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The fu*kbuddy concept.... (pg. 3)
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by Seventil
Watch Vanilla Sky.
You'll never womanize again. |
says the womanizer :stongue: :stongue: :p |
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| Trancer85 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorfiller
boy you people that are actually actively seeking buddys are jackasses. i don't think its something that you look for...its just something that happens. if you are actually just searching for buddys...that's basically telling me that you are just interested in using women...and that's not cool. |
looks like you're running at an ancient level. who says men can't be used either? girls want to have fun too. |
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by Trancer85
looks like you're running at an ancient level. who says men can't be used either? girls want to have fun too. |
did i say men couldn't be used? no. but the responses in this thread to which i was responding were all made by men. |
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| Mr. Pink |
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorfiller
did i say men couldn't be used? no. but the responses in this thread to which i was responding were all made by men. |
cuz almost everyone in here is a man dude lol
which sucks!!!!!!!!!
but i agree with you completely, meng.
Using chicas isn't fun. I know ive done it a few times, but you know- they were definitely getting something out of it too.
Regardless, being a playa isn't all its cracked up to be. |
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| SirSycott |
| lol... i wish women would use me for sex, yeah i'm a computer nerd who's never been laid, so what? and imo i'd only be looking for a buddy if i wanted to get into a relationship(with lotsa kinks in the bed). also, women do get attatched to men because it's sex,... i knew a girl who wouldn't dump this bastard in high school cause she gave away her virginity, now she's still with him , and he treats her like |
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| Mr. Pink |
| quote: | Originally posted by SirSycott
lol... i wish women would use me for sex, yeah i'm a computer nerd who's never been laid, so what? and imo i'd only be looking for a buddy if i wanted to get into a relationship(with lotsa kinks in the bed) |
You'd only want a relationship with a buddy with a lot of kinks in the bed? LMAO
that's no relationship, thats a quick and move on. Maybe a good for a little bit, but no relationship.
Wouldn't a relationship entail- NOT being a buddy?
and yeah, i can tell you're a comp nerd (not that comp nerds are bad) but you seriusly dont know about how good it can feel to be with a girl and share something more than just a tickle for your pickle.
Emotion makes sex so much better........well, more rewarding imo.
a REALLY good is awesome, but if you had that same girl, and she was still a really good , and you just so happened to love her........well damn, i think you've found yourself a keeper.
Otherwise, stick to the hand biznatch and try not to play starcraft too much, y'hear?:haha:
:D |
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by Mr. Pink
but you seriusly dont know about how good it can feel to be with a girl and share something more than just a tickle for your pickle.
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tell him man!!! pink knows whats up |
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| SirSycott |
i don't play starcraft and i don't use my hand, i'm not that horny.
sure, sex is sex, and with attachment and emotions, it's probably even better. but right now i stoped looking for a girl only because i realize what a piece of i am, and another point: i don't think it's neccesary for me to engage in a relationship with all that high school drama ...plus i don't think that i could maintain one as far as i can tell. i'm just lucky i haven't been branded "gay", some people are still shocked at the fact that i've never been kissed(still saving it for someone), and also i've never had a girlfriend ever, my prom date asked me to take her to the prom and i paid for her ticket and dress, she calls it off and goes with her ex-boy, i find another date and she calls it off only cause she's friends with my previous prom date, three days after prom they make up rumors that i'm stalking them....... cheer leaders suck...
I'm in college now, hopefully i might get into that relationship i always wondered about but for now, i'm stuck with my buddies who all have girls, ohh how i envy them,.... |
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| Trancer85 |
| quote: | Originally posted by SirSycott
i don't play starcraft and i don't use my hand, i'm not that horny.
sure, sex is sex, and with attachment and emotions, it's probably even better. but right now i stoped looking for a girl only because i realize what a piece of i am, and another point: i don't think it's neccesary for me to engage in a relationship with all that high school drama ...plus i don't think that i could maintain one as far as i can tell. i'm just lucky i haven't been branded "gay", some people are still shocked at the fact that i've never been kissed(still saving it for someone), and also i've never had a girlfriend ever, my prom date asked me to take her to the prom and i paid for her ticket and dress, she calls it off and goes with her ex-boy, i find another date and she calls it off only cause she's friends with my previous prom date, three days after prom they make up rumors that i'm stalking them....... cheer leaders suck...
I'm in college now, hopefully i might get into that relationship i always wondered about but for now, i'm stuck with my buddies who all have girls, ohh how i envy them,.... |
it's okay dude, life sucks one way or another |
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| trancebrat |
| I have no problems with the concept and yes it can be done. It just takes two mature people that are on the same page. Never say never. Don't assume you know everything. Just because it didn't work for one person doesn't mean it won't work for someone else. Hell...someone found my ex appealing enough to marry him. I figure after that anything is possible. |
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| XaNaX |
| quote: | Originally posted by SirSycott
i don't play starcraft and i don't use my hand, i'm not that horny.
I'm in college now, hopefully i might get into that relationship i always wondered about but for now, i'm stuck with my buddies who all have girls, ohh how i envy them,.... |
There are two kinds of men. Those that use their hands and those that lie about it. *cough* liar *cough*
College is a whole new world man. Alcohol will get you laid easy.
And back on topic, I personally know 4 people that have tried this and it has always been cool for a short time but then turned into a full blown disaster in the end.
Typically here is the scenario:
1. Guy is friends with a hot girl and wants to F her because he is a guy.
2. Drugs or alcohol cause it to happen because they were always attracted to each other on some level.
3. The F buddy thing goes cool for a while. But then the guy either
a. loses interest because the hunt was the real thrill
b. meets another hot girl he wants to F
c. meets a girl that is "relationship material"
4. Right about this time the girl always decides that she wants to take the F buddies thing to the next level because she is falling in love with the guy.
5. The guy does not love her and the whole thing blows up in one massive dramatic meltdown. The girl and the guy are no longer friends because you cannot turn a "friends with benefits" relationship back into a regular friendship.
I watched this situation destroy several long term friendships. Its not good. If you just want to get laid pick up some skank from a bar and have a one night stand.
The concept of F buddies is great but in practice it rarely works out. You gotta find a special girl for it to work out. |
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| SirSycott |
when i think about it, getting a buddy is cool and all but taking it to the next level would also be great, that is until the long term crap get's spewed and then more arguments and differences pop out, unless you find the right girl who decides to bring it up a notch.
now the thing is , sex means different things to guys and girls,
sex to a guy is sorta like a task or excercise...
sex to a girl is more deeper than the guy's point of veiw, when a girl has sex with a guy, she's telling him that she's trusting him with her body in a sort of a way, to them sex isn't something that is just given or passed around, and that's why girls want to take the buddy to the next level, unfortunately the poor girl never ends up meeting the guy who wants to keep a relationship..
i find it very ed up when the guy screws the chick and leaves her out in the wild to die like an animal.
if i ever happened to meet someone, i'd at least do my best to make sure that she's happy and meet to her standards...
i'm just hoping to get a girl just like that dude from the american pie movies |
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