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A question for French speakers about the use of tu / vous
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rjwilmsi
From next month I'll be studying for a year in France on an ERASMUS / SOCRATES program as part of my chemistry degree.

I've been studying French for years now, so I'm generally proficient, but I was wondering about the correct use of 'tu' / 'vous' as a student:
when I meet a fellow student for the first time can I use 'tu' straight away or do I need to use 'vous' and then 'tu' later on? Would the answer be different if the student were a flatmate, someone I recognized from my course or unknown to me etc? How about when trying to chat up girls?;)

Obviously I'm fully aware of using 'vous' for professors, people in shops etc & adults generally, but I don't want to either offend a French student, or look stupid using some schoolboy / amateur French!

Any suggestions would be appreciated.
TOR
i'd use 'tu' myself, since the person you'd be talking to is on the same level as you are. on top of that, you won't create a distance between yourself and the others by using 'tu'.
Mochu
You can use "tu" to any students.
I mean, you're in the same school and doing the same stuff. You're not a stranger to them.

Keep cool, and use "tu" instead of "vous". ;)
colonelcrisp
vous is the propper way to show respect and it doesnt hurt to use it in place of tu. i personally only use tu when i am speaking with close freinds adn relatives, everyone else gets the vous treatment, unless they piss me off then they get the obligatory maudite espece du concombre...
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