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Dealing with a situation here (please excuse the ignorance)
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| Lotus |
Ok, so I uhhhh got caught having sex with my significant other. Her father walked in, saw us and said "You could have at least told me you were home". He then went back to bed. Mind us, we came in at around 2 a.m. after dealing with a friend's health matter at the hospital. So yeah, she's a bit nervous and I'm trying to figure out ways to deal with this situation.
Only thing I can think up is to apologize for this, and try to make things better. Do you guys have anything worthy that might be of use for me? |
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| biznology |
huh?
well I would like to help, but there isnt much you give us in the way of details, confounding factors, et al.
sounds ty, but also sounds like everyones first up. cheers| |
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| kaotickat |
apologize to who? your significant other? or her father?
if it's to your sig other, i'm not sure what you would apologize for. for being loud? getting caught? or for the distress that it now causes her? if she has anxiety about this issue (which would make sense to have), maybe you should ask her what you can do to help. i don't know if this would be the best move, but i would ask her how i could help the situation and relieve some tension. afterall, she's the one that has to go home and see him at the end of the day, and deal with awkwardness.
if it's to her father, you should definitely ask her if you should first. she'll know her father's reaction best if you decide to approach him. if you don't consult her first you could unintentionally be making the situation worse for her, or the both of you. |
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| Ian^ |
| at least he didn't say "well you moaned louder for me" |
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| fitom tiel |
| quote: | Originally posted by Ian^
at least he didn't say "well you moaned louder for me" |
or the old-school classic "She Moaned Louder For Me"
but that's harsh |
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| Silver Bass |
| the only way to solve this is more sex! I've been caught in the same situation, i wouldn't worry things will go back to normal in a week or 2 |
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| Floorfiller |
i got caught with my last girlfriend by her mom. her mom is korean so she is pretty strict about stuff like that. she was telling her stuff like i don't want to ever see you again. i felt really bad.
what eventually happened was that her mom realised that i wasn't going anywhere and that i wasn't using her daughter and so i think she eventually started to get over it. that and my girlfriend told her we stopped having sex hehehe... |
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| Orbax |
Go to the father and 1) dont apologize
rather tell him that your intentions with his daughter are good and you think shes a wonderful girl and you never EVER want to hurt her. You arent sure exactly where the relationship is going, but you two have reached a certain level of intimacy and you think its good and healthy and you are protecting yourself against possible bad outcomes of your actions.
that will tell him "im not just bangin some slut im with your daughter whom i want to protect, and speaking of protection, im using it"
if my above statement doesnt apply to you, come to Redmond Washington wait at the Model Airplane field in Marymoor Park wearing two red baseball caps each point in a different direction and wait until I arrive to beat the out of you. |
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| j_spot |
depends on how old you are, and how confident you are in your relationship with this girl.
there isnt much to do.
Dad will talk to daughter, and you will get glares from Dad next time you go around her place.
If you are really brave, commited and older, you could talk to Dad yourself, but his is risky, and you may end up getting thrown out of the house.
I dont know too many dads who like to hear about how you care about their daughter, so its ok that you are porking her. |
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| xKaoSx |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lotus
Ok, so I uhhhh got caught having sex with my significant other. Her father walked in, saw us and said "You could have at least told me you were home". He then went back to bed. Mind us, we came in at around 2 a.m. after dealing with a friend's health matter at the hospital. So yeah, she's a bit nervous and I'm trying to figure out ways to deal with this situation.
Only thing I can think up is to apologize for this, and try to make things better. Do you guys have anything worthy that might be of use for me? |
ugh
pics or stfu |
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| djdust |
| My right hand walked in while I was making love w/ my left. |
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| DJ Mikey Mike |
| Tell him his daughters breasts are really firm. No seriously though, its the 21st Centuary, what have you even got to be sorry for? |
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