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What do I do? Freaked (pg. 6)
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| Clovis86 |
If you've ever waken up from a pass out...then that totally made sense...
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by Clovis86
If you've ever waken up from a pass out...then that totally made sense...
-Clovis |
yes it did...
and orbax...stop crying and pooping all over the house... |
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| Orbax |
Today I was reading something and the word "Wiener" goot me. It makes sense as weiner too. But I guess not, really. Still, I got tweaked out.
The something was gay porn
there I said it so the speculation is gone :eek: |
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| UWM |
| The question now becomes, what were you doing reading about gay porn? |
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| Xenocreator_PG_ |
| quote: | Originally posted by Theresa
Ok, I just had a very weird experience.
My ex's best friend (or old best friend... I dunno if they are best friends anymore,) called me tonight (not once, but FIVE times). Now, this is weird in itself, as I have never really spoken to him over the phone before, and we were never very close. My ex and I would hang out with him and my girlfriends (probably like 3-4 times in the last three years), but nothing ever more than that. I did however, see him at the bar last weekend, and we chatted a bit.
Anyways, he calls me tonight at 3 in the morning, and I start talking to him, and I ask if he is ok, because I can tell there is something not quite normal about him, (other than the fact that he has called me at 3AM). He goes on to tell me that he is "ed up" and he has had "too much to drink".
Well, I have had my fair share of drugged up moments, so I can tell that he is not only drunk, and that something else is going on. So I ask, "what else have you done tonight?" And he replies, "nothing, I'm good." So I ask again, "did you just drink? Or did you take something else?"
"Well, I had a little MDMA." :eek:
So I have someone tripping on ecstasy on the other line, and it sounds like he isn't having a very good trip.
I start talking to him, trying to make him feel better, and I get him laughing. I tell him some sweet stories, and I even start talking about how great kittens are. (I know what it is like to have a bad trip!!)
He isn't talking about anything bad, but I can read people, and I can get vibes from things. I can tell that he isn't thinking positively, and that he may be harmful to himself. I ask him where he is, and he tells me that he is on a veranda. I ask him if it is high up, and he says yes. I ask him to please go inside for me, and go in a room with other people. He agrees to go inside, but he wants to be alone... ?
Anyway, we continue talking, and a few minutes later, I can hear wind. I ask him again "where are you? Are you outside?" He says he is, and I again ask him to go back in, because "it'll make me feel better."
I am not feeling comfortable with him being someplace he can jump off of. He is not thinking properly, and I know that he has some issues going on in his life.
As if this isn't weird enough, he goes on to tell me how much he loves me, and how great I am. I reply by saying that he is just as great and that I love him as a friend. I realize this is a "love drug", so I comply, and try to keep him feeling good.
Then I decide that, even though I wouldn't know from experience, as I have never done E, I will play music for him that will make him trip nicely. I know people on E like to listen to hyper music, especially EDM (and I have loads of that).
I crank my speakers and play "Basement Jaxx - Stop for love", I listen into the ear piece, and I can hear wind again! I am freaked out because I am worried that he is going to attempt suicide, and I really wouldn't want him doing that. I ask him to go back inside, and he does. At this point, one of his friends decides to take him for a walk to a big city park (they brought me along via phone.)
His friend ends up passing out hanging off a swing, and the guy I am talking to is grasping onto my voice as a sign of comfort and safety. He wants me to keep talking, even if it makes no sense. So I talk for a while about happy things, and good memories. I get him laughing again, which is great, and I ask if he wants to hear more music.
He says "yes"...
So I try to play something a little more fun and happy, "Scooter - Ramp", and then ironically, I play "Darude - Ecstasy"
He enjoys the last two thouroughly, and he seems to be doing better. I get him to wake the guy that he is with, and tell him to get home and drink some water, and then crawl into bed. He doesn't want to drink water or go to bed because both are "very bad".
Seems like there is no convincing him, so I just continue to say pleasant things, and laugh about nothing. After 2 and a half hours of talking, he decides to hang around the crowd of people at the house he is at, and that he is ok to let me go.
Through out the conversation he asked me multiple times if he could call me, and if he could have my number. (Ummmm, you called me, so I am pretty sure you have my number :tongue2) He told me he loved me several times, and he continuously apologized for bothering me, which I assured him was not a bother at all.
I am not sure how to take this to be honest. I am definitely not going to read into him "loving" me since that was the drugs talking, but what happens if he calls me again? Sober? Drunk? ETC?
How did I handle the situation? Should I tell him I am worried about him? I don't think I really have the right considering I hardly know him.
BLAH... it was weird!
I need to crawl into bed now :o ME SO TIRED!
P.S. Thanks for reading all of this :) |
wow, you sure are a nice person!!! :D :D :D :D :D :D :D |
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| Orbax |
| quote: | Originally posted by UWM
The question now becomes, what were you doing reading about gay porn? |
Masturbating.
lol. I just figured Id go on the offensive on this one :p |
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| DiMethGuy |
| i've never heard of anyone bugging out off of E. doesn't happen. Especially suicidal tendencies (maybe the next day, lol) but I dunno. I woulda just told him to jump but to make sure he held the phone while he did so you could hear what it sounds like. |
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| igottaknow |
can someone write me Cliff Notes? I caught:
ex's best friend + late nite call + e
what could it mean? :disbelief |
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| Theresa |
I have edited this for privacy reasons. The names have been changed to their relationship to me, and are in quotation marks. I apologize for the length...
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
goooood afternoon
Theresa says:
hello there sir
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
how's it going eh?
Theresa says:
not bad, what about urself?
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
just got home from work
I'm hot and sweaty and slightly tired
Theresa says:
LMAO
Theresa says:
aww
Theresa says:
poor guy
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
yeah, once i finish my gross mcdonalds I'll clean myself up real nice
going to THE BRICK tonite, I'm EXCITED
Theresa says:
yay
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
Mr. “guy who called me” is comiing too, and maybe “friend who took “guy who called me” on a walk”, if he's up for it
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight says:
i was talking to “guy who called me” last night
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
Oh no
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight says:
i talked to him for like ... 3 hours
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
not while he was at the martini party???
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight says:
yup...
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
hahaha
what was he saying?
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight says:
he had taken E tho..
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
******!
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
I just talked to him\
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight says:
oops!
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
and he didn't mention that too me
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight says:
umm, i didnt say anything!!
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight says:
dont tell him i told u
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
grrrrrrrrr
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
that dumbass
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight says:
plz dont tell him i told u
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight says:
im a little worries about him
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
*rolls eyes*
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
it doesn't matter if you told me or not
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
It's not a giant secret
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
there is no such thing as a giant secret with that kid
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
now I'm reconsidering bringing him with me to the brick.
hmmmmm
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight says:
awww
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight says:
im sorry!!!
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight says:
argh
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight says:
i shoulda not said anything
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight says:
is he doing ok?
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
what do you mean by OK?
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
i dunno
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
is he ok?!
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
like mentally? is he depressed at all?
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
some of the stuff he was saying last night got me a bit concerned for him
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
how “guy who called me” feels rite now only “guy who called me” knows
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
like what?
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
how he doesnt care about anything
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
and how he wished people didnt think he was such a nice guy
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
...?
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
it was weird
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
yeah, thats “guy who called me”
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
he "doesn't care about anything"
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
toilets clogged, house is a mess, grandparents coming home the next day
insted of cleaning up and fixing the toilet he goes to wonderland
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
wtf.. ?!
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
insted of getting a job so he can have money he doesn't get a job because he doesn't care how poor he is
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
and I'm farily certain he's an alcoholic now
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
even if he doesn't know it
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
cause i don't know how many nights he goes without drinking a week
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
isnt that a sign of depression? the fact that he DOESNT care? I know he has been doinf a lot of partying, and now hes hitting chems...
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
was he enjoying it?
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
no
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
i dont think he was
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
i can tell from experience when a person is having a good trip
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
i dont think he was
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
did he get laid?
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
he was trying to make me think he was fine
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
no i dont think so
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
he was on the phone with me during most of his trip
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
yeah. thats a sure sign of a bad trip
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
i think he needed to hear something comforting.. so i was talking really nicely to him
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
and he kept asking me to talk if it went silent
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
that you'd rather be conversing with people who arn't anywhere near you
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
he was probably the only one on drugs so he was probably feeling alienated
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
i dunno
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
heh heh heh
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
or conversing with someone he rarely speaks to for that matter
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
don't read too much into the behavior of someone who is t up, espeshally chems
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
yea, but usually when u r ed up, the real feelings can come to surface
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
ive never done E so i dunno
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
hahahahaha
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
but i was worried about him
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
thats bull
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
thats all
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
u dont think thats true?
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
i know it's not
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
i think when u r uncensored by drugs, ur true thoughts and feelings can be leaked out
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
when ur t up what you think is real comes out
when u sober up ur like "wtf?"
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
but, in reality.. sometimes what u say when ur ed is the truth, even if the person who is saying it doesnt realize it
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
i dunno..
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
sometimes
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
thats more of a drunk thing tho
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
actually
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
that IS a drunk thing
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
when ur on drugs it's not the same
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
from what i have experienced, thats how i see it
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
hmmm...
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
maybe
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
i hope hes ok
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
he's got himself one big ass rant coming his way
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
dont get mad at him
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
let him know ur there for him
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
hahaahhahaha
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
I'm not gunna be there for him in 3 months when he's collecting his welfare cheques and spending it all at the LCBO
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
awww.. he needs help
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
he's in a dark place rite now, i know what it's like being out of work for prolonged time
only he's not trying to improve his situation, he's trying to ignore it with as much substance as he can
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
try telling him that and see how far you get
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
what he needs is a good yelling at and a bitchslap from his friends
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
have u thought of one of those things where ALL of his friends meet him and all tell him he needs help?
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
talking doesn't do anything, actions are the only thing that truely speaks
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
and I'm about to say "I will not support this behavior"
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
HAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHA
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
ALL his friends
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
including the ones who are contributing to his problems
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
who don't even view it as a problem
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
ack..
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
how do u pull someone out of that?
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
"yeah., “guy who called me” you need to get your in order
here, let me buy your broke ass another pitcher"
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
one of my best friends from highschool got into weed way too much and it t his brain
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
he pulled some crazy on me and I turned my back on him
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
the cold shoulder affected him more then any conversation ever would have
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
the impact of having your best friend walk out on you will force a person to stop and think things over
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
yea
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
but do u think he would do something stupid like suicide or anything liek that?
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
he's already tried to kill himself
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
with booze
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
tho I'm the only one who sees it like that =P
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
no i see it like that too!
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
from what i have heard, and the little i have sene
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
seen*
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
he is not ok
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
and he needs help
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
no, he is definatly not OK
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
but he will refuse to admit that
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
i remember the night me “my ex” and “guy who called me” were at waterloo park and we met up with Little Joe, the hobo
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says: “guy who called me” and him got along so well, they were having such a good time
i can see him taking the same path
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
is there anything we can do to help him?!?!
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
not unless he wants to help himself
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
and he doesn't seem to want that
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
else he'd be working
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
but he may have reached a low of depression where he doesnt want to help himself ne more
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
it almost seems hopeless.. .
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
well, you can express your concern to him and see how far it takes you
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
i dont think it will do anything
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
i am not important to him
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
and not only that
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
i dont think i am in any position to say anything to him
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
we barely know each other
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
i dunno
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
i cant help but to think that i should do something
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
or help him in some way
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
the wellfare of someone you barely know is not your responsibility
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
yea, but he felt the need to reach out to me for help last night
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
tho making him aware of the simple fact that he isn't as fine as he thinks and he shouldn't be doing the things he's doing
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
is all you can expect of yourself, because beyond that it's up to him
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
so far he has a thumbs up from everyone, so he thinks it's all good
but if people start tellin him like it is he's gunna have to figure it out soona or layta
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
alright... well i suppose if he and i talk again, i will mention it
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
r u going to mention it too?
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
do you have him on MSN?
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
no i dont
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
whats his MSN?
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says: “guy who called me”@ something.com
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
Oh, I'ma "mention" it to him
but probably not tonight
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
then again maybe i will
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
if he gets himself faced and acts all dissorderly at my staff party he's in trouble
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
well i hope it goes well for both ur sake
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
i gotta run tho, i have to go to work
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
but ill talk to u later
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
try and have a good night
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
okey
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
O, I will
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
THE BRICK is nothing but good times
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
ok good
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
goodnight
Theresa-YAY Girls night tonight @ WORK says:
bye for now
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
$5 all you can drink fresh from teh keg
“best friend of guy who called me” - This Friday, Return to THE BRICK says:
toodles
I find the ending ironic, but whatever. This was the update, which confirms my concerns. I knew I had a reason to be worried and that I hadn't made it up in my head. I have decided that I am going to tell him next time I talk to him (sober) that I am a bit concerned for him. I will try and talk to him about getting his life straightened around, and I will attempt to do this in the most non-abrasive way.
Thank you guys for paying attention and reading through all the long posts :) I appreciate the help MUCHLY!
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| Clovis86 |
I would try to read thet stuf...but i am way too hamered...
My last nite in LA so my friends threw a goodbye party...
woah. |
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| Floorfiller |
| well theresa. i think you're right. this guy has something wrong with him. he probably needs someone to tell him what's up since it seems like his friends are somewhat encouraging it. so i say if you talk to him again...tell him what you think...i know you'll think of the right thing to say. |
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| Orbax |
The friend you were talking to has his head screwed on straight.
One thing you gotta learn about the guy world is that if somethings ed up, the guy needs to know. The source doesnt matter. IF his friends doing drugs and being an alcoholic, he needs a talking to. |
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