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Is age really just a number?
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| d!abolic |
| All my life i've looked down upon guys in their late teens or early twenties who dated girls a lot younger than them. I'm not talking 2-3 years difference here, but more like 5. Sometimes, i've downright hated them. But i'm sure we all know how much life enjoys laughing in our faces every so often. So get this. I'm almost 21 and i recently met this girl who i thought was around 22. She's got an great sense of style - young professional type with a touch of flare. Very active in sports, including tennis and volleyball, which are the two sports i'm mainly into. Highly intelligent and mature. Face as close to being perfect as you can get before you start to wonder if there was plastic surgery involved. :) She could probably pass for a 25-year-old if she really wanted to. And with all honestly, in my twenty one years on this planet, that's the second girl i've met that i could really see myself connecting with. But going back to what i said about life laughing at us. I just found out she's... 15. I kid you ing not - my jaw dropped! And right now, i'm seriously just plain confused. Talk about a conflict of interest, huh? Am i seriously gonna tell this girl that i never wanna see her again just because she's got '1989' and not something more acceptable like '1986' written on her health card? I think i would really regret that. But on the other hand... dating a 15-year-old? Even though it's legal, most people (including myself?) would find it pretty immoral. But what kind of a loser would let fear of criticism stop him from doing what he wants? I've turned down girls countless times because of the age gap, which ironically enough, has always been even smaller than this. But right now, i'm stumped. |
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| Jayx1 |
hey if its legal and their's grass..
PLAY BALL!
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| maxtuh |
| quote: | Originally posted by Jayx1
hey if its legal and their's grass..
PLAY BALL!
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Yes, take it from uncle Jayx1, he always gives good advice:haha: |
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| DancingQueen169 |
| The heart doesn't know age....however, at that age......it is a little more unacceptable. |
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| d!abolic |
| quote: | Originally posted by DancingQueen169
The heart doesn't know age.....however, the law does.....
At least find someone who's legal :P |
In Canada, 14 and up is legal. |
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| DJ_Elyot |
| umm legal is 14 in Canada. U watch too much american TV or something. |
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| DancingQueen169 |
| quote: | Originally posted by d!abolic
In Canada, 14 and up is legal. |
Yah I realized that after I posted......tried to edit it, but u beat me too it :crazy: |
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| Sly_Guy |
Seriously, age is just a number. Who cares how old the chick is? The one thing you REALLY have to keep in mind is maturity when it comes to relationships. Sure she may seem like a cool, perfectly grounded mature girl now, but what happens when things take a turn for the romantic or sexual? Can she handle that at her young age? That's the biggest issue for someone that young, and to be honest I've never met a 15 year old that I'd be willing to give a try with a relationship.
But if you're sure about such things, than all the power to you. Besides, the younger you get them, the longer it'll take for them to turn ugly. Haha |
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| DigiNut |
| quote: | Originally posted by Sly_Guy
Seriously, age is just a number. Who cares how old the chick is? The one thing you REALLY have to keep in mind is maturity when it comes to relationships. Sure she may seem like a cool, perfectly grounded mature girl now, but what happens when things take a turn for the romantic or sexual? Can she handle that at her young age? That's the biggest issue for someone that young, and to be honest I've never met a 15 year old that I'd be willing to give a try with a relationship. |
Listen to this man.
Sadly, maturity in personality is a very poor indicator of maturity in relationships. It could be a yay, but I'm laying my bets on nay. |
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| Endlesswave |
Listen to Sly...
She's 15! I mean it would prob be different if she were say 18 or even 17 but 15??:nervous: |
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| starsearcher |
| The golden rule...take your age, divide by 2, and add 7 - that's your limit ;) ;) ;) |
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| Jayx1 |
tell that to all the cougs as of late!
Fuggit.... when i was 17 i watched all the girls my age go for guys in their late 20s. When i reach my late 20s suddenly its dirty yet its ok for women in their late 20s and beyond to now bang 18 year old boys?
YEAH RIGHT!
Go for it!!! |
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