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| TOR |
does it only work when women do it?
let's just say i'm mildly interested in someone.. i know she's into me, but i'm not quite sure about my feelings yet.. so i'm maintaining a distance at the moment.. but i certainly don't want to push her away or anything. it's just that i don't really know what's going on in a girl's mind if the guy is playing hard to get.. (my feelings are usually very clear, hehe). so does she give up quickly or does it make things even more interesting for her?
ladies, give me your answers! :D |
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by TOR
does it only work when women do it?
let's just say i'm mildly interested in someone.. i know she's into me, but i'm not quite sure about my feelings yet.. so i'm maintaining a distance at the moment.. but i certainly don't want to push her away or anything. it's just that i don't really know what's going on in a girl's mind if the guy is playing hard to get.. (my feelings are usually very clear, hehe). so does she give up quickly or does it make things even more interesting for her?
ladies, give me your answers! :D |
i'd say don't play too hard...definitely be flirtatious, but not "omg i wanna do you"
girls like a challenge, but they have enough opportunities out there they ain't gonna try too hard... |
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| Moral Hazard |
| When I met my fiancee I played hard to get for about 36 seconds.... she loved it! |
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| jonze234 |
| quote: | Originally posted by TOR
ladies, give me your answers! :D |
when i read this i was going to type some jackass comment like "*waits for floorfiller to respond" and then i hit the refresh button and he had already responded.
but he did give good advice |
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| brashy |
| men should do the hard 2 get part, not women. feminism has sucked out all the manhood in today's men |
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| kr00t0n |
| It's better to just play hard, women love that ;) |
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| Estella |
| quote: | Originally posted by brashy
men should do the hard 2 get part, not women. feminism has sucked out all the manhood in today's men |
hahaa marry me, my love. |
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by kr00t0n
It's better to just play hard, women love that ;) |
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by brashy
men should do the hard 2 get part, not women. feminism has sucked out all the manhood in today's men |
where have alllll the cowboooys gooooone doo dooo doo do doo do... |
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| brashy |
| quote: | Originally posted by Estella
hahaa marry me, my love. |
sorry to say this, but it's not that easy... you have to get thru some serious testing before |
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| Slylee |
| it's such a waste of time and energy...i mean a little bit of it within the first few weeks or first couple of dates (or TRYING to get those dates) is cool, but anything after that annoys me. it's better to just be yourself and commincate and be confident. people who play hard to get and get really into it and play games even after months are sketchy in my opinion. it's usually a sign of insecurity and confusion...and if that's the case i'm not interested. |
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| Estella |
| quote: | Originally posted by brashy
sorry to say this, but it's not that easy... you have to get thru some serious testing before |
haha! you make me tingle .
hahaaa im kidding.. ? |
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