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| Rodas |
I didn't want to be cliche and post another girl thread... But what the hell.... Here it goes.
I'm in a kind of ed up situation.
Last night a girl calls my friend to hang out. I didn't know if the details if he was trying to hook up with her or not, but this was my first meeting her and she was really suprisingly hot. The friends that she was with weren't so much, but she was... And why the hell do hot girls like to have ugly friends, to make themselves look better? Blah, that's another thread.
But anyway, to cut a long story short, in the first few minutes I didn't really know what she thought of me or whatever, I thought she was looking at me kind of funny but that could've just been the state of mind I was in (we started to drink early).
So this girl he brought us to meet starts talking to me. And a few minutes into the converstation she starts to feel on my leg under my shorts with her fingernails and etc. It happened more than once. I thought, what the ? Is she making a pass at me in front of my friend that she's talking to? Even though she tried to make it not "too" noticable, I'm pretty sure he noticed. She wasn't exactly very slick about it. When she wasn't around I asked him what was up between them and he just shrugged it off. When another friend asked if he ed her he sais he didn't, but who knows (don't know why he would deny it, she's hot).
When I asked what they were doing later she invited us to dinner with her and even later when we all started drinking, I kept talking to her and she kept flirting with me (putting her hand on my lap, etc).. She drank a bit too much, and was ed up so she asks if I want to walk her out, I do, and her and her friend leave.
I think she was something like an x-girlfriend to him or something, but I asked if she was single and she gave me a "yes" like she was interested. Yea yea, x-girlfriends are off limit. But I kinda dig her and want to hang with her again, even if it is as friends or something.
I didn't get her number or anything because I didn't know how that would look to my friend, and since it is kinda his x-girlfriend for s sake. I haven't spoken to my friend about it and I don't want to make him feel like I'm trying to steal his chicks because even though people act like they don't care, you never know. I have a friend who ed another of my friends x-girlfriend and they don't really get along anymore, so I don't know where to take this..
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| ierxium |
| Did you have money on your lap? |
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| Aristronica |
i'd talk it over with him first, nothing better than a direct approach to the situation, don't beat around the bush
depending on his answer and your own personal feelings you may make the following decision.
he says go for it - you go for it
he says he's uncomfortable - you decide whether his friendship or some grade a is more suitable for you
only advice i have on that aspect is that good friends are hard to find while there is plenty of grade a to find, and since one is interested basically others will be interested too
maybe this should give you some self-confidence to go talk to other hotties instead of waiting for your friends to bring some around. |
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| Rodas |
| quote: | Originally posted by ierxium
Did you have money on your lap? |
Haha, no, I wish. I could use some money right now though, I'm broke as .
I get what your trying to say though, but no I didn't =). |
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| Rodas |
| quote: | Originally posted by Aristronica
maybe this should give you some self-confidence to go talk to other hotties instead of waiting for your friends to bring some around. |
I don't really "wait" on friends to bring chicks around, it's just in instances like this, happendes.
But advice is good. Thanks. |
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| Spartan |
it really depends on how long he dated her, how many gf's he's had, etc.
although my gut is if he's still friends with the girl after he dated her, it shouldn't be that big of a deal if you go out with her, b/c he obviously doesn't mind her being around.
you know your friend not us, you have to make the call on this one matey:thepirate |
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| Aristronica |
| quote: | Originally posted by Nou
Im gunna save the trouble and just say...
hit that .
that will be your conclusion no matter what people say in this thread. |
the beauty of thinking with your penis |
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| Ibizadreamer AG |
| Kegel exercises are the ! |
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| Michael19 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Aristronica
i'd talk it over with him first, nothing better than a direct approach to the situation, don't beat around the bush
depending on his answer and your own personal feelings you may make the following decision.
he says go for it - you go for it
he says he's uncomfortable - you decide whether his friendship or some grade a is more suitable for you
only advice i have on that aspect is that good friends are hard to find while there is plenty of grade a to find, and since one is interested basically others will be interested too
maybe this should give you some self-confidence to go talk to other hotties instead of waiting for your friends to bring some around. |
spot on. DOnt do anything till you talk to your friend about it. |
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| Spike |
| shoulda f'ed her when u had the chance....too bad. NEXT:rolleyes: |
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