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Seeing your chick with another man (pg. 3)
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| Halcyon+On+On |
| You don't deserve her. |
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| Orbital32 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On
You don't deserve her. |
hahahhaa. that's cruel. But hey! Maybe's that's the truth. I would have at least been a little considerate and said "She doesn't deserve you."
I give you bonus points for being blunt! |
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| TweeK |
| quote: | Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On
You don't deserve her. |
Ouch!!:(
but maybe your right:o |
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| amit |
man just except it...you lost. your gf was digging someone other then you. you cant complain. you will look insecure if you punch him. you must face that your defeated. dont sweat it...as many girls rejected/cheated you...there 1000's of girls willing to rip your shirt off.
if i were you...i would still be friends. in case of your gf...act like she didnt even effect you. just ignore her! even though she cheated dont act like it had effected you in anyway. dont act needy! i would holler at other girls. remember your in control...she doesnt control your life
there are more things to worry about in life then a girl! |
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| Halcyon+On+On |
I'm sorry, TweeK, but judging by the importance you seem to attribute to this relationship and by your violent disposition, it just seems that you're not ready for this to be significant. There are things in this world worth fighting for, but silly pride and overreaction are not any of them. Your readiness to become violently judgemental at the mere contact between her and your friends seems as though you are only in this relationship to serve yourself. There's nothing wrong with that, I suppose, as it's quite common for about 99% of young people, but of the significant things worth getting in a fight over, your own clinginess to a relationship you obviously don't take seriously is just not one of them.
Don't fret though - it's never too late to calm yourself and accept the fact that you can't keep her in a little box forever. If she truly cares for you though, she won't run to the arms of another. If, however, she doesn't feel that strongly for you, then there's not much worth fighting over in the first place. You would only be acting out of anger -- something which dooms men from the beginning, much in the way that you perceive your life to already be heading towards in the first place. |
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| L.E.N. |
| I say call them on it. Sit both down at the same time. As pissed as you may be, get it over with. I dont think fighting will help your favor, allthough you might feel better at the moment. Its not like you cant go to a party and flirt/hookup with a new person. At least you know not to get too serious so soon. Play the field man, finding a "keeper" is really rare/hard when your that young. Have fun and find "friends with benifits". Enjoy it. |
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| TweeK |
| quote: | Originally posted by amit
man just except it...you lost. your gf was digging someone other then you. you cant complain. you will look insecure if you punch him. you must face that your defeated. dont sweat it...as many girls rejected/cheated you...there 1000's of girls willing to rip your shirt off.
if i were you...i would still be friends. in case of your gf...act like she didnt even effect you. just ignore her! even though she cheated dont act like it had effected you in anyway. dont act needy! i would holler at other girls. remember your in control...she doesnt control your life
there are more things to worry about in life then a girl! |
+1 Thats some good advice.
Like a said this guys a good person, id hate to lose his friendship.I known this guy far longer than this chick.And we been friends for a long time.
But then again i have lost some respect towards him and i wont see him again like i use to.Its going to be different now.
I know this might sound ignorant but i have no choice but to kick kick his ass.I dont want to be seen a being weak with the rest of my friends.
Its true what you say i have been defeated not matter what i do, she wants to be with this guy.And me kick this guys ass wont change things.I have to accept it.
Will see when i talk to her tommarow....i dont want to call her i want to see her in person.
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| Floorfiller |
if there is one thing i regret about past relationships...it's reacting off of emotion. i've been the same way...i would run every possible situation through my head and then settle on the worst as the truth...and basically by doing that i threw away a wonderful person...
maybe you should stop and think about your own behavior for a second. have you been jealous about a lot of things in the past? maybe it's your fault that you've pushed her into this older...more mature man's arms?
don't get me wrong...she's still a bitch and all, but you should at least recognize the possibilty that your actions are somewhat to blame.
i know it's hard to change your way of thinking, but if you don't and you are always suspicious of the people you date...you'll never have a good relationship...
now if only i could tell that to the person that matters... |
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| Halcyon+On+On |
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorfiller
don't get me wrong...she's still a bitch and all |
:haha:
| quote: | | now if only i could tell that to the person that matters... |
I know how you feel.
Something always tells me to not send the letter though. |
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| trewqy |
Well, something similar happened to me a couple of years back..
I saw me ex cuddling and kissing my friend at a McDonalds of all places...which was near my home, it was as if she wanted me to see it.
Anyways, confronted them, i shoved the aside but maintained my cool not to get overreactive..so i didnt beat him up. Asked her what the was goin on and didnt get an answer. I took a deep breath and went home. After some thinking, i realised I wasnt angry at her or my friend.I was most pissed up with myself, cause I simply wasnt "good" enough for her i guess. Yes, its an ego thing, but i never had a girl cheating on me.
Maybe she was a slut..i dunno..heh.. its pretty hard to get over it but time WILL cool u down and make u get over it. |
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| Orbital32 |
| Forget about your GF for 1 sec. YOUR FRIEND BACK STAB YOU! You probably should talk to him... after a few jabs. |
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On
I know how you feel.
Something always tells me to not send the letter though. |
yeah...oh man i was so tempted to call or send teh letter today, but i fought the urge...it's funny because we believe doings things like that will help in solving the problem, but ultimately it just makes matters worse.
i know that my only chance is to give more space and beat my jealous tendencies and hope that through my actions i'll prove that i've changed my outlook... |
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