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Help with Sex and Pregancy? (Info Needed) (pg. 2)
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| Xenocreator_PG_ |
| quote: | Originally posted by StalkerElmo
basically what im saying is
if i use protection, i.e condom does not break
and i do not bust inside her
and that i clean myself before sex..
use a new condom every time.. considering that the condom doesnt break
theres no way i can get her pregnant right, RIGHT???!? :nervous: |
get her on teh pill & dont worry about using teh condom |
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| tribu |
| quote: | Originally posted by StalkerElmo
that's some good info right there but i'm pretty sure shes gonna be on birth control she's too young at this age, but yeah my best bet that i could only get is what you tell me about involving condoms, birth control i cant deal with it yet.. |
My advice is, if you think youre old enough (and responsible enough) to be having sex then youd better start thinking about birth control as well. Are you in the States? Tell me which state, and Ill see if I can find some info. How old are you and your gf? Honestly, you shouldve been thinking about birth control before you became sexually active (I figured you didnt just meet and start ing, there was probably some kind of progression both in your relationship and sexually), but its never too late. Birth control is for anyone having sex, regardless of age.
| quote: | Originally posted by Xenocreator_PG_
get her on teh pill & dont worry about using teh condom |
Dont listen to this guy. The old saying, two is better than one certainly applies here. |
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| Theresa |
| quote: | Originally posted by StalkerElmo
that's some good info right there but i'm pretty sure shes gonna be on birth control she's too young at this age, but yeah my best bet that i could only get is what you tell me about involving condoms, birth control i cant deal with it yet.. |
May I ask how old you are?
I think it is impressive that you're trying to figure out the safest way to have sex, however, perhaps you're just a little too young to be worrying about things like that.
Nevertheless, I would like to know because the age of the girl is important in case contracptives are getting involved. |
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| StalkerElmo |
| i'm 16 and she's 15.. very young indeed :nervous: |
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| StalkerElmo |
and no im not from states i'm from toronto, canada
i dont know about access to birth controls like should i just not have sex to risk up getting a baby or just use a condom and become extremely cautious while im having intercourse? |
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| dieselbambino69 |
| quote: | Originally posted by StalkerElmo
and no im not from states i'm from toronto, canada
i dont know about access to birth controls like should i just not have sex to risk up getting a baby or just use a condom and become extremely cautious while im having intercourse? |
put it in her pooper. this way u can tell her shes still technically a virgin |
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| Mebot |
yeah what tribu said
just pull out before you do the happy shudder dance and nug all over her boobs instead... and wear a condom too |
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| EvilTree |
The fact that you're 16 and you had sex already with your gf without thinking about pregnancy and prevention makes me wonder if you've got your head on straight. (At least you're asking advice now, so maybe you shouldn't be eliminated from the gene pool yet)
Weren't you paying attention during puberty class in grade 5? |
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| tribu |
| quote: | Originally posted by EvilTree
The fact that you're 16 and you had sex already with your gf without thinking about pregnancy and prevention makes me wonder if you've got your head on straight. (At least you're asking advice now, so maybe you shouldn't be eliminated from the gene pool yet)
Weren't you paying attention during puberty class in grade 5? |
+1
From what I can gather, birth control is avaliable to Canadians for a nominal price. Youll have to go through her parents until she turns 16. Maybe it would be wiser for you to wait until she turns 16 and has access to additionaly contraception before having sex again (I know this may not seem feasible, but cmon man).
(Also, if some Canadian TA, probably Theresa, can confirm this, thatd be nice too) |
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| smokeape |
No such thing as pre-cum? ONe little wiggler is all it takes. In fact, a whole pile of wigglers have got to fight amongst one another to get to the egg first on a full blow and then it might be chancey at that, depending on whether a fertile egg is present. If you have sex without a condom from the get go, then you're taking that chance. The chance might be slim indeed, but it's a chance nonetheless that you can't ignore unless your partner is using some kind of birth control herself to reduce the odds even further.
Don't worry too much. In the old days, we just used to worry about pulling out in time. Lol!!!!
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| Halcyon+On+On |
Very good post, Tribu. ;)
It would be good for you to not just refer to that information, but KNOW it - sex is a past-time for pretty much everybody, so there's no excuse to be ill-informed.
As I told TweeK once, there's not much we can do about you having sex, seeing as how we're not your parents, but whatever you do - JUST WEAR A CONDOM!!!:whip:
Even if you're just on a date - be wearing your condom the entire time! Ok, maybe not that extreme, but always carry some with you in your wallet or whatever it is Canadians use. :clown:
I think I heard once that latex (what condoms are made of) is only about 98% effective in birth-control. To be sure of things, pull out! As you said, you're both very young and, though you shouldn't even RISK having children, at the very least be absolutely safe about things.
I'm not sure about girls and how their age affects female-contraceptives, but there's plenty of options out there: diaphragms, pills, patches, day-after pill...don't they have a gum now? :p
Just be safe, please - you can't ruin your life this early. |
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| PhloTron |
No matter how much protection you use you inherit the risk of getting the girl prego...just like said...even if it's just a hand job, any bit of the mess getting downstairs means there is a chance...all be it .00001%
The only sure way to not get her prego is to not do her...and since that's not an option...do most of the stated above and hope that your prayers are always answered :) |
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