy.
This concludes session two of Pimpology 101.
"Girls! All I really want is GIRLS!" -Beastie Boys |
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| Nastra Azzurro |
hey Taub..I got an idea....
Get to know the friend...First..Dont be all flirty and stuff but be nice and honest i make the impression u wanna be friends cause if u do eventually get to know the girl u like u probably have to like her friend too..so u should get to know the friend and via her get to know the other girl..( i can really explain hope u understand) wheheh
I mean ive done this before and the friend was ugly as hell but she was really nice could easily talk things with her (without lookin at her whehhe jk) well in the end i got to know the other girl as a friend, didnt wanna bang her or anyfing just know her u know.
I mean if u approach the friend u wont be as nervous cause u r not obssessed with her..so it ll be easier and then u can take the next step which will be easier than trying to avoid the friend
Hope it makes sense..
This seems like a good approac
Good luck neway whatvere u do
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