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What to do? (pg. 8)
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| NiteMer |
| quote: | Originally posted by Miss Bliss
I wouldn't worry about what she says. She sounds like she's just showing off to get in with the older guy... she thinks that's what she's supposed to say in order to impress you. Which may very well be true. :p
Anybody can have rape fantasies, abused or not. To give you an example of how wide the range swings, there could be:
a) my friend helen, a sweet innocent girl who's never been abused, never had sex, who has rape fantasies because she wants to feel what it's like to finally give up control to a man
b) me, who was raped while drunk by three 26 year olds when I was 16 and now have rape fantasies for reasons I don't understand :p |
Sorry to hear about that. If a girl told me that a guy raped her, I would either beat their ass(es), or find help and go beat their ass(es). That is unacceptable and men like that should have their balls cut off. |
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| igottaknow |
| quote: | Originally posted by Miss Bliss
b) me, who was raped while drunk by three 26 year olds when I was 16 and now have rape fantasies for reasons I don't understand :p |
thats serious stuff. :( glad u didnt let it mess up ur sex life |
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| Miss Bliss |
It's cool, I kinda blocked out what had happened until this year (I'm 18). There definitely was an influence on my life from age 16-18 where I became, well let's face it, a slut. But that's all over now, and my boyfriend now is very loving and supportive... and our sex life hasn't suffered, thank god ;)
Anyway my point is rape fantasies can happen to anyone! As long as it's between two consenting adults over 18 it's fine. And no one normal who has a rape fantasy REALLY wants to be raped, of course... it's about giving up control, which can be nice sometimes. :) |
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| NiteMer |
| quote: | Originally posted by Miss Bliss
It's cool, I kinda blocked out what had happened until this year (I'm 18). There definitely was an influence on my life from age 16-18 where I became, well let's face it, a slut. But that's all over now, and my boyfriend now is very loving and supportive... and our sex life hasn't suffered, thank god ;)
Anyway my point is rape fantasies can happen to anyone! As long as it's between two consenting adults over 18 it's fine. And no one normal who has a rape fantasy REALLY wants to be raped, of course... it's about giving up control, which can be nice sometimes. :) |
From my experiences, most women like for a guy to take control. I've never really had a girl fight me when I tell her what to do. I don't know why that is, but I think most women have a submissive side. |
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| itsTrueSonic |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
true. just bang her, and get it on webcam and do a live stream. i doubt she'd mind. |
woo hoo! .. great idea .. something for me to fap fap about .. my collection is starting to wear out .. :nervous: :nervous:
| quote: | Originally posted by NiteMer
From my experiences, most women like for a guy to take control. I've never really had a girl fight me when I tell her what to do. I don't know why that is, but I think most women have a submissive side. |
you playa! .. you go d00d! .. hahaha :tongue2 :tongue2 |
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| NiteMer |
| quote: | Originally posted by itsTrueSonic
woo hoo! .. great idea .. something for me to fap fap about .. my collection is starting to wear out .. :nervous: :nervous:
you playa! .. you go d00d! .. hahaha :tongue2 :tongue2 |
:haha: :haha: :haha:
That's funny and messed up at the same time. |
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| Slylee |
sorry to hear about that miss bliss! what a bunch of s. they don't deserve to get hard on's in my opinion.
anyway, i hope you don't suffer from it mentally any more. just be careful because a very close girlfriend of mine was drugged and raped at a college party by her boyfriend's "friends". they made it out like she wanted it, and her bf believed THEM and dumped her. she was with him for like 2 years too. she seems ok, but i can tell she's really affected by it because she has anxiety a lot and drinks a lot and does coke and stuff, and she always gets wrapped up in guys, and then "gets sick of them". but i think she just pushes them away when she starts to like them. either that, or she is just numb to men. i think she just uses them a lot. she won't let anyone get close to her. she goes through boyfriends like underwear, it's not cool.
but anyway, i hope you recognize any patterns like that if they come about and get help. because even if you aren't dwelling on it, and seem OK with it, it coule be subconciously affecting you and you don't even realize it. but you seem to have your head on straight about it, thank god. |
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| NiteMer |
| quote: | Originally posted by josh4
I'd hit it, I think you should hit it. Hell if you're into that sort of thing you and your friend should have both hit it right there.
However, if you think she is capable of coming back and crying rape or something like that don't hit it.
Is she hot? If shes hot then hit it no matter what. |
I hinted at the whole three way (no male interaction, of course), but she didn't seem to go for it. It was pretty subtle too. She's hot. I don't think she'll be crying rape either. Maybe " me" or something like that, but probably not the other. If she does, I'll stop right then and there. I still don't know whether or not I wanna do it though. I will play it by ear. |
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| ::TranceVanDyk:: |
why didnt u just rip the panties off right when she mentioned bein cummed on?? wtf is wrong with you!?:conf:
THE OUT OF HER:whip: :whip: |
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| igottaknow |
| quote: | Originally posted by NiteMer
I hinted at the whole three way (no male interaction, of course), but she didn't seem to go for it. It was pretty subtle too. She's hot. I don't think she'll be crying rape either. Maybe " me" or something like that, but probably not the other. If she does, I'll stop right then and there. I still don't know whether or not I wanna do it though. I will play it by ear. |
most guys on TA like to talk tough but are really pussies. Even when a girl practically jumps on them they still don't know what to do. I'll just play it cool and things slide. brilliant! :rolleyes: |
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| XaNaX |
Ok dude I've read all these posts an here is my advise. Go get yourself two 8 balls of white and 3 boxes of condoms.
Invite this girl over and tell her you want to hang out and party. When she arrives, see how she acts sober. Is she acting all slutty and giving you all that sex talk? If so, now you gotta decide if some sex is worth the drama that is prolly gonna come later.
If not, break out the yay and cut out some fat ass lines for the both of you. Now see how she is acting. If she all of the sudden gets all horny on you and starts with the sex talk, I'd say you are clear to hit that. She might just be a party girl and into some casual coked up sex. Your fat bag of white should keep you guys goin for a while, and you will be in for some great freaky coked up sex. |
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| igottaknow |
| quote: | Originally posted by XaNaX
Ok dude I've read all these posts an here is my advise. Go get yourself two 8 balls of white and 3 boxes of condoms.
Invite this girl over and tell her you want to hang out and party. When she arrives, see how she acts sober. Is she acting all slutty and giving you all that sex talk? If so, now you gotta decide if some sex is worth the drama that is prolly gonna come later.
If not, break out the yay and cut out some fat ass lines for the both of you. Now see how she is acting. If she all of the sudden gets all horny on you and starts with the sex talk, I'd say you are clear to hit that. She might just be a party girl and into some casual coked up sex. Your fat bag of white should keep you guys goin for a while, and you will be in for some great freaky coked up sex. |
good advice if only he has the two balls to follow it. btw the "balls" that i refer to are not the white ones but the ones with hair on them. :stongue: |
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