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I was just about cheated on .. on my FACE !! (pg. 2)
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| Phazon |
Great advice Renegade.
Puts a smile to my face when i offer some advice and i end up getting some back :) |
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| Eye-Riz |
Renegade, you really made me laugh out loud!! What a vision! I think most of it was true, especially
| quote: | Rule #1: Girls, all girls, are head-s.
And they don't even know they're doing it either. They just have this habit - this strange, hidden talent - to play with men like a cat plays with its half-dead prey. |
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| quote: | | But there's still that bitchy/gossipy element about it, where they have to make every choice or action an emotional melodrama, that must be cut into tiny pieces and analysed over and over again |
I prefer to hang out with guys because of all that. And the worst: sometimes I find myself doing the same thing what I hate so much bout girls, and that's really ennoying because that's JUST what I don't want to do... but it seems I can't do anyting about it.
Maybe it's some hormonale thing ruling over my acts and my mind... it's definitely NOT my personality (unless I have more peronalities and still not aware of that :D :D :D ) |
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| LiquidX |
| quote: | Originally posted by Renegade
[Chauvanistic Ranting]
Rule #1: Girls, all girls, are head-s. :D
And they don't even know they're doing it either. They just have this habit - this strange, hidden talent - to play with men like a cat plays with its half-dead prey. I've given up on them for now, taking a self-imposed (mostly :) ) break from them. I figure that as they get older they'd be less likely to play games like this, so I'm holding out for a 25 year old or something.
And yes, I'm bitter. Not because of anything that happenned to me mind you, but because of what's happened to my close friends in the past. Three or four of them at least got ed around by girls last year: and these are really nice guys, not just any old s, but the kind of guys that you girls always complain that they can never find. Because they're nice guys, they let the chicks walk over them, and we all know what happens then. The second a girl knows she's in control, you're ed. :)
Now I'm sure there are some nice girls out there, who are likely to love the guy as much as they love themselves, and I am friends with a few girls who are quite nice. But there's still that bitchy/gossipy element about it, where they have to make every choice or action an emotional melodrama, that must be cut into tiny pieces and analysed over and over again.
The point of this post? I guess all I really wanted to say is that girls are irrational. Don't put your heart in their hands because they could (and will) do anything with it. They're likely to you over without even knowing their doing it. So tell her where she can shove it LiquidX, she needs you more than you need her. :)
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Damm renegade , you do know what Im talking about , thanx for the advice, and you know, thats what everysingle friend of mine have told me, and they tell me that NOW that im 17 , I should worry about heaving fun , studys and so on .. but girls no , cause they do as exactly as you said, and thats what happened to a friend of mine just this week ... Ive actually got 2 friends in a BAdder situation then I, they are like this girls puppets, and they are so in love with them ... but hey, sometimes is hard to control your heart, and well, Im about to go see her, is not that I want to, but because I have to, she friends of one of my best friends, and its her party , so she'll prob. be there..... I know I cant feel worst then she prob. is .
Thanx again renegade. |
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| Daffer |
Yeah, women are like that, Something a bit similar happaned to me some time ago, there is a saying aroud there that states thae you must not understand women, just love them....but i disagree on that so...i know how ya feel man! I am not the beste here to give these advices but I could tell you... get her out of your life. There are some really good women out there (question is where?) so I guess we'll have to do other things and let them find us.
maybe it sounds a bit stupid but if you keep looking you'll never find. sad thing |
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| Eugene |
LiquidX, I know what you mean because I've been in the same situations myself.
The thing you gotta know is that girls LIKE and ENJOY when a guy acts with power and determination (even if that means being an ), or surprises them. Also, she already knows you and of course she'll be more interested if she sees someone she doesn't know yet (especially if she finds him attractive).
I'm sorry but that's how it is -- with unstable relationships, or when you're too young. Of course, if a relationship is stable, you don't have to worry as much. |
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| Phazon |
These young girls are just lookin to get their pussies wet. No problem in helping em do so. But once you make things easy for her then she has you on the tip of her finger.
Believe it or not, the best thing in the world is a confident women. She can get ANYTHING she wants. |
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| beroshima |
I've got to agree with Eugene on this one. Do not underestimate the power of strength in relationship. As was shown by yer a$$hole friend, they do love it, don't they?
Its all caveman instinct, and the fact that (in America) we've been lied to our whole lives that love will come to us for sheerly being 'nice'. Next time take charge, and don't let any guy get between you two. The moment he stated putting his moves on her, you should have smartly gotten him out of the picture.
BTW, don't meet with her tomorrow, just don't. I'd hope you have more self-respect than that. |
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| twilochik |
OMH...I don't even know where to start...I think like every other post has offended me....I agree that there are plenty of dikk tease gurls out there...but you know what there are still plenty that aren't. So don't generalize and say all gurls are this...or all gurls are that....b/c you know what it's guys you like with your mentality that have broken my heart several times...and made me feel like some used whore when I wasn't just bc they had that mentality. And you don't see me ranting about all guys are pigs and the like. B/c I realize that not ALL guys are like that.
And if you take on this mentality that all gurls are whores...or that they are just out for some fun then you might over a gurl that really cares about you and you could miss out on a great relationship.
What this gurl did was stupid, hurtful and wrong...but in no way is she a whore...I mean she kissed a guy for God's sake...she didn't sleep with him. She obviously made a stupid decision that hurt you...but now you know she's obviously immature and not ready to make a commitment to someone. I mean we here at TA know nothing about her...her age, her personality.
All you guys on TA say there aren't a whole ton of gurlies up on this board...and maybe b/c it's a bit much to stomach some of the idiotic rantings of you guys esp. when you come down hard on gurls like this. I mean I'm not one to be offended by the "TA babe of the Week" thread...nor the "hot club gurls" thread...but please guys...before you come down on women so hard think...just b/c you've been hurt doesn't give you the right to bash us. |
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| Eugene |
| Well twilochik, maybe not all girls are like that, but the young ones are... It all comes down to flirting. |
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| AnotherWay83 |
i dont know why but from ur post liquidX i got the idea that maybe...just maybe..she did it on purpose to make u jealous...maybe she wanted to see if u really liked her back...but i may be wrong..
all i can say is, don't expect to find that ideal chic, she doesn't exist...don't depend on finding a woman to make u happy d00d...it shoudl be sumthing u want, not sumthing u need...
peace good luck |
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| Eugene |
Whatever happens, NEVER lose your SELF-RESPECT! This is the most important principle.
If you don't have self-respect, if you don't feel confident about yourself, there will be problems with girls. If you have respect toward yourself, other people will respect you too. |
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| Ur Dream Grl |
Felipeeeeee...(liquidx)
i miss you!!
where have you been sweetie???
hey that really f#cked up what they BOTH did.. but i guess your friend didnt know about it...still...if she had any sorta of respect for herself.. specially when you were there.. she wouldnt had done anything with him...that is just very low...
dont be upset about it though.. learn from what you saw.. and just remember that maybe it was meant to be.. maybe it is better that you saw how she really is before you really fall for her...so just look at it as just another experience... but there is a lot of better ones to come..
by the way... my cousin says hi...:p
xoxo Ur Dream Grl |
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