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Thoughtful reaction for girlfriend's new haircut needed desperately (pg. 2)
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| TweeK |
| our outfit is cool:cool: |
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| Lira |
| quote: | Originally posted by DJ Mikey Mike
If that's you in your avatar you look like Todd from Coronation Street. |
So I look like an axe murderer AND some TV character who seems to like kissing blokes.
How charming :p
edit: Not to mention I've been told I look like Swamper as well...
| quote: | Originally posted by R.j.
damn. dats short:eyes: |
I ain't short, it's shorter than that!!! :eek:
(I believe she's exagerating though, or at least, I want to believe she is :p) |
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| Slylee |
hahahah you're screwed. she'll know that you really don't like it by the look on your face.
best thing to do is be honest (not brutally, but a little honest).
just say this:
"sweetie, i don't want to lie to you, so i won't. i don't think it looks as good as it does when it's long, but i still think you're beautiful and i still love you...it'll probably grow on me"
now go practice your sincere face and recite that in the mirror a few times. she'll probably get offended but oh well. just don't lie to her and insult her...she'll get even more mad. like i said, she'll probably be able to tell right away that you don't like it. |
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| Lira |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
hahahah you're screwed. she'll know that you really don't like it by the look on your face. |
I know, that's my fear :p
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
best thing to do is be honest (not brutally, but a little honest).
just say this:
"sweetie, i don't want to lie to you, so i won't. i don't think it looks as good as it does when it's long, but i still think you're beautiful and i still love you...it'll probably grow on me"
now go practice your sincere face and recite that in the mirror a few times. she'll probably get offended but oh well. just don't lie to her and insult her...she'll get even more mad. like i said, she'll probably be able to tell right away that you don't like it. |
Even if she's in "those days"? You sure? I mean, I've always been honest, but I really wonder whether "avoiding a proper answer" shouldn't be a better option... and I would then tell her my opinion in a subtle way later... |
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| blazed it |
i think slylee's got some good advice. |
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| Lira |
| quote: | Originally posted by blazed it
i think slylee's got some good advice. |
Erm... I guess all I've got in common with him is my old haircut (shaved hair) :p
Who is he, by the way?
(Alright, I'm taking note of Slylee's advice - any other words to enlighten me?) |
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| Slylee |
no way, if you guys are really in love, then you will always be honest. I ALWAYS tell my bf when he looks like a retard...he doesn’t listen to me and he’ll still wear that outfit or whatever it was I didn’t like, but I mean, at least I don’t lie to him. but then again, that is just me. I’m known for speaking my mind and just callin it how it is, even if it might hurt someone’s feelings.
I was in a similar situation recently. my boyfriend’s best friend from college and even now shaved his head recently. Now I consider this guy like one of my best friends too cuz he’s always at our place and we hang out all the time...so I felt the need to be honest with him when he walked in bald. I was just like, "well I like you better with hair, but you still look cute, it’ll grow on me". I think he appreciated the honesty. And honestly, I’m used to it now...so you never know, you might be pleasantly surprised, or it’ll grow on you. |
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| jonze234 |
| shes probably just ing around with you. but hopefully she didnt go G.I. Jane. |
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| blazed it |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lira
Erm... I guess all I've got in common with him is my old haircut (shaved hair) :p
Who is he, by the way?
(Alright, I'm taking note of Slylee's advice - any other words to enlighten me?) |
he's an awesome UFC and PRide fighter, you know like mixed martial arts competitions. He's from brazil and he's brutal as hell, very exciting fighter. |
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| Lira |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
no way, if you guys are really in love, then you will always be honest. I ALWAYS tell my bf when he looks like a retard... |
this sounded funny for some reason
"Honey, I've got to tell you one thing?"
"What is it, darling?"
"You look like a retard" :p
Indeed, I now just need to find a better way to translate "Grow on me" in portuguese, as it sounds like "I'll get used to it" :p She usually complains that I avoid giving a contrary opinion. Well, unfortunately I guess the time's come.
*holds breath*
| quote: | Originally posted by jonze234
shes probably just ing around with you. |
She's not unfortunately :p
| quote: | Originally posted by blazed it
he's an awesome UFC and PRide fighter, you know like mixed martial arts competitions. He's from brazil and he's brutal as hell, very exciting fighter. |
Yay :D |
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| BeatFreak |
| An ex-girlfriend of mine did this one. It looked terrible. It looked like a helmet. I had to lie. She loved it. So just lie. honesty. She'll be happy and you'll get used to it. |
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| Slylee |
| heheh well sometimes he likes to get a little too crazy w/ the hair...he spikes it up too much and it looks too juvenile. then he just sits there and he'll watch my face and be like, "what...i know you don't like it...tough ". i just laugh. |
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